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dreamerdreaming -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 3:53:22 PM)
Enjoy being single! There's no asshole ruining your day.

LillyoftheVally -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 3:53:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Prinsexx Chris Morris? Should I know him? Should I add him to my friends? Is he perfect or is he flawed? Is he an alpha male? I like imperfections in a man...I always think I can change them.... that's another flaw I have. I'll google Morris..... maybe he'll have me.... getting desperate and more deperate by the minute..... Prins, its hard to see and harder to apply but it is also true, the more we try to find something the less likely we will. If you project negativity that is what you will get back. Yes hun you are flawed, I am flawed, johnny bloody depp is flawed, no one is perfect, but you also see a lot of value in yourself and that is maybe where your energy needs to lie at the moment, not with what makes you worst but what makes you better.

ModeratorEleven -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 3:53:33 PM)
Settle down, children. XI

RapierFugue -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 3:53:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Apocalypso quote: ORIGINAL: Prinsexx Chris Morris? Should I know him? Should I add him to my friends? Is he perfect or is he flawed? Is he an alpha male? He's a bitter hateful misanthrope. I'm sure he has some flaws as well though. [;)] (Seriously, google Brass Eye. He's hilarious). He's certainly funny, but I never find him as funny as I think I should do, or as funny as I thought he was going to be, if that makes any sense. <re-reads post> No, it makes no sense at all. Well, ok, I knew WTF I meant at any rate [:D]

IrishMist -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 3:54:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail You can speak for yourself as you please, but LT has to clear her views thru your master? Wanna waltz me all the way thru that? They were having sloppy joes in the cafeteria today and I guess I missed out on that sentence diagrammation. Ron I thought it was milk and cookie day? [8D] [:D]

Leiren -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 3:54:45 PM)
IrishMist: In the short time I've been here, I've taken the opportunity to read some of the archived (older posts). You're just another angry person. You even stated in a previous thread that the ONLY interest you had in BSDM was for someone to beat your aggressive anger out of you. How does that equate with being a sub / slave who serves for the pure joy of serving? It doesn't.

Apocalypso -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 3:55:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RapierFugue He's certainly funny, but I never find him as funny as I think I should do, or as funny as I thought he was going to be, if that makes any sense. <re-reads post> No, it makes no sense at all. Well, ok, I knew WTF I meant at any rate [:D] SERIOUSLY. I don't mind a bit of flaming. But you don't suggest Chris Morris isn't a genius. Somebody always has to go too far. [>:]

IrishMist -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 3:56:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leiren IrishMist: In the short time I've been here, I've taken the opportunity to read some of the archived (older posts). You're just another angry person. You even stated in a previous thread that the ONLY interest you had in BSDM was for someone to beat your aggressive anger out of you. How does that equate with being a sub / slave who serves for the pure joy of serving? It doesn't. snicker Hot fucking dayum...I have been taken to task I think the sky is falling.

Prinsexx -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 3:56:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RapierFugue quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 quote: ORIGINAL: RapierFugue quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 I think this is a facinating psychological question. It would be nice if people could answer the question and not attack the originator of the question. I have yet to see the person Leiren actually answer the qurstion as it pertains to herself. "Do you see yourself as perfect? Do you see yorself as flawed? Do you expect perfection in others? If no what flaws can you handle, what flaws are actually appealing? What IS the 'gold standrad' you are using? If you are D type would you train, iron out those flaws in an s type? " I really would like to learn your opinions and learn about you on the inside. Ok, I'll answer for me: "A: It's a pile of trite cod-psyche, and I don't work that cheap." Do you have 2 profiles, because you are not the person I asked? Then learn how to work a browser, and reply to the correct posting. Also, this being a public forum, I'll reply to whatever the fuck I feel like replying to. Have a nice day. Your private mail is as rude as your manner here. It's heartening to see so many other flawed human beings.

LillyoftheVally -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 3:58:40 PM)
Leiren, quit while your ahe...well no actually just quit. I don't know how you can be so aggressive and then spend all your time pointing the finger. Yes your sir gives you permission to post here, that is irrelevant, you seem so able to insult others maybe you need to sit down and objectively read what you have written. If you are unable to do that, well then I think it makes the Op's post very valid, it is indeed easy to see in others while holding yourself on your pedestal.

BitaTruble -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 3:58:46 PM)
RapierFugue Your's is the last post on page two and if someone used the fast reply box on that page, it would put your name in the lower right hand corner of their post. Considering the post Lushy cut from did come from page two, that would be my guess as to what happened. Maybe not, but it is logical to assume that she was replying to the person whose post she quoted and you just happened to be the last poster on that page so that's how your name got on the bottom of her reply.

Prinsexx -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:02:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming Enjoy being single! There's no asshole ruining your day. I've turned assholes into an art form recently.

aphotic -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:03:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally Leiren, quit while your ahe...well no actually just quit. Well actually, since you are dealing it... you can't cut off words with an ellipsis. That is what em dashes are for. "Leiren, quit while you're ahe--. Well no, actually, just quit." Learn to write if you're going to pick a fight.

mnottertail -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:03:12 PM)
Practicing your rim jobs, or...............?

