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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 1:15:17 PM   
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Uh Huh.... Until I wind up getting a quarter of us permanently or temporarily banned and another half of us on moderation. We'll see how much love there is for me then! LOL

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Now I read that as: and another half of is on medication???
Please open your heart unto us lovingpet...you know you want to.
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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 1:51:41 PM   
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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 2:10:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm inclined to think that people who are clueless in their posts about bdsm matters (Like the: I've got a playdate scheduled, what do I do? as an example) are likely rather clueless about/inexperienced in their relationships with others in general. 
I think that the majority of such folks are so caught up in the fantasy that they haven't entertained that there are actual real, living, breathing people involved (Kinda like the wankish cmail I just opened awhile ago referencing a practice I spoke of on a thread: asking how I like it and do I do it often...my response was something along the lines of: I'm more than an automaton with a pseudo-phallus attached, read my profile, if you still think we're compatible, please feel free to write back and discuss why).  I mean, we all have fantasies and I understand that getting something you dearly want after, well, forever, can be a really cool idea but I can't help but think a lot of people lose sight of the forest for the trees. 
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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 3:41:40 PM   
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*chuckles*

For the record, my sympathy with "thread whiners" is absolutely and totally zero. Let's remember that reading a thread here is an opt-in thing. You actually have to not only click on the thead title, but then read the entire damned thing. So I'm way big on, "If this thread bugs you, stop reading it" as an answer.
Exactly! And then if....after reading the entire damned thing....you still give them your expert opinion and someone else comes along and asks the same damn thing tomorrow and you do it again....how is that anyone's fault but your own????? Just slowly back up and step away from the "reply" button already........luci

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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 4:04:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lovingpet

Uh Huh.... Until I wind up getting a quarter of us permanently or temporarily banned and another half of us on moderation. We'll see how much love there is for me then! LOL

lovingpet

Now I read that as: and another half of is on medication???
Please open your heart unto us lovingpet...you know you want to.
PS I'm made of strong stuff. Nothing phases me. Hell I've even veen on the bus to Stella's.



LOL!!!!!

Are you people happy now????? CM as we know it is about to fall!

Actually, I kinda hope not. I like it around here!

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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 4:07:15 PM   
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*chuckles*

For the record, my sympathy with "thread whiners" is absolutely and totally zero. Let's remember that reading a thread here is an opt-in thing. You actually have to not only click on the thead title, but then read the entire damned thing. So I'm way big on, "If this thread bugs you, stop reading it" as an answer.
Exactly! And then if....after reading the entire damned thing....you still give them your expert opinion and someone else comes along and asks the same damn thing tomorrow and you do it again....how is that anyone's fault but your own????? Just slowly back up and step away from the "reply" button already........luci



LOL.

Person found the site.  Check.

Person created an account.  Check.

Person is sitting in front of a computer.  Check.

Said person can't find google.  Huh?


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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 4:23:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		oh come on! you saying no one before the net or collerme.com ever had to show some newbey the ropes? your saying you was never EVER a newbey your safe and no one had to answer 100 questions form you GIVE ME A BRAKE!!!!!! every one was new at one time other you can not tell me you found the life stiles and just know how to do everything only God know everything hunney your not God!!!!

collerme.com (and other websites) is not here to help every one nore can we, should we try if we can YES! is it better to know then not know YES! well I help if I know something you need to know when you ask YES!!!!!!

now don't get me wrong even I hate though who come on and say look at me I know everything about that as I asked in collerme.com you cant know tell you do it! and you know I not dune a LOT! am I going to ask before I do it YOU BET YOU ASS I AM!

you tell me is it better for me to pick up that 20 pond Bull whip find some girl and WHIP her ass to more or less death! or maybe ask if that is something I should be doing? or how to do it right?

The hole post show why we on line Don’t like you real lifers you like to act like you know everything and wont or cant share, now why is that?

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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 4:30:05 PM   
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The hole post show why we on line Don’t like you real lifers you like to act like you know everything and wont or cant share, now why is that?



It isnt about that at all. It isnt about people asking questions, it is about people forgetting all their life lessons. I wrote a post on it recently.

Lets remove the BDSM context, and say we are on a band site, and someone comes on and says 'what songs does this band sing' - well if you decided to actually sign up to the site why did you not look up the band first?

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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 4:32:41 PM   
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The hole post show why we on line Don’t like you real lifers you like to act like you know everything and wont or cant share, now why is that?



It isnt about that at all. It isnt about people asking questions, it is about people forgetting all their life lessons. I wrote a post on it recently.

Lets remove the BDSM context, and say we are on a band site, and someone comes on and says 'what songs does this band sing' - well if you decided to actually sign up to the site why did you not look up the band first?


the or a fuw ways you can look up info on who do's soandso songs, today the fast way is ues a web porgme to find it, but it all ways faster to ask some one who know so, yes why not ask some one who might know on a song web sight?

I do see the hole post as all most reading Don't ask me you dumb newbey, I wont tell you noting, that just seems SO wrong!

< Message edited by TazDevil -- 8/15/2009 4:39:35 PM >

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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 4:37:46 PM   
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In my mind, it'd be like someone going out to buy a dog with no clear idea what they were going to do with dog afterwards other than simply to have one.


Unfortunately, Jeff, there are quite a few of those people out there, too.

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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 4:40:14 PM   
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the or a fuw ways you can look up info on who do's soandso songs, today the fast way is ues a web porgme to find it, but it all ways faster to ask some one who know so, yes why not ask some one who might know on a song web sight?



