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CatdeMedici -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/6/2009 4:25:37 AM)

Chains, collars, shackles and chains---love love love the subtle clink clink clink.



PeonForHer -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/6/2009 4:32:05 AM)

You need to move into a haunted house in Hollywood, Cat . . .



MsStarlett -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/6/2009 5:08:38 AM)

You don't need to move to Hollywood.  There are haunts everywhere.  My Play room is in the attic above my Haunt Storage.



homedespot -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/6/2009 5:13:49 AM)

I can live without any tool, implement or item. I need no whip, latex, rope, paddle, strap-on.

What I can't live without is protocol and a slave who has a mind set of serving. As Miyani said. I must be the leader in the relationship. I must be in control. And not just for "play" but for EVERYTHING.

(I get to decide which bar to watch the Chelsea game *grins*.)

And I don't consider it a kink...it is the way I lead my life. My whole life. Tying someone up is an event. Being a Domme is a life.



VeryMercurial -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/6/2009 6:18:04 AM)

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ORIGINAL: homedespot

I can live without any tool, implement or item. I need no whip, latex, rope, paddle, strap-on.

What I can't live without is protocol and a slave who has a mind set of serving. As Miyani said. I must be the leader in the relationship. I must be in control. And not just for "play" but for EVERYTHING.

(I get to decide which bar to watch the Chelsea game *grins*.)

And I don't consider it a kink...it is the way I lead my life. My whole life. Tying someone up is an event. Being a Domme is a life.



This is the way I feel also.
As most of the ladies here have clearly stated, It is the protocol that is my must have, and I must be the leader
and in control.



CallaFirestormBW -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/6/2009 6:58:58 AM)

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I'd like to use it with a woman who doesn't respond with an alarmed look on her face, though.


Oh, baby. *grins*  You can call me Ma'am any ol' time! In fact, I insist.. [;)]

Dame Calla



CallaFirestormBW -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/6/2009 7:54:20 AM)

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I can live without any tool, implement or item. I need no whip, latex, rope, paddle, strap-on.

What I can't live without is protocol and a slave who has a mind set of serving. As Miyani said. I must be the leader in the relationship. I must be in control. And not just for "play" but for EVERYTHING.


*nods* yes, that's it. Actually, I can handle having someone with whom I don't have comprehensive authority, as long as I either have someone -else- in my life over whom I -do- have that OR I know that we're working towards that kind of an authority dynamic. Without at least one person over whom I hold that level of authority, I tend to be on edge, because I'm always watching for what is going to "slip through the cracks". Let's face it, PC or not, I'm a control freak. (What do you expect... it's one of my more solid Virgoan characteristics).

Dame Calla



warmredhead -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/6/2009 8:35:40 AM)

Thanks to E/everyone for the posts in this great thread, I think as subs we learn to be very careful of stating our kinks as there is concerns of being thought to be only in search of specific "acts" and not the fuller and more complex relationship in which both Dominant and submissive bring more to the table. For a newer submissive , one for whom there is an "ocean" of things i have yet to experience it does seem to be premature to have set on any set of activities. For me anything that touches the deep wells of surrender i love to delve into.. that which makes me feel powerless or vulnerable . There is also the category of not things which one desires those ice cream or Eclaire wanna have it kinks- but also there are things i dislike that i
long to endure as tests or trials . These may be things i have not even imagined but which spring from the riches of the Dominants imagination. The last thought i have is that there is certainly a time to discuss ones kinks but it is once some kind of knowledge of the Other has grown up and one is in dialog, to do so before is premature



MistressRouge -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/6/2009 12:49:07 PM)

Anal/strap-on, electro CBT, NT and bondage in various forms.

The fundemental must have's for me.



malloves69 -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/6/2009 2:29:30 PM)

hello Ms Rouge [:)] love strapon play and being fisted anally by my mistress [:)]..no surprise there [:)]  love snowballs and creampies ..i think being feed back my cum from my mistress is very erotic indeed [:)] love golden showers ...love having her squat over me so she can aim for my mouth once she starts peeing ..love watching it cum out of her ..that view is priceless indeed [:)] love swallowing and licking her clean after ..no toilet paper needed ...and i love pleasing her orally in whatever position she is comfortable with [:)] a womans body was made to be licked and when she cums and shares her wetness with me love doing that also [:)] and if she wants me to lick her ass too while im done there or she is sitting on my face who am i to say no to that ....love a lady in control but those kinks really gets my endorphins going [:)]and usually puts a smile or 2 on her face also [:)] have fun mal



SteelofUtah -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/6/2009 2:37:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Okay you all ready for this sick fucks answer?