RapierFugue -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:04:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Prinsexx quote: ORIGINAL: RapierFugue quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 quote: ORIGINAL: RapierFugue quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 I think this is a facinating psychological question. It would be nice if people could answer the question and not attack the originator of the question. I have yet to see the person Leiren actually answer the qurstion as it pertains to herself. "Do you see yourself as perfect? Do you see yorself as flawed? Do you expect perfection in others? If no what flaws can you handle, what flaws are actually appealing? What IS the 'gold standrad' you are using? If you are D type would you train, iron out those flaws in an s type? " I really would like to learn your opinions and learn about you on the inside. Ok, I'll answer for me: "A: It's a pile of trite cod-psyche, and I don't work that cheap." Do you have 2 profiles, because you are not the person I asked? Then learn how to work a browser, and reply to the correct posting. Also, this being a public forum, I'll reply to whatever the fuck I feel like replying to. Have a nice day. Your private mail is as rude as your manner here. It's heartening to see so many other flawed human beings. You say "rude", I say "intolerant of issue-laden, attention seeking, semi-literate drama-queens". There's always more than one viewpoint. Sadly, you only want to hear agreement with your own.

CaringandReal -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:04:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: porcelaine ... if i attach myself to a particular outcome at some point i'm going to be disappointed and depending on the circumstances truly disheartened. i have gone through both and learned through much pain and more tears than i can count that i simply cannot live in that manner. it is counterproductive to me as a person, self-destructive on many levels, and very harmful to the slave mindset and m/s dynamic. it places undue pressure on everyone to perform as stated/expected or whatever notion we've conjured in our head. i made peace with the fact that life offers no guarantee. when i released this and simply allowed things to unfold as they should and chose to live in the moment, not moments ahead, i found joy and peaceful tranquility. Submission as detachment? Perhaps. It's certainly an appropriate stance to assume toward another's decisions once you are a slave and possibly also a best practice with the "small things" when you're in the anxiety-provoking stage of considering/being considered. The mathematics of detachment are accurate: someone without expectations, be they great or small, is not crushed when they are not met. But when it comes to the ultimate prize I believe it best when attitude shifts as far toward the poetic extreme as you can go and you "consume yourself like burning chaff" in the fevor of your passion for the dark lord of your soul and hold nothing in reserve even if he does not assure you of even the smallest corner in his domain. Yes, you risk a great deal by doing that, pretty much everything in fact, and the fall is so far down. And when you're smashed and broken on the rocks of despair, it may very well be years (if at all) before you are strong enough to pick yourself up and begin even a small limping walk toward something or someone else. Well, it's what I do anyway. It hasn't killed me yet! (Although it has come close once or twice. :/) And when a very practical part of me, the part that loves to practice detachment, tells me exactly how stupid I'm being, I just start singing "The Lady with a Fan" (G. Dead, not C. Calloway) at the top of my mental lungs to drown her out. ;)

TurboJugend -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:04:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: aphotic quote: ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally Leiren, quit while your ahe...well no actually just quit. Well actually, since you are dealing it... you can't cut off words with an ellipsis. That is what em dashes are for. "Leiren, quit while you're ahe--. Well no, actually, just quit." Learn to write if you're going to pick a fight. What has writing and fighting to do with eachother. Just excuses for personal attacks.

lally2 -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:05:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally quote: ORIGINAL: Prinsexx Chris Morris? Should I know him? Should I add him to my friends? Is he perfect or is he flawed? Is he an alpha male? I like imperfections in a man...I always think I can change them.... that's another flaw I have. I'll google Morris..... maybe he'll have me.... getting desperate and more deperate by the minute..... Prins, its hard to see and harder to apply but it is also true, the more we try to find something the less likely we will. If you project negativity that is what you will get back. Yes hun you are flawed, I am flawed, johnny bloody depp is flawed, no one is perfect, but you also see a lot of value in yourself and that is maybe where your energy needs to lie at the moment, not with what makes you worst but what makes you better. excuse me but johnny depp is not flawed!!! - take that back -- [sm=duel.gif]

RapierFugue -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:05:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RapierFugue quote: ORIGINAL: Prinsexx quote: ORIGINAL: RapierFugue quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 quote: ORIGINAL: RapierFugue quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 I think this is a facinating psychological question. It would be nice if people could answer the question and not attack the originator of the question. I have yet to see the person Leiren actually answer the qurstion as it pertains to herself. "Do you see yourself as perfect? Do you see yorself as flawed? Do you expect perfection in others? If no what flaws can you handle, what flaws are actually appealing? What IS the 'gold standrad' you are using? If you are D type would you train, iron out those flaws in an s type? " I really would like to learn your opinions and learn about you on the inside. Ok, I'll answer for me: "A: It's a pile of trite cod-psyche, and I don't work that cheap." Do you have 2 profiles, because you are not the person I asked? Then learn how to work a browser, and reply to the correct posting. Also, this being a public forum, I'll reply to whatever the fuck I feel like replying to. Have a nice day. Your private mail is as rude as your manner here. It's heartening to see so many other flawed human beings. You say "rude", I say "intolerant of issue-laden, attention seeking, semi-literate drama-queens". There's always more than one viewpoint. Sadly, you only want to hear agreement with your own. Oh, and another thing: don't email people in private, trying to drum up sympathy for your own private little wars. I don't take sides, and I don't take kindly to being soft-soaped in the interests of you gaining an ally.

Leiren -> RE: Flaws (8/25/2009 4:08:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IrishMist snicker Hot fucking dayum...I have been taken to task I think the sky is falling. Only in YOUR world. By your own admission based on previous threads that you contributed to, you aren't a sub or slave. You admitted that because of your occupation (LE) that you need a smackdown to release your anger. That's some dangerous shit, woman. While you're playing with smackdowns the fact that you claim to be LE, scares the hell out of me. Take that as you will. I live in a neighborhood where LE is a regular presence. Not once have I seen an LE type bleat like you're so fond of doing.

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