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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/12/2009 4:24:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've been tempted lately to call up a boy I know from Lafayette ... he likes to clean, especially for someone else, and it always bothers him to know that I'm cleaning the house myself lol. Unfortunately, I still don't really want anyone else messing with my things, plus he doesn't have a car of his own, so I'd have to go get him, bring him here, then take him back ... 2 rounds trips to Lafayette from here just ain't happening.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/12/2009 6:16:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		it sounds pretty darned hot. i really need to find a master that will permit this. it would save me a lot of work. i just need to spin it well so it's a win/win for all of us. 

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/12/2009 11:04:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		Randomly .. does the housework fetish include yardwork? I could let someone mow the lawn and get rid of the weeds and such - even till up where we want to plant our garden next year ....lol

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/12/2009 11:08:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		There was a gentleman on the boards awhile back who described travelling quite extensively to do outdoor/construction-type work/projects for ladies.  I haven't seen him in awhile but he spoke rather well on his desire to serve and I believe he expressed that what he asked in return for painting a deck or something of the sort was that the lady wear some heels that he had purchased and brought for her and that she speak with him a bit, in a kind but not overtly sexual fashion during his stay. 
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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/12/2009 11:48:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		hmmm... not so sure about the heels - I tend to twist my ankles in them LOL Speaking to him wouldn't be a big deal though - at the least, I'd have to warn him when I'm letting the dogs outside

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/13/2009 10:43:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		The work he described having done on the lady's house was in the $1k range and he paid for his travel costs (Flew from several states away...FL to TX or some such).  I mean, it wasn't changing lightbulbs.  I'd wear the heels, hell, I'd get some blisters over that sort of financial savings where all parties felt was if they were doing well out of the situation!  :> 
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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/13/2009 10:46:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

I've been tempted lately to call up a boy I know from Lafayette ... he likes to clean, especially for someone else, and it always bothers him to know that I'm cleaning the house myself lol. Unfortunately, I still don't really want anyone else messing with my things, plus he doesn't have a car of his own, so I'd have to go get him, bring him here, then take him back ... 2 rounds trips to Lafayette from here just ain't happening.


Weekly, no. But every few months for an intensive spring cleaning would work.

But having him do the planting isn't any good if he isn't going to show up regularly to weed.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/14/2009 2:18:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyJulieAnn

This post reminds me of a discussion I saw about "no-strings housework", and as I see here, many Dommes felt that it truly didn't exist. It seems that many subs would offer to clean house, but then want to add the condition of doing it naked, or dressed a certain way. That was part of their "fetish". While they enjoyed housework, part of the enjoyment came from how they looked while doing it, and it didn't seem to matter if the Domme wanted that or not.

As far as my vote, I enjoy having my boy clean my house!

You just named my one big angst about "no strings".
Many years ago my first sub was a high ranking business man by day and my little cleaning pony by night. He LOVED cleaning my floors. For hours he'd scrub the hardwoods by hand, clean baseboards with a tooth brush and leap to his feet to get me another drink while I watched. Call me spoiled but that's what I like...a man with a mission.
CATCH is so many of the "I luv to clean" boys insist on trying to do it in their cute little maid outfits. They want to flit around, bend over, and play cute little girly maid...like that's something I should automatically desire. There's the whole "all twue Dommes like" conversation if you get angry that tasks haven't actually been performed and no actual cleaning has been accomplished. But gee don't they look so cute in the outfit they insisted on wearing in front of the neighbors!! GRRR

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/14/2009 2:31:31 PM   
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Gender and sexuality are an obvious dividing line for many, but I think from my own perspective that class/education
boundaries are trickier and more difficult and perhaps an even more taboo subject.  I never read discussions concerning
cross class relationships (perhaps because Americans tend to discount the existence of class boundaries).


Not true I took GREAT PLEASURE in the fact that my little cleaner was a high ranking fortune 500 exec by day. Now if just hadn't been a married liar...

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/14/2009 2:33:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

Randomly .. does the housework fetish include yardwork? I could let someone mow the lawn and get rid of the weeds and such - even till up where we want to plant our garden next year ....lol

Sure hot lawn boy can also double as cabana boy and/or pool boy on a warm summer day. :)

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/14/2009 2:44:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: theRose4U

quote:

Gender and sexuality are an obvious dividing line for many, but I think from my own perspective that class/education
boundaries are trickier and more difficult and perhaps an even more taboo subject.  I never read discussions concerning
cross class relationships (perhaps because Americans tend to discount the existence of class boundaries).


