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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/24/2009 5:48:00 PM   
OrionTheWolf


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Like Sebastian Horsley, England’s low-rent Oscar Wilde. “The difference between sex for money and sex for free,” he writes, “is that sex for money always costs a lot less.” Money is the elephant in every bedroom, making your parents’ constant presence look positively bourgeois.

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/23/books/review/Bentley-t.html

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/24/2009 5:50:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		Unless your RICH take the money. It is cash only..no check..no iou...no credit cards....CASH AND CARRY ONLY.  Rule 1. NO CASH NO HONEY. 

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/24/2009 7:09:02 PM   
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If this really is what you find exciting why didn't you have this sort of arrangement in your relationship?


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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 8/24/2009 9:08:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'll echo the sentiments that find mild confusion at this scenario being seen as any weirder or more dangerous than any other.

The OP seemed to make clear a previous break based on pre-determined parameters that had been discussed. If this involvement has adequate pre-planning and understanding of mutual expectations, then it seems jolly good to me.


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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 9/7/2009 9:24:51 AM   
RustyOldHat


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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

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Oh For FUCKS sakes people!!!!

Look sit down and talk about your fears and make it clear that you reserve the right to walk away at ANY TIME.

Understand that if he is paying you for your sexual wilds then you are commiting prostitution. It is a crime, and you can be arrested for it. Being that you are on the Payroll he will have to figure out how to give you this raise and make it taxable. It is easy to do but depending on how the corporation is set up could cause some problems in the long run.

The Biggest problem with this how you will be paid as you and he will both be reporting it to the IRS so you all will need to havce a firm understanding on how payment works.

Know that what you both will be doing is ILLEGAL in all 50 States outside a licensed Brothel, because of this you will need to be careful how you engage in this practice. Anyone who gets an idea about what is going on can easily blackmail the both of you. Not that this happens all the time just know it is a possible negative outcome.

As for the relationship if you guys are still friends and you want to fill this position then just make sure the terms work for BOTH of you.

And that you are free to walk away from him and the paycheck at ANY TIME.

Steel


This. Also realize that he is free to walk away from it at any time, and very well may.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 9/7/2009 11:17:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think it sounds sort of dangerous. Do what you want, but make sure your safe. 

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 9/7/2009 1:55:36 PM   
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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 9/8/2009 3:31:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: excitingtrip
He said if I keep sleeping with him he won't look for other girls and he will pay me $2000/month for that. He will also pay me for my work . . .

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he'll pay you for what you used to give for free? Take the money, take the money!


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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 9/8/2009 3:48:52 PM   
subonmission


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Status: offline 		something tells me there was a 2k pay-rise he has neglected to tell you about......... ask for 5 and diamond shoes

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 9/8/2009 6:34:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		Erm... thats called prositution and is illigal in 49 states.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 9/8/2009 6:41:35 PM   
EROS3X


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Status: offline 		If you are so excited about it, why don't you give it a try for a couple of months of so. It will be even more exciting for you if he throws the money in your face after he is done using you for the night. (I think that's hot).

My gut says he will pull out of the deal soon as he realizes that you've become a pretty expensive whore (literally speaking here)...unless money is not an issue for him.

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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 9/9/2009 12:36:11 PM   
petmonkey


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Status: offline 		My (rather crude) kneejerk reaction?   Never shit where you eat.

After some reflection, i still would not accept this arrangement as is.  Find another job and then consider:
A) What DarkSteven asked about what broke you up and whether it's still there
B) The legality of the situation for you and him.
C) Whether being paid for sex is really something that makes you tingle, or is it just getting a slice, any slice, of this particular guy.


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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 9/9/2009 2:46:55 PM   
OrionTheWolf


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Status: offline 		Some call it marriage ;).

Speeding is illegal as well, and effects more people, but people still do it.


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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

Erm... thats called prositution and is illigal in 49 states.

Magik


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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 9/9/2009 3:00:39 PM   
flogger


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RE: my ex-dom asked to pay me to be his sex slave, and ... - 9/10/2009 7:00:40 AM   
EspadaKing


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Status: offline 		I agree with you there that happened to some guy that embezzeled money from his charittee to a pay a dominatrix to beat him back in 2004. He (I assume) lost his wife, kids, job, and I read that he got a pretty harsh prison sentence. Which means he's sleeping with one I open and clinging to that soap for dear life.

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