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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/18/2009 8:08:05 AM   
elegantcdgoddess


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Status: offline 		fetish is sexual attraction to inanimate object. Since housework is not an object, and btw legs, feet are not inanimate, i dont think that can be classified as fetish. Oh boy, i need to write to my journal again.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/18/2009 10:18:33 AM   
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always in the same spot too.


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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/18/2009 3:17:30 PM   
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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/19/2009 6:44:31 AM   
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fetish is sexual attraction to inanimate object. Since housework is not an object, and btw legs, feet are not inanimate, i dont think that can be classified as fetish. Oh boy, i need to write to my journal again.


I agree with you that fetish does not mean an activity that one enjoys. Ergo one cannot have a "Golf Fetish" in the sense that one likes to play and practice golf, the fetish aspect would have to relate to either the clothes or the equipment.

A better title to this thread would be: housework enthusiast -- or housework gets me off.

On the other hand consider:

> a course of action to which one has an excessive and irrational commitment : "he had a fetish for writing more opinions each year than any other justice."<

Here the word is used with an activity....

If fetish can be applied to activities, I think it defeats the purpose of the word.... but I guess the point of distinction is "excessive" and "irrational" -- which is a far cry from sexually arousing and seems more akin to obsession.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 8/19/2009 9:08:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		since word fetish is more and more adopted into main stream it will gain more meanings. Simply, fetish will become anything that is potentially profitable.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/8/2009 3:09:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have always been service oriented, but have gradually winnowed my interests down to no strings
housework. 

For me, this winnowing was also a process of maturation.  It was a growing acceptance of the fact
that most women really do not want or need a human horse, a human pig or a human toilet...  and
I asked myself, really, what is this about?  And I did my best to pretty much leave my youthful fantasies
behind, and began to culture interests in domestic service.  I began to subscribe to housekeeping blogs. 
practiced my ironing. etc.  and eventually, really, a swiffer became something of a turn on.  I have my little
caddy of cleaning products.  Caldrea is a treat.  For me the point was to turn cleaning--normal cleaning
that is, fully 'normally' dressed etc.-- into a primary need/sex replacement. This was a conscious process
of fetishizing non-sexual domestic service.  And you know what?  It is an incredible turn on because it
is real.  I am doing the dishes.  I am making the bed.  I am really giving up significant blocks of time to
do this.  And it is really satisfying to be in kitchen cleaning, while a woman is relaxing someplace else. 
There is this wonderful, oh my God I am really doing this feeling.  I like to think of it as a form of gender
reparations.  Imagine all the things that women put up with and accustom themselves to.  What makes me
so special?  I want to give this to a strong woman.




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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/8/2009 3:55:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would love for someone who digs housework to clean up after my cats' 'on-purposes', to clean their litter pans, and to do laundry.  That would be fantastic!!!  :>  I also want a unicorn and a castle, lol!  :> 
And, kudos to the person earlier in the thread for trying to advoicate the proper use of hte term fetish. 
  Davan



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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/8/2009 4:06:49 PM   
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Oh...wait. =o)

Good thing that practically all my socks have logos of some sort on them.


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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/8/2009 4:18:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't wear socks often, lol!  :>  But, I'm trying to decide if I'm highly impressed that you fold your socks or if that time could be re-allocated.  I'll have to get back to you on that one. 
The question is, though: how do you feel about cat on-purposes and litter pans?  Lol!  ;> 
  Davan

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/8/2009 4:25:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DavanKael

I don't wear socks often, lol!  :>  But, I'm trying to decide if I'm highly impressed that you fold your socks or if that time could be re-allocated.  I'll have to get back to you on that one. 
The question is, though: how do you feel about cat on-purposes and litter pans?  Lol!  ;> 
Davan


I should introduce You to "Loliver". Or as I like to call him: Fatass.

=o)

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/8/2009 4:44:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		Is that the puppy in your pic?  I fear for what would become of a dog once my cats rallied their forces...unless a dog was a watersports enthusiast, I fear a dog would quickly develop a complex.  Rofl contemplating a multi-cat urine attack on a dog. 
I'm still not sure you answered the question about on-purposes and litter pans, thought.  :>
  Davan

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/8/2009 4:53:09 PM   
pyroaquatic


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Status: offline 		Lady Pact might swoop him up Devan! He mentioned SOCKS!!!

....right now I have a Pippin, Rubien, Scooter, Peanut, and Simba.

Peanut and Pippin are not spaded or nuetered and we keep a door between the two. Unfortunately this cannot keep their cat-mews apart......

allllll nigght long.

cats.... will... drive.... me.... bats.

I can do up to three.... but this is MADNESS!

*although they are sooo cute....*


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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/8/2009 5:00:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DavanKael

Is that the puppy in your pic?  I fear for what would become of a dog once my cats rallied their forces...unless a dog was a watersports enthusiast, I fear a dog would quickly develop a complex.  Rofl contemplating a multi-cat urine attack on a dog. 
I'm still not sure you answered the question about on-purposes and litter pans, thought.  :>
Davan


Thats Ragan (pronounced like the Ex-pres Ronald Reagan). He's full grown - a Pappillon. I'm by far a cat person, but he just about converted me, >.<

My ex roomie had like 9 animals in total: 5 cats, and 4 dogs. That number has dwindled a bit, because she had to put down 3 animals last year due to age - Mudd (an Opsa Lopsa - if thats how its spelled), Trixie (a sheltie) and Binkley (a calico cat - 18 years old I think, in human years)

Part of my responsibilities were helping out with cleaning /changing the cat litters (all 6 pans - 3 upstairs, 3 downstairs, in the basement) although, I didn't really help, I was the one that did it, lol.

