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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/14/2009 11:39:28 AM

pyroaquatic

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I would not call it a housework fetish....

maybe obsessive compulsive. I HATE seeing dirty places... dirty dirty nasty dirtiness....

ick ick...

Cleaning is my forte and while I do not get off on doing the housework, seeing the end result (ie order, shininess) and a happy Domme is wonderful.

While doing it I tend to not think as much. It saves me from the thoughts in my own head.

Heaven forbid when you step on my freshly mopped floor. Dominant or not you will not hear the end of it. I get vicious.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/14/2009 12:54:54 PM

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I just love the housework fetish.As a submissive man nothing gets me going more than doing housework for a Dominant woman.I know it is called no strings housework,but it should be called housework fetish.What do you Mistresses think of someone doing all your housework for you ?
Does it appeal to you in anyway?

I love the idea of a no-strings housework sub! I have absolutely no trouble aceepting gifts of labor from someone I'm in a relationship with. But I've never been able to follow through with a no-strings housework sub. I'm suspicious; the arrangement just seems too good to be true. He's getting a charge out of fetishing around my house and I'm not, or I'm getting my house cleaned and he's getting nothing. Either way, it squicks me. Perhaps I have a mutuality kink.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/14/2009 1:44:54 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pyroaquatic

Cleaning is my forte and while I do not get off on doing the housework, seeing the end result (ie order, shininess) and a happy Domme is wonderful.

Totally makes sense to me.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/14/2009 5:59:30 PM

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Pyro, you have a great attitude! Some Domme is going to be very lucky to have you, and I'm sure you'll feel just as fortunate to have her!

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/16/2009 10:07:39 AM

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A regular Felix Unger in a chastity device.... Seeing a slave on their knees scrubbing my floors and a spotless house, is the quickest way to end up down stairs in my dungeon.....

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/16/2009 10:11:56 AM

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On the way down to the dungeon try not to step on my freshly mopped floors thank you very muchly.

I don't think I am that uptight but I do like the suits.

Odd.

^_^

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/16/2009 11:07:26 AM

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This post reminds me of a discussion I saw about "no-strings housework", and as I see here, many Dommes felt that it truly didn't exist. It seems that many subs would offer to clean house, but then want to add the condition of doing it naked, or dressed a certain way. That was part of their "fetish". While they enjoyed housework, part of the enjoyment came from how they looked while doing it, and it didn't seem to matter if the Domme wanted that or not.

As far as my vote, I enjoy having my boy clean my house!

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/16/2009 11:17:59 AM

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So Pyro... when are you moving to my area?

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/16/2009 11:29:51 AM

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Yes, but that is not very controlling.... deciding what I get to wear... or what not to wear. Whatever my Lady wants, she will get. That is what presses my buttons so to speak.

Although I do have a fascination with wearing a butlers outfit, as I have stated before. Mmmm...... Bowler Derby.

Ms Starlett, as soon as I learn to clone myself. All of these ladies want to possess me now and my family needs me. Tisk tisk tisk....

a sad day indeed.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/16/2009 11:44:10 AM

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Isn't it amazing how that happens? A cute young man admits to being useful, and suddenly he's a hot commodity. One would think that others would catch on.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/16/2009 5:19:56 PM

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quote:

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I just love the housework fetish.As a submissive man nothing gets me going more than doing housework for a Dominant woman.I know it is called no strings housework,but it should be called housework fetish.What do you Mistresses think of someone doing all your housework for you ?
Does it appeal to you in anyway?

You do all the housework while I get to relax? Does this appeal to Me? HECK YEAH!!

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/16/2009 6:09:32 PM

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These threads have come up with some regularity here, and most of the feeback from Dommes is that there is some sort of trojan horse built into the service sub, aka, "no strings housework" is mostly a lure to get a relationship of some sort started.

There, that's my wet blanket contribution.....

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/16/2009 6:26:31 PM

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Well now that depends of what's your idea of doing house work, do you need the Domme standing over you barking orders and constantly directing you, do you expect to be sissified and made to prance around and LOOK like you're cleaning, or are you get in there get down to the knitty gritty and allow the Domme the free time to go do something else while you are keeping on the ball with out her looming over you.

If you're the first type, then no. Domme's are not going to be interested in you, unless they want the whole lord over you while you pretend to clean, If the second, then yes there's interest.

quote:

ORIGINAL: slavemick63

I just love the housework fetish.As a submissive man nothing gets me going more than doing housework for a Dominant woman.I know it is called no strings housework,but it should be called housework fetish.What do you Mistresses think of someone doing all your housework for you ?
Does it appeal to you in anyway?

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/16/2009 6:35:50 PM

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I have in the past done no string house work, of course they were people I considered friends already, and I cleaned their house or helped them clean their house because I enjoyed helping out a friend.

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I would love to get rid of the no strings housework thing! I'd vote for the housework fetish title. The no strings housework seems to start with a lie because few have no strings. Right or wrong...

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/17/2009 1:50:22 AM

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Hehehe even though Master and I have downsized to a 33 foot mobile home ... We'd STILL love to find a housework fetish boy! Anyone for a nice trip around Australia? Just BYOB in a small campervan and park alongside us!

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/17/2009 8:07:47 AM

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LadyJulieAnn, while a lot do have that attitude, I found a couple who were focused on being *helpful*, not on being naked or wearing specific clothes, or trading housecleaning for play. Like TFTB, I've also done NSA housework when a friend was injured or ill or feeling overwhelmed, but only when they were a friend who I already cared about. If someone invites me over for dinner, I think it's just good manners to help with the dishes or other cleanup afterward!

One of the dominant men I met here came and helped me out NSA at an event, on our first date. It was just schlepping computer stuff and other heavy things around, though, not doing housework, but I really appreciated it. When I wrote a thread about it, a lot of the submissive guys felt like if they did something similar, I/whoever the lady was would be taking advantage of them or taking them for granted. The two dominant guys who posted seemed to feel it was perfectly reasonable, and a good way for him to make a positive first impression.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/17/2009 11:45:47 AM

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Housework...no strings...honest..whos first?

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/17/2009 11:47:00 AM

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Housework...no strings...honest..whos first?

Me first, since there's no strings. I fuckin' need the house cleaned badly.........

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/17/2009 4:22:21 PM

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I had met someone from here that was no strings housework.
she would be seriously...overjoyed if I had a sinkful of dishes.
she would get so caught up in cleaning one thing I would have to stop her so she could make sure everything got done.
I think shes close to having a housework fetish.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/18/2009 3:58:37 AM

MsStarlett

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Housework...no strings...honest..whos first?

Do you have one horn growing out of the middle of your forehead?

Honestly, the only sub male's that have offered to clean my house will ONLY do it if they are nude or dresses as a french maid. I'm always afraid those are the ones who are going to flounce around with a feather duster and totally ignore the dishes in the sink and the dog hair in the corners.

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It is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed,
the hands acquire shakes, the shakes become a warning,
It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

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