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my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and I wi... - 8/23/2009 6:14:06 AM

excitingtrip

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My ex-Dom is also my boss. We dated for a year and recently broke up under mutual agreement. After break-up he stills wants to have sex with me. He said if I keep sleeping with him he won't look for other girls and he will pay me $2000/month for that. He will also pay me for my work. He said for that amount of money he will do whatever he likes. I know he is very safety conscious so I don't think he will do anything to hurt me. But he will definitely do something like cum in my mouth or rimming which I never agreed when we were dating, he said this arrangement will make him much more relaxed to do what he likes. He also asked for anal which we rarely did.
I was just wondering why he wants to pay for sex. B4 he told me he never paid for sex which I believe so and he has no problem finding other women as he is very cute and smart. Another thing is, I find this arrangement so exciting, maybe its because of the humiliation.

How do you feel about this arrangement?

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 6:21:30 AM

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Oh its probably because he finds you so wonderful.

I dunno ask him?

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 6:33:16 AM

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Seriously? That it's a disaster waiting to happen. Ask yourself how comfortable you are being totally financially dependent on this individual. Then ask yourself how prostituting yourself will make you feel when all this blows up in your face.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 6:37:51 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: excitingtrip

My ex-Dom is also my boss. We dated for a year and recently broke up under mutual agreement. After break-up he stills wants to have sex with me. He said if I keep sleeping with him he won't look for other girls and he will pay me $2000/month for that. He will also pay me for my work. He said for that amount of money he will do whatever he likes. I know he is very safety conscious so I don't think he will do anything to hurt me. But he will definitely do something like cum in my mouth or rimming which I never agreed when we were dating, he said this arrangement will make him much more relaxed to do what he likes. He also asked for anal which we rarely did.

I was just wondering why he wants to pay for sex. B4 he told me he never paid for sex which I believe so and he has no problem finding other women as he is very cute and smart. Another thing is, I find this arrangement so exciting, maybe its because of the humiliation.

How do you feel about this arrangement?

I don't *feel* anything about the arrangement but in answer to your question...

Perhaps he finds the *arrangement* an exciting prospect too. He can buy the sex of his liking,with someone he already knows and likes sexually, and who (obviously) wouldn't dismiss it out of hand. It looks like he's cutting out the longhand and if it's possible, why not try it? It's like having your own personal prostitute.

agirl

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 6:55:51 AM

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Then ask yourself how prostituting yourself will make you feel when all this blows up in your face.

heh ... interesting choice of words

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 7:01:04 AM

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I'd start looking for another job like yesterday. And another Dom while you're at it.

Edited to add: what broke you up? And will it still be present in his proposed prostitution gig?

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 7:27:15 AM

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I feel like I'm reading the Letters to Penthouse.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 8:22:05 AM

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RUN and RUN FAST dont look back. Dangerous combination sleeping with your boss,goes against all grains. Your boss turned pimp/girlfriend turned prostitute. You need to better yourself and leave this fool. because he is your boss he thinks he has control over you. He pays you for what he wants and you refuse, you as good as gone, job and all. You dug a hole when you started to sleep with him. Now you want to bury yourself in that hole. There is nothing safe in your situation right now, things can and will get ugly if you continue to stay.
He wants to pay 2000.oo month for sex with you and have his way. Ask yourself is it worth it when it comes back and bites you in the ass. If you decide to go thru with it. Put the cash in an account . You'll need it for a good attorney.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 8:27:23 AM

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I feel like I'm reading the Letters to Penthouse.

Agreed. In another week or so, they'll be starting classes again and have homework and binge drinking to keep their minds busy.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 9:23:58 AM

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ORIGINAL: RapierFugue

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Then ask yourself how prostituting yourself will make you feel when all this blows up in your face.

heh ... interesting choice of words

Thank you. I'm good like that.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 9:30:22 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: excitingtrip

I was just wondering why he wants to pay for sex. B4 he told me he never paid for sex which I believe so and he has no problem finding other women as he is very cute and smart. Another thing is, I find this arrangement so exciting, maybe its because of the humiliation.

How do you feel about this arrangement?

personally i wouldn't do it because he will inevitably push the envelope and encroach on areas you're not comfortable with. being outside an established relationship and paying for your services provides an element of detachment and willingness to embrace the things that were previously off limits.

furthermore, what happens when or if he decides not to pay? since he's your boss and someone you'd have to meet with on a daily basis, that could invite a huge strain on the work environment and possibly put your job in jeopardy. particularly if you decided to stop or began seeing someone else. i don't see this having a happy ending either way.

i can understand the turn on because i love objectification, degradation, and humiliation. however, my enjoyment of these things doesn't mean i should debase myself and deny my self-worth in the process. i believe his desire to pay would do those things. if you sincerely wanted to market yourself in this manner you'd have done so by now and avoided the relational strings between the two of you. in the end you must do what you feel is best, but carefully weigh your options and don't look at the bright side, consider all that could go wrong and how you'd rebound should it occur.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 10:40:09 AM

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2k a month.. Take the money and fuck him..

