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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 5:58:16 PM   
GoddessImaginos


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Wow I'm kind of baffled at the animosity in this thread. How is this different than all the other weird kinks that people have? She, apparently, has some kink around being a prostitute. He, apparently has money and finds her desirable. What exactly is the problem?


..the problem is all the bright red flags that reading about this issue sends up. This is nothing against anyone's kink, it is well-placed concern over what most of Uus perceive as being a Bad Situation that will most likely get worse.
There is also the fact that some of Uus in Oour bafflement haven't quite decided if this is a real situation or a hypothetical fantasy set before Uus to guage reaction.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 5:59:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		I doubt if it is real.  I mean she hasn't been back to post since the OP.  If she really wanted advice for real I guess "she" would've been communicating with those trying to help...lol

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 6:04:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		Lovingpet nailed it.
It's not so much the arrangement itself, as the circumstances by which it came (whoops, pun alert) about. I think most are just trying to get the OP to think outside the box, errr, so to speak, about the ways this could really go bad. If the guy in question was just  Joe Blow (shoot me now) rather than her boss and ex, the responses would be different.

In all seriousness, schtupping the boss is a bad idea in the first place. Entering into what is an illegal arrangement for sex after the break up of a romantic relationship with your boss??
Some of us see it as a trainwreck in the making.


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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 6:11:51 PM   
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Some of us see it as a trainwreck in the making.
Oh, make no mistake about it. This is certainly not anything I'd do (from either side) or would encourage anyone I cared about to do. But women have been offering sex to men in positions of power for about as long as the human race has existed. So she wants to do her boss and he wants to pay her for it? I'm just not getting how this is any weirder than... say... eyeball licking... or a dynamic based on fear... or .... well... lots of things I read here. Heck, it's noticeably better than the dreaded

CLOWN SEX

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 6:17:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well, see, eyeball licking will only leave someone penniless if the one doing the licking attaches razors to their tongue first or has an mouth infection or both.

However, this girl could well wind up without a job and no means of paying her bills if things go south. I personally don't care. High risk games are some people's kinks. I just don't want to read another thread from the OP later bemoaning said consequences as if no one warned her it could go that way. I play some pretty high risk games of my own, but when I come here and lay one out there and seem to not have a clue what I am getting into, I would hope someone would make me aware. Then if I go out and do it anyway, I have no excuse to come back in here whining that nobody warned me THAT could happen. It is no different than telling someone about the risk of infection from knife or needle play.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 6:20:11 PM   
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Some of us see it as a trainwreck in the making.
Oh, make no mistake about it. This is certainly not anything I'd do (from either side) or would encourage anyone I cared about to do. But women have been offering sex to men in positions of power for about as long as the human race has existed. So she wants to do her boss and he wants to pay her for it? I'm just not getting how this is any weirder than... say... eyeball licking... or a dynamic based on fear... or .... well... lots of things I read here. Heck, it's noticeably better than the dreaded

CLOWN SEX


Thanks, Jeff----
Now I'm going to have nightmares.  < walking around muttering about clown sex >. 
Yep, makin' that flogger and I'm gonna give it to Carol and I'm going to put some ouchy bits on the end. 
  Davan
(Who is now traumatized because Jeff brought up the dreaded clown sex...aaaarrrrrrrrgggggggghhhhhhhhh!!!) 

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 6:27:49 PM   
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Davan
(Who is now traumatized because Jeff brought up the dreaded clown sex...aaaarrrrrrrrgggggggghhhhhhhhh!!!) 


Yeah, Jeff can be a real Bozo at times...


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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 6:45:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		In all my time on CM, I don't think I've read about anything as personally traumatizing as clown sex. 
And, Steven, I'm a highly visual girl: I do not want to think about Jeff done up as a clown.  No, no, nooooooooooooooo!!! 
  Davan
(Who's going to proclaim Jeff is a sadist if he keeps up with this clown sex thing!)