I am into Being able to laugh and enjoy myself.

If you can laugh then we can play otherwise I'll see you later.

Steel


Agreed. However, laughing and enjoying myself has never been kinky in my world. If it was, I just spent a week getting kinky with a whole bunch of people I am related to. In addition to some dogs, cats, horses, a turtle and a stray bear.


LOL

I was refering to while being kinky, when I am spanking and croping, and flogging  or slapping I want to be able to giggle and have them giggle back.

I think it is a valuable bond between us when in the middle of something that could be considered quite harsh we can laugh and giggle and know that the world is fine again.

Steel



AlexandraLynch -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/6/2009 3:12:12 PM)

The power exchange. Apart from that, I really feel a loss if I can't bite him, play with his hair, or hit him at all with anything. I can manage without doing CBT, but I don't like it so much.

I love head hair so much. If I get stressed I find one of my roommates and scratch his scalp and play with his hair for a few minutes, and it zens me out.



XYisInferior -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/6/2009 4:20:23 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

And for subs - the same question.  OK, you may well feel that 'so long as She's happy, I'm happy' - but is there something that's as near as damnit a 'must' - and after many play-sessions it would rankle if you didn't get it?


I'm not so certain I'd term serving as "play" so much, or if I had to, limit my prerequisite to "play" exclusively—but yes, there is one thing: imagination.



MistressTaboo -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/6/2009 5:49:01 PM)

I'm not  huge bondage fan either...I prefer my restraints as the quick and dirty way to immobilize them...I will do some bondage if it's just enough to immobilize them. But if they want the fancy rope work they better move on cause I want to play I don't want spend too much time tussing them up like a Christmas Turkey.

Being in charge of course. CBT is very high on my list. I have a great boy that I can't do much CBT on..but he makes up for it in the floggings he can take. He's sweet and tries take the CBT...but it's just not there. Oh and he can say "Yes ma'am" with such utter sincearity that it makes me wet just thinking about it.

But I've got to be able to play them in some fashion that's going to make them squirm and moan.  Also I have to be able to touch them in any fashion I want. Hands, nails, teeth, I want to be able to FEEL them in addition to hearing them.

And I have some LOVELY surgical staples that I like too...nothing wrong with staples at all!



pyroaquatic -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/6/2009 7:26:36 PM)

Mal....

you must be a VERY happy person.

Stocks & Manacles - Got to love the quick and easy.

Nice rope work is pretty but there is a lot of care that must go into the ropes.

Intelligent and Enlightening conversations with a dab of genuine interest in wanting to know everything about that person. Both ways.
Oh baby show me your brain and i'll bring on the pain.



Sunnyfey -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/6/2009 7:37:41 PM)

As a Top,

Bondage, sissy maid service, creative sadism (and a nice plump willing ass obviously)

As a Bottom

Rope Bondage, service, erotic photography (not porn, big difference), rituals, sensual/creative sadism, otk spankings, and take down scenes.



MaamJay -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/7/2009 12:36:57 AM)

As a Domme, I want genuine service, obedience within My set of protocols, and a good sense of humour! However, as far as physical play goes, I just have to be able to spank his arse. If he said no to that, or if he wasn't in sufficient physical condition to make that safe to do, then bye bye. I just can't resist an arse, even Master's isn't safe LOL! he also needs to have some decent head hair, not that I am heavily into pulling it, but I love looking at a man's hair (the longer the better) and stroking it. Bald just doesn't do it for Me, he'd have to be incredibly special in every other way for Me to overlook that lack!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]



Andalusite -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/7/2009 9:04:09 AM)

Back when I was looking, the only thing I listed as a "must have" (on both sides of the whip) was biting and wrestling/playfighting/sparring/whatever you wanna call it. It didn't need to be to any extreme amount of pain, but a guy can't handle me giving him a little nibble or pinning him down until he can turn the tables, I think he's a wimp. If he won't do that for me, even if I make it clear I want him to, then we're just not compatible.



dreamerdreaming -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/7/2009 9:24:00 AM)

*waves to the OP*

My main kinks are control and humiliation. (For the specifics, refer to my profile.)

Some may say those are not just kinks. But I'm calling them that, for myself. So, nyaah! [8D]



malloves69 -> RE: What are your staple kinks - the must haves? (8/7/2009 9:31:04 AM)

love a lady in control Ms Dream [:)] hello to you as well [:)] hugs mal



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