fyreredsub
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Master IB,
i gotta say i smile and shake my head at the person becoming a vile thing....
that forked tongue will kill a relationship evertime.
makes this girl RUN FAST and NEVER look back---
trying a second time is to no avail....b/c once the person has the reputation for being of that character that can't ever recover what was lost.
i just got out of something w/ similiar behavior on a masters part.....i lost resepct for him, i didnt trust him and i sure as hell didnt want him in control of me when he couldnt control himself.
can we say one cant master another under conditions such as these,. oh yeah....i became unslavelike FAST
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ORIGINAL: IronBear
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ORIGINAL: IronBear
When it comes to discussing Masters or slaves, I can only speak for myself and through the eyes of a Gorean Master. For me, a Master and in particular, a Gorean Master, is that he is a Man, not just a member of the male gender, but a MAN. Some of the tenets which I personally consider to be the qualities of a Man are:
[1] A Man is a male whose bond is his word. (No written guarantees when a handshake will do).
[2] He will not make promises without deep thought of all the consequences.
[3] Promises may have a time line attached. Such time lines may be that he will complete keeping a promise by a specific time/date, or it may be that the promise will be kept until a time/date or a specific condition is kept.
[4] He will keep his word unless by doing so he or others may be placed in physical or financial harm.
[5] He will keep his word unless circumstances out side of his control prevent him from doing so.
[6] If for any reason it becomes impracticable for him to maintain a promise, he will let the person know and may even re-evaluate the best way to deal with the circumstances regarding the original promise. (It may be reasonable to make modifications to the original promise).
[7] He may make up his mind to do something, and even let others know of his decision. He is not bound to such decisions unless he has given his word and thus can without loss of honour.
[8] Generally, a Master does make certain promises to a slave which is implied (at least in my case) when he locks a collar about her throat. Such promises deal with his responsibilities in looking after her and protecting her from harm.
I can probably find others but this should give you some idea where I am at. This list excepting the last one was taught to me on my Father’s knee and by my Grandfather too.
“You gotta play the game. It’s all in the game and how you play it!”
I probably said most of it there.. However I'll add that when you break a promise, and especially when you do it deliberately, you are destroying something of yourself that you can never recover.... Do it often enough and you become a vile thing. As my blood brother would say, you become "He who speaks with forked tongue.." At that stage of your life, you, are less than the most bratty sub and you have lost all rights to claim the title of Dominant let alone Master..,Me? I wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire at that stage. I piss myself off regularly, because I have to give up watchig some program onTV because I've indicated I'll give the girls a hand or do something. Yeah it's a bummer to miss something you've waited all week to watch, but you know what? I CAN LOOK AT MYSELF IN THE MIRROR AND LIKE WHAT I SEE... CAN YOU????
“You gotta play the game. It’s all in the game and how you play it!”
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"Accordingly, men must then either fulfill their nature, or deny it, and in denying their nature, deny us ours, for ours is the complement to theirs. " Renegades
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