RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE...THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE" (Full Version)

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Lockit -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE...THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE" (8/21/2009 12:17:19 PM)

Hey now... I can be judgmental from time to time, as I am sure some judge me. lol I try not to judge kink, but sometimes I do based on my experiences. I try not to judge in a way that makes the person less of a human being in my eyes... but sometime that is hard to do. Like when someone is disrepecting people and wanting to use them. It is hard for me to see any honor in that and well... it is important to me that the people I am around have some honor or what I see as honor.

I will judge and I admit it. I will judge who is worthy to be around my family. I will judge when I think someone is making foolish mistakes. I even judge myself. I may not dislike the person, but I will judge the actions. I may not think the person is bad or unworthy of love or life or whatever... but I will judge how I live my life and how other's live theirs in a way that I view things, right or wrong and what place I will have in their life or what involvement I might have with them.

So yes... I am one who will judge, but I will hope that I can judge in honor and not hate.



sirsholly -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE...THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE" (8/21/2009 1:07:50 PM)

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So yes... I am one who will judge, but I will hope that I can judge in honor and not hate.
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Leiren -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE...THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE" (8/21/2009 2:05:42 PM)

Lockit,

I just can't resist paying you another compliment. [:)] As I posted last night, you seem to be the type of domme that my own real life male sub friends have been lucky enough to find.

And Lady Pact seems to be another female domme that might attract a LOT of male submissives. Don't mean to go off topic. Just wanted to acknowledge the great qualities that Lockit and Lady Pact project.





LadyPact -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE...THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE" (8/21/2009 2:11:38 PM)

Thank you.  That was very sweet of you to say.



Leiren -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE...THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE" (8/21/2009 2:15:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Thank you.  That was very sweet of you to say.


No problem, Lady Pact. In the short time I've been registered to post, I find both you and Lockit to be very admirable. I enjoy reading every post that each of your write.



Lockit -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE...THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE" (8/21/2009 4:49:44 PM)

Thank you Leiren...  [sm=smile.gif]



LadyHibiscus -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE"..... (8/21/2009 5:50:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer



You know, I'm so strongly beginning to suspect that for many, if not most, people, this whole argument is something that only exercises folk on a forum like this.  It would take you 30 seconds - with that 'buying-a-drink-test' - to establish that a man was a tight-fisted git.  It would take me about the same to reveal to myself a grasper for what she is, too. 

I have to say, though, Lady Hib (and I know this is going to infuriate you - sorry!) There are occasions when I'd accept the money from a woman for her drink.  It's not happened often, but sometimes I've got the vibe from her of " 'Oh no, matey.  I'm not having you thinking that I 'owe you anything in return later'" . . .  The stern expression, the set jaw . . .  gawd, I've had that a couple of times.

. . . but that's another complication for, perhaps, a different thread.


Actually, that doesn't infuriate me in the slightest!  I do understand the desire to not be "beholden", and sometimes that's why I offer the drink money!



LadyHibiscus -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE"..... (8/21/2009 6:01:36 PM)

And in response to dear Lookie...  And just basing this on a few thousand tax returns done and/or reviewed.  Who gives the most?  Middle class and poor folks.  I've seen folks with W-2's that should be HEAVY the numbers are so big give NOTHING.  Maxed out their 401(k)'s, you better believe.   I've seen factory workers give a quarter of their salaries---AND volunteer their time. 

Public charities are glamourous, and a chance for the wealthy to show off to one another.  Charities benefit, certainly, and for that we can all be grateful.  If all donations were required to be anonymous, or if the folks at the dinner were requested to say, be served at a restaurant staffed by formerly incarcerated folks learning a trade, I am just (yes, Cynical Me) guessing that the funds offered would drop.

Now give me a car, dagnabbit!  My lease is up this November and I want another Impala!



cloudboy -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE"..... (8/21/2009 8:18:33 PM)


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ORIGINAL: undergroundsea

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
Why do we women have to spell out for sub guys what vanilla guys (for the most part) already know?  The person who is courting pays for the courtship (and first date) if they want to make a positive impression.  Otherwise, men look incredibly cheap.


I have not read every post in this thread. Would you please spell out for me where men have said in this thread that they do not pay for the first date? You are welcome to simply give me names of posters and I will then track down the post.

Cheers,

Sea


If you ever pin down the source of the generalities, please let me know --- for me it will be a watershed event.



cloudboy -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE"..... (8/21/2009 8:27:45 PM)

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In that event I am curious if that number makes for enough of a sampling to say submissive men are cheap.