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 6:46:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		Jeff IS a closet sadist, or at least one who is clueless to the fact he is one! LOL *hides*

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 7:14:40 PM   
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Just supposing for a moment that any of this is true--

The money almost certainly would come not from him, but from the company. And when he's caught (that kinda money will eventually be missed), she's caught in an illegal act.


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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 7:18:16 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		Two grand a month is not enough, to be a no-limits slave. Even the slavest of slaves must have limits.

He wants to pay to continue having sex with you because that is what he wants from you, duh.   He likes it, and wants it to continue.

He may even be hopelessly in love with you, and is trying to figure out a way to at least have you somehow, even if only for sex. Who knows? But you broke up for a (mutually agreed upon) reason. Pay attention to your needs now, not his. You are broken up. Is he married? Are you? Are either or both of you otherwise involved?

GET ANOTHER JOB right now yesterday and run like the wind away from this loser. I cannot stress this enough. Stay broken up with him and don't give him sex. Its a trap. The money will never be enough.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 7:27:39 PM   
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B4 he told me he never paid for sex which I believe so and he has no problem finding other women as he is very cute and smart. Another thing is, I find this arrangement so exciting, maybe its because of the humiliation.
  IDK....but judging from the fact that u use txt speech in ur OP amongst other grammatical gems...pretty sure u weren't this dude's secretary. Ma-B U2 R MFEO....(made for each other)

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 7:34:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		very interesting yet weird thread...while I personally find exciting the whole prostitute thing....its bad for the OP...and cheapens anything you had with this guy. Whats worse is that he is your actual boss at work which makes everything more complicated. You need to walk away from the job or ask to move elsewhere like another dept. and for sure not be a prostitute to him...because if that is the case, I am sure you can find another Dominant who can pay you for sex...sounds like after the break up this guy was left without any "action" and is desperate to have you instead and do the stuff he wanted to do but with-held from in the relationship.

This will not work out in the long run....you want humiliation? Get another Dominant, should not be hard.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 7:42:14 PM   
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Jeff IS a closet sadist, or at least one who is clueless to the fact he is one! LOL *hides*

Sadist in denial maybe? Wait wait! I know! It was carol who logged onto my computer and edited that post for the clown sex link. yeah yeah.. BAD CAROL! BAD!


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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 7:44:44 PM   
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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 7:46:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GoddessImaginos
Good grief! I look away for a couple of hours, come back and the subject is Klown Sechs..
Heh, you think YOU missed something. Sheez, it wasn't you they were ganging up on. Whatever happened to treating us poor doms with respect? *sighs wearily*


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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 7:53:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GoddessImaginos
Good grief! I look away for a couple of hours, come back and the subject is Klown Sechs..
Heh, you think YOU missed something. Sheez, it wasn't you they were ganging up on. Whatever happened to treating us poor doms with respect? *sighs wearily*



Well, in all fairness, I do treat MY partner with respect. giggles

Did you read about the razors, infections, and eyeball licking??? I was rather proud of that one!

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 7:55:04 PM   
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Jeff IS a closet sadist, or at least one who is clueless to the fact he is one! LOL *hides*

Sadist in denial maybe? Wait wait! I know! It was carol who logged onto my computer and edited that post for the clown sex link. yeah yeah.. BAD CAROL! BAD!



Behind every punished woman is a man in flaming denial..... giggles more

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 7:56:13 PM   
GoddessImaginos


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ORIGINAL: lovingpet


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ORIGINAL: leadership527

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ORIGINAL: GoddessImaginos
Good grief! I look away for a couple of hours, come back and the subject is Klown Sechs..
Heh, you think YOU missed something. Sheez, it wasn't you they were ganging up on. Whatever happened to treating us poor doms with respect? *sighs wearily*



Well, in all fairness, I do treat MY partner with respect. giggles

Did you read about the razors, infections, and eyeball licking??? I was rather proud of that one!

lovingpet


*faints*

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 7:59:15 PM   
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Behind every punished woman is a man in flaming denial..... giggles more

*sighs* I hate you all. I'm going to go away and pout now... In a domly fashion of course... stern pouting...


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