Hell, Oliver is the type of cat that'll gorge on food, then puke it up 5 minutes later from over eating. This is after he comes into my room, jumps on the bed, plops all 15 lbs of himself on my chest, and purrs 2 inches from my face, "subtley" reminding me that it's time to feed him.

So, cleaning up cat "stuff" doesn't phase me.

=oP

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/8/2009 5:24:34 PM   
pyroaquatic


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Status: offline 		I would have died in that house blackpearl (arrrrrrrg!).

I am already dying in this house from the allergens.

Of course the cleaning helps. Ionizers too.

is this romance I smell?


< Message edited by pyroaquatic -- 9/8/2009 5:25:06 PM >

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/8/2009 5:33:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: pyroaquatic

I would have died in that house blackpearl (arrrrrrrg!).

I am already dying in this house from the allergens.

Of course the cleaning helps. Ionizers too.

is this romance I smell?



I hear you - it was bad enough that their entire property was ringed with various plants - specifically, several Lilac bushes in some of the beds.

There were definitely moments of hilarity - like when Cutter (a blue merle sheltie) would chase Oliver, and Oliver would jump up on the counter. Dog + tile floor + no traction+cabinet.

Heh. But, we got all the animals back.

Last Halloween, she bought (and I kid you not) costumes. For the animals.

I'll have to post them sometime. XD

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/8/2009 6:30:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		Normally I would not step in to disagree, but I do think that fetish is an appropriate usage, and a very relevant usage from my own perspective.  From the OED:

  • Something irrationally reverenced (1837)
  • An object, a non-sexual part of the body, or a particular action which abnormally serves as the stimulus to, or the end in itself of, sexual desire (1901)

Many, but certainly not all, fetishes deal with objects.  I think the key is rather that a fetish is an abnormally strong interest or sexual desire in an object or action.  So for example, a man aroused by women in high heels would not be a fetish, but if he fixates on the high heels to the exclusion of further and broader activity, then it is a fetish.

The reason I bring this up, is that I think fetishes can be cultured, and can be useful.  In my own case, I was not born being sexually excited by housework, rather I began to read and to masturbate and to think about housework as a means of harnessing my sexuality in a way which helped me be a better slave.  Although there are physical objects attached to the activity (mops, brooms, the vacuum, a swiffer etc.), by an large this abnormal interest is rooted in the action itself.  I have "fetishized" the activity of housework, and as such, it makes it appealing to offer no strings housework.  Gradually the housework has become something of an end in and of itself.   I am largely celibate and certainly would not masturbate or gain an erection while I was cleaning.  though this housework is certainly more meaningful to me when it is performed for a strong woman.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/8/2009 7:23:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		Pyro, you misspelled my name.  :> 

Blackpearl81: Dogs rock too.  :>  You cleaned 6 litterpans?  Without complaint?  (Davan is awe-struck at this as my ex- used to pitch such a hissy fit you'd have thought I was asking the man to be anally violated while being submerged in toxic waste or something, lol!). And, how about carpet-cleaning on a nearly constant basis when they decide that the litterpans aren't to their liking or they just want to make a statement?  There would be certain retaliation if I attempted to costume them...and, as I'm not particularly into humiliation of the kitties (Or having my pillow whizzed on in retaliation), their fur is all the fabulousness they need in terms of attire!  :> 

Thinankles: Surely you are aware that the psychological community has advanced beyond the Victorian era?  :> 
Davan

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/8/2009 7:26:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		I apologize Davan. Sleep deprivation coupled with a fizzy brain.... :/

-_-

There is no excuse, however.



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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/8/2009 7:47:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DavanKael

Pyro, you misspelled my name.  :> 

Blackpearl81: Dogs rock too.  :>  You cleaned 6 litterpans?  Without complaint?  (Davan is awe-struck at this as my ex- used to pitch such a hissy fit you'd have thought I was asking the man to be anally violated while being submerged in toxic waste or something, lol!). And, how about carpet-cleaning on a nearly constant basis when they decide that the litterpans aren't to their liking or they just want to make a statement?  There would be certain retaliation if I attempted to costume them...and, as I'm not particularly into humiliation of the kitties (Or having my pillow whizzed on in retaliation), their fur is all the fabulousness they need in terms of attire!  :> 

Thinankles: Surely you are aware that the psychological community has advanced beyond the Victorian era?  :> 
Davan


Well.... my only complaint was when it'd be all of 10 degrees outside, and I'd have to do it. But that was also because I had to rinse them out & wait for them to dry so the litter wouldn't get wet.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/8/2009 8:01:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DavanKael

I would love for someone who digs housework to clean up after my cats' 'on-purposes', to clean their litter pans, and to do laundry.  That would be fantastic!!!  :>  I also want a unicorn and a castle, lol!  :> 
And, kudos to the person earlier in the thread for trying to advoicate the proper use of hte term fetish. 
  Davan




We used to call our cats' on-purposes "protestments" ... they only ever did it when they were protesting something lol

At the moment, we need help keeping up with puppy house-training failures ... any volunteers??? lol


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