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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/27/2009 5:37:43 AM   
thesubmissiveboy


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Status: offline 		I know I'm really late into this topic, but I just wanted to express my love for housework too. I am quite an organised person anyway and my house is tidy, but the idea and past experiences of cleaning and tidying, or doing most chores around the house for a beautiful lady is incredibly satisfying for me. And the great thing is, I get a thrill out of it and the house becomes nice and shiny again.

It's not about someone watching me do it, but the idea of making someone happy and their life easier.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/27/2009 5:42:18 AM   
CarrieO


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quote:

ORIGINAL: choccywoc

Come on now, housework is a hard & dirty job, except if you are doing it naked and there is a scantily-clad,
 
 stiletto-heeled Mistress,  flexing a riding crop strutting about, then it becomes pure pleasure. 
 
Wow, what a thought.


And then you woke up.

I guess this scenerio could work if all I wanted was some guy to come do a quick dust and polish to the place.  Or if I lived in some Manhattan penthouse where I already had a regular cleaning service come weekly and therefore the place would be fairly pristine to start with.
I could met you at the door in YOUR requested outfit...scantily clad and in stillettos...and have you strip, just as YOU wanted to and let you get to "work".  I could follow you around, crop in hand, and berate every little speck of dust you missed, swatting as needed.  Right, I could play the scene out just as YOU wanted it...and then YOU could pay ME for my time!

Or.....you could show up, work clothes on, ready to actually help clean my place.  Wanting to do so because it pleases ME which in turn would please you, while allowing me time to relax and focus on other things that I need to do.  You could do the work, regardless of what I choose to wear, because it brings you pleasure to serve.  Finally, you wouldn't need a "helicoptor domme" hovering over you, micro-managing everything because you're a grown man who takes pride in a job well done and has the ability to please his Lady regardless of his fantasies.

And then I wake up only to realize I'd be better off just hiring the cleaning service.

< Message edited by CarrieO -- 9/27/2009 5:51:18 AM >

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/27/2009 9:50:49 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: thesubmissiveboy
It's not about someone watching me do it, but the idea of making someone happy and their life easier.



Damn.  UK.  Might as well be over the rainbow.  *sigh*

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/27/2009 9:54:22 AM   
thesubmissiveboy


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Status: offline 		Ha ha, only a plane journey away.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/27/2009 1:14:02 PM   
looking4princess


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Status: offline 		Sorry to be late to this thread but i have to agree with the Ladies. i can't see the benefit for them in a one off venture. This is all about the OP's needs. So yeah, it's his fetish but why should anyone else care. i have done yard work, chores, etc but within a loving relationship. i was genuinly happy to please my Lady and happier for any rewards i might garner, but she never had to follow me around to make sure things were done to her satisfaction. If the landscaping did not meet with her approval she would instruct me so and it would be corrected. Just hard work. No special thrill. If the OP is getting a thrill than it is his fetish and the Lady's identity seems inconsequential, isn't it?

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/27/2009 1:33:13 PM   
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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/27/2009 4:17:04 PM   
MsStarlett


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Status: offline 		I actually enjoy gardening.  I'd be thrilled to find a boy who enjoys working WITH me on the yard.  I have no problem getting my hands dirty.  But any job is more pleasant when shared.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/28/2009 3:00:04 AM   
choccywoc


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Status: offline 		You are right of course, so many more important things to be doing.
 
Housework is a hard and dirty job, the rest, i just got carried away with silly thoughts.
 
Perhaps i should become a boss and get a girl to do my housework, i could happily watch her.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/28/2009 6:42:07 AM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		If that's what you want to do, then more power to you ... but I still think it's rather silly to do so. If you are watching all the work being done, then you might as well be doing it yourself since it doesn't save you any time. If I am going to have someone in my house cleaning, then I want it done in a way that actually helps me. I want to be able to do whatever I need or want to be doing instead of following them around making sure it's done right or whatever excuse is used. I can inspect after the work is done, I don't need to watch over them every moment.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 9/28/2009 7:07:58 AM   
choccywoc


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Status: offline 		Of course i don't need to be supervised all the time....then i woke up!

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 11/9/2009 3:21:57 AM   
sflds43


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Status: offline 		i agree with slavemic as i also have same fetish. i think this is a hard thing to accomplish because many do not really believe it's a real no strings fetish. i've been searching about 2-3 years and still looking for someone local that i could build enough trust for tihs kind of regular service. i did have one encounter, but She wanted to get involved.

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 11/9/2009 8:59:19 AM   
sflds43


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Status: offline 		i would just love to do the housework, yard work and chores that make Her life more easier. i know it's my place and purpose. And i don't expect anything in return. If You're near NWI, please get to know me. 

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 11/10/2009 12:31:34 AM   
stiv2009


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Status: offline 		Hmmmm - this thread seems a bit questionable to me. I can certainly understand why people do selfless things: either for love or for some higher calling. Tidying the house of one's mistress, or spending one's holiday volunteering in Africa. Yes, both of these things are totally comprehensible. However, the example presented here: essentially enhancing the dwellings of a middle-class spinster - for its own sake! - sorry, I just can't see the attraction in this, and moreover, find it lacking in human dignity. If you get off on housework so much, why not do it for a poor couple? Or bachelors? Or maybe people with special needs who seriously do find housework difficult. People who might genuinely need it. But no! It seems it has to be for a single white collar broad.