Cheers,

Sea


If we ever cross paths, Sea, I'll treat you to a dollar value meal with a coke too.



pyroaquatic -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE...THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE" (8/21/2009 8:30:07 PM)

I sincerely concur with you Leiren. Many of the ladies project mucho energy on these boards. So many flavors! ;_;

I have some favorites, and I will not name names.


Yet.

^_^



Venatrix -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE"..... (8/21/2009 9:18:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

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In that event I am curious if that number makes for enough of a sampling to say submissive men are cheap.

Cheers,

Sea


If we ever cross paths, Sea, I'll treat you to a dollar value meal with a coke too.


Ah, be careful, CB.  You don't want to go depleting your life savings like that.



undergroundsea -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE"..... (8/22/2009 8:19:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy
If we ever cross paths, Sea, I'll treat you to a dollar value meal with a coke too.


I accept. Let's go to a McDonald's that has WiFi though. Then we can pull up CM threads and talk philosophical about the why's of the threads. I don't like McDonald's desserts though. I vote for the delicious icecream sandwiches they have at Seven Eleven. My treat, of course.

I would also like you to bring me some kind of a gift. Just so there are no misunderstandings, I do not plan to bring you one. My gift to you is my company. There is nothing more you should want. Your company? Meh. That's why you need to supplement it with a gift. I will send you a link to my amazon wish list. There are these Bruno Magli shoes I would like for you to purchase. I hear they are so comfortable that one forgets one is wearing them.*

Cheers,

Sea

* Pardon the OJ Simpson trial reference.



ElanSubdued -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE"..... (8/22/2009 9:20:58 AM)

undergroundsea,

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undergroundsea to cloudboy:
I would also like you to bring me some kind of a gift. Just so there are no misunderstandings, I do not plan to bring you one. My gift to you is my company. There is nothing more you should want. Your company? Meh. That's why you need to supplement it with a gift. I will send you a link to my amazon wish list. There are these Bruno Magli shoes I would like for you to purchase. I hear they are so comfortable that one forgets one is wearing them.


Sure.  Sure.  Flirt it up and accept gifts from all the other boys.  That's it!  Our online romance is over! :-)

Elan.



undergroundsea -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE"..... (8/22/2009 10:54:34 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued
Sure.  Sure.  Flirt it up and accept gifts from all the other boys.  That's it!  Our online romance is over! :-)


Dear Elan,

I am very poly, and have plenty of room in my heart and my house for gifts from all the boys. Now I want you all to help me outdo TexasMa'am. Dubai is so ordinary. I need someone to pay NASA to go to the next mission to the moon and bring me some rocks from there. Small ones. I want to wear them on a necklace, which one of the boys will make, of course.

;-)

Cheers,

Sea



VanIsleKnight -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE"..... (8/22/2009 11:06:55 PM)

Holy hell, this thing is still here?  O.O

You know, technically, they're making space hotels for people to stay in.  >.>

That's right, space hotels.  Zero-G sex yo! Imagine the fun you could have with -that-



PeonForHer -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE...THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE" (8/23/2009 8:01:12 AM)

I am one who will judge, but I will hope that I can judge in honor and not hate.
 
Good motto, Lockit, and well said.



PeonForHer -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE"..... (8/23/2009 8:03:49 AM)

Actually, that doesn't infuriate me in the slightest!  I do understand the desire to not be "beholden", and sometimes that's why I offer the drink money!
 
Nah.  I didn't think you'd be infuriated in that sense, Lady Hib.  I just imagined you thinking "Oh god, another complication". 




PeonForHer -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE...THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE" (8/23/2009 8:10:30 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Leiren

Lockit,

I just can't resist paying you another compliment. [:)] As I posted last night, you seem to be the type of domme that my own real life male sub friends have been lucky enough to find.

And Lady Pact seems to be another female domme that might attract a LOT of male submissives. Don't mean to go off topic. Just wanted to acknowledge the great qualities that Lockit and Lady Pact project.



Yes, both are lovely, when not misbehaving. ;-)



Lockit -> RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE...THAT TIRED OLD TOPIC, "TRIBUTE" (8/23/2009 10:02:31 AM)

Me misbehave? lol Just cause I get a lil nervous when someone says.... oh Luuuucyyyy doesn't mean a thing!



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