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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/16/2009 4:23:03 PM   
theRose4U


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My heart goes out to you, you should have never had to endure such treatment. He has disgraced himself and is no longer worthy to be referred to as anything other than what he has become.

I would agree but I'm guessing Master Piece of Crap is already taken :)

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/16/2009 5:17:21 PM   
sidney614


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Status: offline 		Your comments have been very helpful. It is getting better with each passing day. It will soon fade away like a bad dream. And I did learn some very helpful things about myself and what I'm looking and not looking for....

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/16/2009 5:55:44 PM   
JAS61


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Status: offline 		I will take a different tack on this. I have found in my own experiences that submissive women usually seem to find a couple bad matchups. WHy is simple you are submissive and a weak man will use that to control you. He is not leading from his strength but rather from your submission. If a man is strong and is a leader he will take you where you need to be and want to be and you will be safe and happy. Why is simple, he does not have to break you down to build himself up.

I do not blame you for this or anyone else who has fallen into this situation. I think it is a learning experience and it takes a bit of age and experience in life for a Dom to control himself much less another person. It is work and it requires that you take care of the person as well as control them. If the care part is missing it is just beating them for your own jollies or to make yourself bigger in your own mind.

Time will heal and the advice you got to look at what happened is very good. And decide what you want and look for it and how the guy approaches it and you will find what you seek.

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/16/2009 10:06:35 PM   
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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 5:46:26 AM   
sidney614


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Status: offline 		My first thought of the morning was what a opportunity I have to just go to school and focus on my studies and my own wants and needs.
So I'm going to run my county song backwards...
Get my life back
My heart back
My self respect back
and of course my dog back


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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 5:52:08 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		As long as you're playing the song backwards... /Gives sidney a truck/

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 6:02:09 AM   
Acer49


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ORIGINAL: JAS61

I will take a different tack on this. I have found in my own experiences that submissive women usually seem to find a couple bad matchups. WHy is simple you are submissive and a weak man will use that to control you. He is not leading from his strength but rather from your submission. If a man is strong and is a leader he will take you where you need to be and want to be and you will be safe and happy. Why is simple, he does not have to break you down to build himself up.

I do not blame you for this or anyone else who has fallen into this situation. I think it is a learning experience and it takes a bit of age and experience in life for a Dom to control himself much less another person. It is work and it requires that you take care of the person as well as control them. If the care part is missing it is just beating them for your own jollies or to make yourself bigger in your own mind.

Time will heal and the advice you got to look at what happened is very good. And decide what you want and look for it and how the guy approaches it and you will find what you seek.


If he was a man of honor he would have seen to it that she got the help she needed, not use it against her like that

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 6:05:53 AM   
Acer49


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ORIGINAL: theRose4U

quote:

My heart goes out to you, you should have never had to endure such treatment. He has disgraced himself and is no longer worthy to be referred to as anything other than what he has become.

I would agree but I'm guessing Master Piece of Crap is already taken :)


Well. everything comes around goes around, He will get his just due

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 6:07:36 AM   
sirsholly


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My first thought of the morning was what a opportunity I have to just go to school and focus on my studies and my own wants and needs.
So I'm going to run my county song backwards...
Get my life back
My heart back
My self respect back
and of course my dog back
quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

As long as you're playing the song backwards... /Gives sidney a truck/
y'all forgot Grandma.....


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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 6:13:49 AM   
DarkSteven


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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 7:06:59 AM   
VirginPotty


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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

I left my Daddy on Sunday,
by Monday i had a new man
He just broked out of prison,
called hisself TrainWreckDan

I was drivin' CD's puttputt mobile
cause my truck was in the shop
Coulda rode the train to work
but wanted coffee from IHop

Saw him in the parking lot
so i let out a beller
got his attention right quick
now that boy's one happy feller.