Seriously, guys into this, question your motives, and ask if it is consistent with being a dignified human being. If you find it is not, but still cannot stop this mania to feather and dust, start stealing things! You can start out unobtrusively (take a few cds from their cases) - and gradually progress up to the jewellry box. At least then you will find some just recompense. But really.......

Steve

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 11/10/2009 12:54:03 AM   
GYPSYMAMBO


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quote:

ORIGINAL: stiv2009

sorry, I just can't see the attraction in this, and moreover, find it lacking in human dignity.
Seriously, guys into this, question your motives, and ask if it is consistent with being a dignified human being.
Steve


well steve,,your profile indicates you like queening..do you wish to be judged on that? do you want your motives for having a big ass on your face questioned?like "what's the attraction there?"
type of thing?
IT IS THIER business..kink.fetish...thrill..M.O.

and OP:

I feel there may be one in a thousand who really do  no strings..
housework..but
*some men mistake
*the need for attention...
*to be with a DOMME at any cost.
.*the hope of play..
*the transactional mode of thinnking::I will do her and she will get  out a crop and wear a corset as I mop...
for no strings housework
 
HOUSE TASKS are always part of my boyz life..mine too..
They are assigned according to skill sets and what needs to be done to make MY LIFE EASIER..and to run more smoothly.
The TASK chart is the first thing seen when entering the house
 
GM

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 11/10/2009 2:00:12 AM   
GYPSYMAMBO


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Status: offline 		a thought during lucidity here...

do FEMALE slaves do no strings housework?
 
and what would we say to DOMS who said "ah fuk these gals don't do no strings housework...they all want something?"

or is a feamle sub to a male DOM simply expected to do housework  and it is a big deal about the guys doin it becuz we are still in phallo- fukkin -centric world??

or maybe some female subs do NOT do windows??

I do windows but want popsicles and tea provided so I am a not a NO strings woman..
better go to bed  my LUCIDITY is showing

oh wait,,,
could the no strings be like how nymphmania is only attributed to women..??so if a guy likes dusting it is a fetish...?a weirdness..
swifer-mania.....mopnglow mania...toiletbrush ism...
ADPFD:attention deficeit picking fuzz ball disorder...

ok send me a leaf raking..pie baking -aholic with delusions of
shiney tub and a throw in some BDSM..I'll put the mop handle in his ass and shove him about..



GM

< Message edited by GYPSYMAMBO -- 11/10/2009 2:07:02 AM >

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 11/10/2009 5:48:37 AM   
MsStarlett


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Status: offline 		Ok!  Halloween is over.  I've had some time to rest up.  My life is starting to settling down enough that I can deal with subs again.

And my house is a total wreck!

Any and all Housework Fetish boys in the South East Tennessee area (North GA & AL included) give me a shout!  We'll see what we can do about a mutually beneficial arrangement! 

(That never works!  Does it???)


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RE: Housework Fetish. - 11/11/2009 5:03:51 AM   
GYPSYMAMBO


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO

?"

could the no strings be like how nympohmania is only attributed to women..??so if a guy likes dusting it is a fetish...?a weirdness..
swifer-mania.....mopnglow mania...toiletbrush ism...
ADPFD:attention deficeit picking fuzz ball disorder...



GM


where is he??send me one

GM

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 11/11/2009 7:17:35 AM   
Andalusite


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Status: offline 		I know one Domme currently who is looking for a NSA housework arrangement, but most of them have rather strict strings attached in terms of clothing/etc.

Back when I was looking, there was one man who seemed to have a good attitude about it, much like "thesubmissiveboy," but I didn't want to be in a position to call someone my submissive/have me call me there Domme if there wasn't a power exchange that encompassed more of our lives than that. My female submissive playpartner actually does submit to me, (and is willing to do things to help me outside of play), but since we're not in a relationship, I don't usually refer to her as *my* submissive.

GM, I know some female submissives who *do* occasionally do NSA housework, but it doesn't tend to be as fetishised as from men, and they're more likely to do so when there is *some* kind of emotional bond.

stiv, suggesting that men steal stuff is totally out of line, you ought to be ashamed of yourself.


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RE: Housework Fetish. - 11/20/2009 5:40:54 AM   
MissMasterwants


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Status: offline 		I so want this boy!!!

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RE: Housework Fetish. - 11/20/2009 1:41:54 PM   
SnowRanger


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Status: offline 		Hello A/all,

Well, I won't say that this is a fetish of mine.  A former Mistress did give me a list of housework tasks to do around her home on several occasions.  Usually this was when she was at work.  Consequently I do understand the sublime satisfaction of doing such tasks for "She who Collared Me."  There were certainly no strings from my end; but, I don't know if she felt any obligations either. 

I guess what I'm trying to say is that D/s is not always about crops, canes and strap-ons.  I, for one, can derive satisfaction from any act of service and/or submission to my Mistress.  On the other hand, I doubt that I'd do a very good job with Her hovering over me.

Side Note to Ms Starlett:  Didn't you once tell of having a deer spine in the trunk of your car?   Hmmmm....  House work..?  Gardening..?  Hmmmm....

Respectfully,
Mike
SnowRanger


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