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RE: Evasive Mistress or Fake - 2/22/2006 8:04:43 PM

michaelGA

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Mistresses being evasive, yes...but being that this is a website and the odds of ever meeting anyone here, i cannot even speculate how many, if any, are fake.

they just enjoy tormenting us subs by being evasive

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RE: Evasive Mistress or Fake - 2/22/2006 8:12:59 PM

TexasMaam

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Hello, friskie,

I've read all the thread to date, please excuse My typing because I'm blinded by Ms Dred's red font.

I take a very long time to get to know a sub online, but then again I don't exchange 3 or 4 emails a day, either!

The three subs I currently see all waited patiently to meet Me.

My Number One sub waited 2 months until I felt comfortable. I gave him a fake name, fake identity, fake location, fake EVERYTHING until he answered My request for his name and date of birth so that I could check HIS identity first. It took a leap of faith on his part, and I'm so glad he resonded to Me by allowing Me to set the pace! bobbi's been My devoted submissive for 4 years now, going on 5.

I now train two other subs as well. One of whom chatted with Me online, about once a week or so, for SIX MONTHS before HE felt comfortable enough to give Me his name, etc. The other waited 4 months for Me to offer to meet him.

Would I talk with someone by phone after only a week or two? I have before, but those instances just never worked out. Now I'm much more cautious and it would take Me much longer to call someone.

That's My two cents worth, for whatever it's worth!

Good luck to you; don't get discouraged.

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RE: Evasive Mistress or Fake - 2/27/2006 7:46:26 AM

friskiesub

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TexasMaam: Thank you for your thoughts. I have met some interesting people thru this thread, and must say certainly have learned quite a bit. Live and learn right??? I did invite her to lunch last week, but she would be in Florida. We did exchange several pleasant emails.
I did talk this over with two friends of mine, realizing every Domme has their own time frame, something still remains a mystery.
I am not a phone fanatic, or impatient, just leary that the contents of our letters focused on different scenarios only. Very little personal or emotional conversations.
I'll just be patient and see how things play out. But I certainly am not going to waste much more energy and time on her.
Thank you very much for your thoughts :)
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RE: Evasive Mistress or Fake - 2/27/2006 8:42:14 AM

Lashra

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Hey Fergus,

totally off subject but you look pretty hawt in that pic, all you need is some rope and no clothes on, maybe a leather mask

Im messin with ya

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RE: Evasive Mistress or Fake - 2/27/2006 8:45:36 AM

Lashra

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Hmm could it be she's involved with someone else or has children and cant call? Not sure but you'd think she'd just call to make sure that you are a real woman, you know how many men pose as women.
I'd say take your time and don't rush into anything, if your feeling uncomfy already thats a red flag that something may not be what it seems to be.
I hope it all works out for you.

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RE: Evasive Mistress or Fake - 2/27/2006 11:19:52 AM

friskiesub

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This is the majority of my concern. I received many photos of her (?) during the second email. But I also don't want to throw away something that could have been good. Just have to be patient I guess. :)

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