Not true I took GREAT PLEASURE in the fact that my little cleaner was a high ranking fortune 500 exec by day. Now if just hadn't been a married liar...


Caveat emptor.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/14/2009 2:47:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

I've been tempted lately to call up a boy I know from Lafayette ... he likes to clean, especially for someone else, and it always bothers him to know that I'm cleaning the house myself lol. Unfortunately, I still don't really want anyone else messing with my things, plus he doesn't have a car of his own, so I'd have to go get him, bring him here, then take him back ... 2 rounds trips to Lafayette from here just ain't happening.


Tell him to get walking. :D
Exercise him a bit before he cleans. Sure he may not like it but after so much of that imagine how 'buff' and sexy he will feel. All sweaty.


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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/14/2009 4:35:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		LOL pyro. I'm afraid someone would pick him up and kidnap him on the way - he's a cutie, just not what we are looking for in a full time submissive, or he'd most likely already be living here anyway.

At this point, I just want someone to mow my yard and take care of the weeds (preferably without damaging the siding like Holly's cousin did *gggrrrrrr*)

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/14/2009 10:58:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		Our pet Dainty does a good job of keeping the house and yard maintained and clean. It was my decision that he start wearing feminine attire and I really like the way it helps him feel more submissive. I really don't see him wearing pants anytime in the foreseeable future.   I personally don't believe that a no strings housework relationship can last for long if there is no interaction between both parties. For any relationship to last there has to be a little give and take. Sometimes all you have to do is make them feel controlled. It could be as simple as making them wear a locked collar around their neck while doing the work. Or maybe a hobble chain between their ankles. After they are done cleaning  lead them around the house on a leash as you inspect their work maybe with their hands cuffed behind their back.Before dismissing them and sending them home bend them over something and give them a spanking with a paddle, not as a punishment or reward for their work but as a reminder that you are in control. All of these can be done with practically no physical touching at all but can be enjoyable to the sub and mistress too. Throw in some protocol to keep it formal.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/21/2009 5:42:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

Isn't it amazing how that happens?  A cute young man admits to being useful, and suddenly he's a hot commodity.  One would think that others would catch on.


In that case for the record if I could find a local woman who would let me do housework nude while she watched I'd be a happy boy :)

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/21/2009 6:50:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		And that right there is the problem that most guys have. Personally, I don't want some random person (male or female) naked in my house. And if I have to watch them clean? What exactly is the point? In my opinion, the point of having someone else clean is so that I can do other things, like work on training the puppies, or read, or watch a movie, or sleep - whatever I feel like doing. If I have to watch the person clean ... bah, I might as well be right there helping them so that it's done sooner and I can get on with whatever it is that I want to do.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/21/2009 11:06:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		I agree with you, SweetDommes: some attention to give praise, direction, correction would be fine, 
high-maintenance, micromanagement-intensive creatures, not my cup of tea (And likely to bring out my sadistic streak). 
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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/22/2009 5:50:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		Exactly, DavanKael - I have no problems inspecting the work after it's done to make sure that it's done right (giving criticism/praise as needed), and of course, I would give him instructions before beginning rather than setting him up to fail ... but to have to watch ... *yawn* no thanks.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/27/2009 4:31:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		Come on now, housework is a hard & dirty job, except if you are doing it naked and there is a scantily-clad,
 
 stiletto-heeled Mistress,  flexing a riding crop strutting about, then it becomes pure pleasure. 
 
Wow, what a thought.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/27/2009 5:01:33 AM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		Keep dreaming. Maybe once in a great while that would be ok ... but seriously - this is real life. I have better things to do than sit around watching someone do the housework. I'd rather read, or watch a movie, or play with our dogs, or go visit family. Watching someone clean is NOT my idea of fun or entertaining. Maybe if you were paying me to do so, then I'd do it - but that moves me into the realm of 'Pro' and I really don't have a desire to go there.

I'd rather clean myself (and I detest cleaning) than have to put up with the demands of a boy wanting "no strings housework" but then requires to be naked, or in a french maid outfit, or whatever silly thing, and/or wants me to watch him do it. Blah.

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