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 11:08:04 AM

Musicmystery

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Just supposing for a moment that any of this is true--

The money almost certainly would come not from him, but from the company. And when he's caught (that kinda money will eventually be missed), she's caught in an illegal act.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 11:57:26 AM

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oook, say I'm buying all this.

You like to be a paid lady, that's your business, but let's think logically. From what you wrote he seems like kind of a jerk. He's saying he's paying, so you become a no-limit slave, with no rights what-so-ever, at least in his mind.

The second aspect, this guy not only pays you this money, but he controls your regular salary. What happens when he, or you wants the next best thing? Or he gets tired of you. So you mean to tell me mister "I can buy whatever I want" is going to want you around? having to see you every day?

It's was a bad idea to sleep with the boss in the first place, but this constitutes disaster.

You need to find another job, and another Master, and for goodness sake sign a contract, that way you two can talk out everything and have it written down and that way no one can say they "forgot" and no limits should be crossed. And you won't be running into the same things that you did with this guy, when he tried to cross your limits.

And if you are, I'm sorry, "silly" enough to do this, a contract would be a good start, that way you can talk out what kind of things are going to happen. Don't just assume that you don't "think" he'll hurt you or cross the line, you said he tried it before. You don't think this "cute" guy that has no trouble getting women wants this kind of arrangement with you just for giggles? You two broke up, if he can get anyone he wants, and he doesn't want to get back with you, then there is some ulterior motive behind him proposing this arrangment.

Seems like a license to do whatever he wants and you have nothing to say about it, and if you do, then you've lost not one but two incomes. Have your seen the news lately? not that easy to get another job, and I'm sure he knows this.

I wish you good luck and hope you make a logical decision.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 12:10:30 PM

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So, what if you make yourself entirely dependent on him financially and he refuses to pay?

Beyond the fact that I think it's a crappy idea to start with, the legalities could blow up in your face. There's a reason why your relationship ended and that's not going to go away.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 12:44:04 PM

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I feel this is a series of choices gone terribly wrong.

The best thing to do (as it has been stated before) is RUN!
RUN GIRLY RUN!

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 1:01:17 PM

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quote:

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Just supposing for a moment that any of this is true--

The money almost certainly would come not from him, but from the company. And when he's caught (that kinda money will eventually be missed), she's caught in an illegal act.

Y'know something, MusicMystery, when you mentioned that the company would pay and not him, a light bulb went off in my head. I wouldn't be at all surprised if Mr. Wonderful was married and this is the only way he can pay for a woman on the side without his wife finding out when she checks his finances.

You have to admit that his being married is the only way the situation gets uglier. Well, unless his business is illegal in nature.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 1:06:11 PM

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I feel like I'm reading the Letters to Penthouse.

Agreed. In another week or so, they'll be starting classes again and have homework and binge drinking to keep their minds busy.

This gets My vote, too.

(And it does seem to have been a very long summer in this regard, doesn't it?)

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 1:27:03 PM

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Oh For FUCKS sakes people!!!!

Look sit down and talk about your fears and make it clear that you reserve the right to walk away at ANY TIME.

Understand that if he is paying you for your sexual wilds then you are commiting prostitution. It is a crime, and you can be arrested for it. Being that you are on the Payroll he will have to figure out how to give you this raise and make it taxable. It is easy to do but depending on how the corporation is set up could cause some problems in the long run.

The Biggest problem with this how you will be paid as you and he will both be reporting it to the IRS so you all will need to havce a firm understanding on how payment works.

Know that what you both will be doing is ILLEGAL in all 50 States outside a licensed Brothel, because of this you will need to be careful how you engage in this practice. Anyone who gets an idea about what is going on can easily blackmail the both of you. Not that this happens all the time just know it is a possible negative outcome.

As for the relationship if you guys are still friends and you want to fill this position then just make sure the terms work for BOTH of you.

And that you are free to walk away from him and the paycheck at ANY TIME.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 1:29:45 PM

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My ex-Dom is also my boss. We dated for a year and recently broke up under mutual agreement. After break-up he stills wants to have sex with me. He said if I keep sleeping with him he won't look for other girls and he will pay me $2000/month for that. He will also pay me for my work. He said for that amount of money he will do whatever he likes. I know he is very safety conscious so I don't think he will do anything to hurt me. But he will definitely do something like cum in my mouth or rimming which I never agreed when we were dating, he said this arrangement will make him much more relaxed to do what he likes. He also asked for anal which we rarely did.
I was just wondering why he wants to pay for sex. B4 he told me he never paid for sex which I believe so and he has no problem finding other women as he is very cute and smart. Another thing is, I find this arrangement so exciting, maybe its because of the humiliation.

How do you feel about this arrangement?

I say, keep professional life and personal life separated. There are so many things that can go wrong with messing with your boss, arrangements or no, and in almost all scenarios you, the employee, are gonna be sacrificed.

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