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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 7:59:18 PM   
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Good grief! I look away for a couple of hours, come back and the subject is Klown Sechs..
Heh, you think YOU missed something. Sheez, it wasn't you they were ganging up on. Whatever happened to treating us poor doms with respect? *sighs wearily*



Well, in all fairness, I do treat MY partner with respect. giggles

Did you read about the razors, infections, and eyeball licking??? I was rather proud of that one!

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 8:02:16 PM   
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Behind every punished woman is a man in flaming denial..... giggles more

*sighs* I hate you all. I'm going to go away and pout now... In a domly fashion of course... stern pouting...



Are all the wimmens gangin up on ya tonight? I tell you what, you two come on over east side for a visit and we can all find out who likes what. Of course it will cost ya $2000 (just to pretend to stay on topic LOL).

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 8:02:58 PM   
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Behind every punished woman is a man in flaming denial..... giggles more

*sighs* I hate you all. I'm going to go away and pout now... In a domly fashion of course... stern pouting...



The mental picture is outstanding, thank You..

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 8:22:47 PM   
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Behind every punished woman is a man in flaming denial..... giggles more

*sighs* I hate you all. I'm going to go away and pout now... In a domly fashion of course... stern pouting...



You know you love us.  Wait, maybe you're a masochist too.  Lol!  :>  Perhaps you're a multi-tasking, many-faceted deviant!  :> 
< hugs > Jeff while passing Carol the yummy flogger of which I have spoken < What, huh, no, I didn't hand Carol anything...don't know what you're talking about, Jeff > 
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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 8:31:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		Lots of wo/men are prostitutes if that is what you desire to do, then go for it. Just make sure you spell out whatever boundaries that you need to in place to be safe with what your doing.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 10:23:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sounds like a very very common fantasy among powerful/rich men and (usually)younger women...  Myself included.  I cannot understand the animosity either really.  Many women 'prostitute' themselves for affection, stability, love, a partner that can provide for them and offspring.  Would a vanilla guy who didn't buy dinner and prove he could provide for his partner be that successful?

My advice to you would depend on a lot of details that I lack.  I'm young, no career path forged yet, just an office job here and an office job there in fields I have no plans to stay in past college.  In other words, my future is not invested in my current job.  If it were, I might think twice before dating my boss and definitely before taking on this type of arrangement.

You want to have sex with him?  ...He's cute and funny.  He wants to pay you for that.  Who is losing here?  You get 2,000 dollars a month and the ability to walk away whenever you'd like... as long as you are smart.  Save the money.  Don't get a better apartment or start a new car payment or blow it on the trivial.  Don't indulge in emotional fantasies about this guy.  In other words, don't spoil yourself.  Save it for your future.  Save it for when this arrangement finally ends.  And it will end.  The only huge mistake I see is thinking it will last forever and building your life around that.

If it doesn't make you feel good, then don't do it.  If it does make you feel good, then don't hesitate or let anyone else's judgment value keep you from that.


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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/23/2009 10:34:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		Did anyone ever see the movie GIGI?  It is about a young woman who is groomed to become a rich man's mistress.  This kind of stuff has been going on a long time.  June is correct, if you are going to do this keep working hard and use that money to live on and save the money he gives you to be his slut.  He doesn't want more than that and you are already thinking it over.  What ever you do, do not invest that money in stocks!  Once you get tired of being used, or he gets tired of using you, at least you will have some cash for a vacation you will need.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/24/2009 12:53:00 AM   
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My ex-Dom is also my boss. We dated for a year and recently broke up under mutual agreement. After break-up he stills wants to have sex with me. He said if I keep sleeping with him he won't look for other girls and he will pay me $2000/month for that. He will also pay me for my work. He said for that amount of money he will do whatever he likes. I know he is very safety conscious so I don't think he will do anything to hurt me. But he will definitely do something like cum in my mouth or rimming which I never agreed when we were dating, he said this arrangement will make him much more relaxed to do what he likes. He also asked for anal which we rarely did.
I was just wondering why he wants to pay for sex. B4 he told me he never paid for sex which I believe so and he has no problem finding other women as he is very cute and smart. Another thing is, I find this arrangement so exciting, maybe its because of the humiliation.

How do you feel about this arrangement?



Well, moral and legal issues aside, this type of arrangement usually commands 5-6k a month at least, so I guessing he thinks you are stupid, and his measley 2k a month reflects that.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/24/2009 7:20:23 AM   
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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/24/2009 7:20:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well, I am sure that very few girls are given the chance to do this, nowadays....So, in order to give the rest of you girls a taste of the sweetlife, anyone wanna blow me for about a dollars worth, right now?

R

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/24/2009 8:13:56 AM   
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Well, I am sure that very few girls are given the chance to do this, nowadays....So, in order to give the rest of you girls a taste of the sweetlife, anyone wanna blow me for about a dollars worth, right now?

R


Thats about 10 seconds, is that long enough

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/24/2009 8:16:48 AM   
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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/24/2009 8:22:35 AM   
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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/24/2009 8:35:23 AM   
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Well, I am sure that very few girls are given the chance to do this, nowadays....So, in order to give the rest of you girls a taste of the sweetlife, anyone wanna blow me for about a dollars worth, right now?

R


Your a true philanthropist. Makes me all teary - eyed.


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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/24/2009 9:04:25 AM   
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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/24/2009 9:22:08 AM   
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Yeah, it'll prolly choke you up, as well.

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Heh!



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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/24/2009 9:33:27 AM   
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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/24/2009 10:36:40 AM   
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I really don't see the big deal in this.  Sure he's her boss and that could lead to problems down the road, but lots of people do their bosses without money exchanging hands, and the truth is, the boss is the one with most to lose (I did a boss years and years ago - a senior VP of the company.  Had he offered 2 grand for it, you bet I'd have taken him up on that!).

To the OP, if you can handle this emotionally, go for it.  Write up an agreement so you're both moving forward with the same understanding of what can be/can not be done.  It's basically reverse-tributing, isn't it? 


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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/24/2009 10:54:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		It sounds awesome, and if it turns you on go for it. If there comes a time when it doesn't cancel it (and make sure that option is written into the contract.) He clearly wants to own you. What fun!

Ever watch Madmen? This is pretty much what the job "secretary" was invented for. It's not just a kink movie, never has been.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/24/2009 12:34:16 PM   
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Now, a more sustainable business model (setting aside the legal complications for the moment) might be that he lays down two grand a month, sets you up in an apartment, and sends men over for you to fuck as he pleases, turning a profit on the deal that he can use to cover the expense as well as retain a few attorneys.

Your usefulness as such an asset is limited to the early part of your life, though, so you should be thinking in terms of a financial standing that will support you through the rest of your life, including health, retirement, living expenses, and probably therapy.

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