Pedantic.com.

It is FAR FAR FAR FAR easier to google the band name and song list. Simples, far faster to be honest.

Also, do you mind reading through your posts? I am finding them quite hard to read

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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 4:47:52 PM   
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This is My smart assed introduction to the rash of threads lately where it seems like folks just want to sign on to this site, get all of their questions answered for them, without having to put in any work on their own.  At times, it just seems like they don't want to have any of their own initiative.  No drive of their own.  Just sign in here and everything will be handed to them.  Once we provide all of the answers, that will make them uber Dom of the universe or give them the spirit of slavery.  No creativity.  No investment.  Everything handed to them without any effort of their own.


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
At the same time, we can't do it all for you.  When you can't even bother yourself to do a search on google or come up with some of your own ideas, that's just lazy.  Personally, I don't see such a lack of creativity or attention to detail as something that is desired on either side of the kneel.  There's a difference between helping you and doing it all for you.  Quite frankly, if the forum regulars can see it, you can be sure that the person on the other side of the kneel can see it too.


Yeah, yeah yeah...
 
"Creativity", "investment", "attention to detail" ... okay okay ... whatever, when do we get to the kinky sex!?
 










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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 4:50:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TazDevil

The hole post show why we on line Don’t like you real lifers you like to act like you know everything and wont or cant share, now why is that?



It isnt about that at all. It isnt about people asking questions, it is about people forgetting all their life lessons. I wrote a post on it recently.

Lets remove the BDSM context, and say we are on a band site, and someone comes on and says 'what songs does this band sing' - well if you decided to actually sign up to the site why did you not look up the band first?


the or a fuw ways you can look up info on who do's soandso songs, today the fast way is ues a web porgme to find it, but it all ways faster to ask some one who know so, yes why not ask some one who might know on a song web sight?

I do see the hole post as all most reading Don't ask me you dumb newbey, I wont tell you noting, that just seems SO wrong!


And the point of this thread is that, even though people have the ability to look up information about any other subject under the sun, some lose all ability to put even the slightest effort forth when it comes to learning about BDSM. I have been taken by the hand, and still am from time to time, and I have also brought others in. There is nothing wrong with being new and needing help along the way, but do what you can to help yourself is all we are asking. Google a BDSM term with which you are not familiar. Look up and read a book or two on a certain dynamic or skill you are interested in and then let's get into more complicated and/or hands on stuff. It is no different than what I ask of anyone in any other walk of life and hold myself to the same standard.

And what's with all the venom for people you don't even know?

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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 4:52:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: leadership527

*chuckles*

For the record, my sympathy with "thread whiners" is absolutely and totally zero. Let's remember that reading a thread here is an opt-in thing. You actually have to not only click on the thead title, but then read the entire damned thing. So I'm way big on, "If this thread bugs you, stop reading it" as an answer.
Exactly! And then if....after reading the entire damned thing....you still give them your expert opinion and someone else comes along and asks the same damn thing tomorrow and you do it again....how is that anyone's fault but your own????? Just slowly back up and step away from the "reply" button already........luci



LOL.

Person found the site.  Check.

Person created an account.  Check.

Person is sitting in front of a computer.  Check.

Said person can't find google.  Huh?



I think there is something about having a person share their personal thoughts, feelings and experiences that meets needs that google just can't satisfy.

Sometimes the contact through a forum (or an email) lets people know that they aren't all alone.

I admit, I have my moments of wondering where do these questions come from but then I remember that on any given day I might be new at something too.



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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 4:58:01 PM   
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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 4:59:47 PM   
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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 5:03:36 PM   
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Yeah, yeah yeah...
 
"Creativity", "investment", "attention to detail" ... okay okay ... whatever, when do we get to the kinky sex!?
 


LMAO, nice! Welcome to the forums, IB











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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 5:06:45 PM   
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Uh..........bear....... You forgot the strawberries and chocolates.

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Oops.....does that mean I get a spanking for being neglectful??? 




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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 5:10:03 PM   
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oh come on! you saying no one before the net or collerme.com ever had to show some newbey the ropes? your saying you was never EVER a newbey your safe and no one had to answer 100 questions form you GIVE ME A BRAKE!!!!!! every one was new at one time other you can not tell me you found the life stiles and just know how to do everything only God know everything hunney your not God!!!!

collerme.com (and other websites) is not here to help every one nore can we, should we try if we can YES! is it better to know then not know YES! well I help if I know something you need to know when you ask YES!!!!!!

now don't get me wrong even I hate though who come on and say look at me I know everything about that as I asked in collerme.com you cant know tell you do it! and you know I not dune a LOT! am I going to ask before I do it YOU BET YOU ASS I AM!

you tell me is it better for me to pick up that 20 pond Bull whip find some girl and WHIP her ass to more or less death! or maybe ask if that is something I should be doing? or how to do it right?

The hole post show why we on line Don’t like you real lifers you like to act like you know everything and wont or cant share, now why is that?



Frankly, if one finds the answers themselves, they will learn and remember them.  If the answers are just handed out, they loose meaning and effectiveness. 

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RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? - 8/15/2009 5:10:24 PM   
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The hole post show why we on line Don’t like you real lifers you like to act like you know everything and wont or cant share, now why is that?




OK - i'm going to bite the bullet on this one.  

So you are saying that we "real lifers" ( and by this i am assuming that you mean 24/7 people, or is it the people who spend time on collarme?) act like we know everything.     And you want acting lessons?

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