Chorus

Now its me and him and a dog named Fred
Eatin' pancakes after a scene
Me and him and a dog named Fred
At least this good ole boy is clean


Typo fixed CD!
You're welcome

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 7:20:00 AM   
CreativeDominant


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ORIGINAL: VirginPotty

quote:

ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

I left my Daddy on Sunday,
by Monday i had a new man
He just broked out of prison,
called hisself TrainWreckDan

I was drivin' CD's puttputt mobile
cause my truck was in the shop
Coulda rode the train to work
but wanted coffee from IHop

Saw him in the parking lot
so i let out a beller
got his attention right quick
now that boy's one happy feller.

Chorus

Now its me and him and a dog named Fred
Eatin' pancakes after a scene
Me and him and a dog named Fred
At least this good ole boy is clean


Typo fixed CD!
You're welcome
Smart ass Pots...  BTW, did you see Steven just gave you to Sidney?

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 9:38:21 AM   
sidney614


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[/quote]

If he was a man of honor he would have seen to it that she got the help she needed, not use it against her like that
[/quote]

He is not a man with honor. He is man in the middle of his own addiction and did not want me to seek *real* help. I have known this for some time but it took time and more pain for me to find the strength within myself to finally do what is best for me. We both need to get help. I'm working on my own issues that kept me in harms way.

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 9:41:35 AM   
sidney614


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Status: offline 		Thanks Dark Steven for the truck and grandma..
Now I have a truck
I have grandma
I just got my school books...

Now is there anyone good with math or business communications?

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 12:11:41 PM   
CreativeDominant


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ORIGINAL: sidney614

Thanks Dark Steven for the truck and grandma..
Now I have a truck
I have grandma
I just got my school books...

Now is there anyone good with math or business communications?
~raises my hand~  trust me when I say that after 26 yrs of dealing with insurance companies, factories, and lawyers...I've gotten really good at business communications.  Nevermind that I want to start a lot of my reports/letters with "Look here, fuckhead..."

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 12:12:11 PM   
VirginPotty


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Smart ass Pots...  BTW, did you see Steven just gave you to Sidney?


Not nice, Steven

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 12:22:53 PM   
sidney614


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ORIGINAL: VirginPotty

quote:

Smart ass Pots...  BTW, did you see Steven just gave you to Sidney?


Not nice, Steven




Ok Potty... Get in the truck!!!!

just kidding... Don't beat me........to much.

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 12:25:12 PM   
sidney614


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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

quote:

ORIGINAL: sidney614

Thanks Dark Steven for the truck and grandma..
Now I have a truck
I have grandma
I just got my school books...

Now is there anyone good with math or business communications?
~raises my hand~  trust me when I say that after 26 yrs of dealing with insurance companies, factories, and lawyers...I've gotten really good at business communications.  Nevermind that I want to start a lot of my reports/letters with "Look here, fuckhead..."


I don't think.... Look here, fuckhead.... will help me with my business communcation class.

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 12:30:47 PM   
CreativeDominant


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ORIGINAL: sidney614


quote:

ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

quote:

ORIGINAL: sidney614

Thanks Dark Steven for the truck and grandma..
Now I have a truck
I have grandma
I just got my school books...

Now is there anyone good with math or business communications?
~raises my hand~  trust me when I say that after 26 yrs of dealing with insurance companies, factories, and lawyers...I've gotten really good at business communications.  Nevermind that I want to start a lot of my reports/letters with "Look here, fuckhead..."


I don't think.... Look here, fuckhead.... will help me with my business communcation class.
Prolly not......which is why I usually start with "Dear Sir/Madam...In regards to _______________________" rather than "Look here, fuckhead".  Of course, as noted, it is still what I WANT to use with many of my letters/reports.  Especially when dealing with Medicare. 

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 1:01:27 PM   
Toppingfrmbottom


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Status: offline 		Correction, I have never ever said in any of my relationships that ended that he was using me for his own gain.And not every one needs to demonize their partners to feel better about the break up, and sometimes people really were the ass the partner claims they were.
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