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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 1:03:48 PM

sidney614

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Don't get me started on Medicare.... It deserves its own thread. LOL

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 1:06:00 PM

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Lol, when you mentioned "MediCare" I just KNEW you were talking about CD! Uh, I mean.......TOO CD, yeah that's the ticket, TOO CD!

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 2:07:08 PM

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Just for shits and giggles I'd turn the real bit back on him and say real owner/master/sir/daddy don't question subs as real or true because of their likes preferances and needs.

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. No-one can "make" her do anything she doesn't want to do - and she has the right to say no to anything without being any less a sub/slave/little girl. And if her owner/master/sir/daddy brings out the old saw of "a true sub/slave/little girl would do it", she can say "well this one doesn't.

Infact, unless that particular phrase is said in jest, then that would be a pretty good way of telling the "real" from the "unreal" doms/masters/daddys.

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 3:18:39 PM

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Lol, when you mentioned "MediCare" I just KNEW you were talking about CD! Uh, I mean.......TOO CD, yeah that's the ticket, TOO CD!

C'mere potsie...lemme show ya how I'd use you as a walker.

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/17/2009 8:09:28 PM

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Been in the same situation and know how badly it hurts..but trust me you will survive it and it will make you stronger. The one piece of advice I can give you is this..don't turn away from who you are. I decided when mine went bad that this wasn't the lifestyle for me. Big mistake..I buried it but it kept reappearing. Always be true to yourself and who you are.

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/18/2009 5:10:22 AM

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Your comments have been very helpful. It is getting better with each passing day. It will soon fade away like a bad dream. And I did learn some very helpful things about myself and what I'm looking and not looking for....

Dear Sidney,

True force is not about always succeeding but about falling and standing up again.

You have all my helvetic encouragements, especially since you are now going of the most beautiful and esteemed profession of the world.

The tragedy of submissive women is that while their love is the highest prize a man can get (dominant or not), So many land in bad relationships.

Why are so many pure gems in so dirty hands?

Take good care of you

Henry

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/18/2009 7:30:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: Falkenstein

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ORIGINAL: sidney614

Your comments have been very helpful. It is getting better with each passing day. It will soon fade away like a bad dream. And I did learn some very helpful things about myself and what I'm looking and not looking for....

Dear Sidney,

True force is not about always succeeding but about falling and standing up again.

You have all my helvetic encouragements, especially since you are now going of the most beautiful and esteemed profession of the world.

The tragedy of submissive women is that while their love is the highest prize a man can get (dominant or not), So many land in bad relationships.

Why are so many pure gems in so dirty hands?

Take good care of you

Henry

Henry:
I am so heartened by seeing your response as so often (mistakenly) it is the victim of abuse who gets the blame.
Too many stuck on self theory simply respond by saying; you are the common denominator in all your relationships.
Sure there are victims.
But just as surely there are perpetrators and many abusers hide themselves behind the disguise of so-called consented use.

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/19/2009 2:48:53 PM

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Being a Master has to be about more than just using your slave, because if you do it right, your slave actively wants to be used.
Of course, any slave is there to do as he/she is told, but a competent Master knows perfectly well he's still dealing with a human being, no matter how much the slave tries to pretend they are just a 'thing'.
Both Masters and slaves I think can be somewhat misguided in their M.O. Some Masters think being a master is an excuse for a mixture of arrogance and ignorance, and some slaves aren't really slaves at all. They are just masochists looking for someone to act a part in their private play.
As usual, the answer to these end-of-affairs traumas is to genuinely know yourself, and once that's achieved, to be able to figure out your potential other halve's real motives.
Daddy Fred.

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/20/2009 2:31:46 PM

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It has been one week today since I walk away. Besides some bitter words through the email I have not talked with him. I still have moments were I lay in my twin bed and just let the tears run down my face but I guess.....it has only been one week. I want to thank the people that have been very helpful here and on the other side.
sidney

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/20/2009 2:34:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: sidney614

It has been one week today since I walk away. Besides some bitter words through the email I have not talked with him. I still have moments were I lay in my twin bed and just let the tears run down my face but I guess.....it has only been one week. I want to thank the people that have been very helpful here and on the other side.
sidney

you don't know Me, but..
{{{HUGGGSS}}}
Been there, suffered through that tunnel and came out the other side a much better Person. you will too, little sister. Goddess bless you.

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/22/2009 10:14:02 AM

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awww sid. i left my Master a little over 2 months ago. The pain lessens, it really does, and eventually you will find happiness. i think the biggest mistake we subbies make is trying to change ourselves for our Dom's. The One will want you as you are, and be happy to help you grow to be the best woman and sub you can be

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/22/2009 10:41:49 AM

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Not sure what is going on about "abuse" I know I had to ask a former slave to "get the fuck out" before it bacame abuse. She accused me of telling a lie as she was living in my apt on my dime, she began to sleep in her bra and refused to ride in my car etc, and hanging out with? for the rest of her time with me. Well, you get the idea of where I was headed, "to jail" but I kept my cool.

Not sure how this helps sydney if at all.

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/22/2009 12:43:40 PM

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Hi. My user name used to be Daddyssidney but I had to change it. My Daddy and I were together a little under two years. We started out in a vanilla relationship but I have always been submissive to the one that holds my heart. We were a great match in most all areas except the bedroom. Our sexual life really hurt me emotionally. When I would talk with him about it he would let up only to return to it later. I tried to make his kinks my own.......but that did not work. When I spoke with him about it he said nothing but took it out on me later. I'm beginning to realize that he only used the D/s dynamic for his own jollies with little to no regard of my well being. My introduction to the lifestyle was an abusive one. If some of you could share with me how you were able to overcome a BAD example of the lifestyle that would be very helpful.
Be Well
sidney

sidney,

Your story is certainly not a new or unusual one; and I will bet it came from the same set of error judgments in the beginning of the relationship.
D/s is not a vanilla relationship yet so many,subs in particular, treat it as tho it was. The characteristics of a solid D/s relationship needs alot of time to develope and that is especially true with new fems coming into the path.
You will heal over a shorter time than you think; but you will yearn for a relationship that fits your needs.
When you arrive at that point and something develops then take it slow, ask questions, state your interests and limits right up front.

Good Frotune,

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/22/2009 5:09:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: sidney614

It has been one week today since I walk away. Besides some bitter words through the email I have not talked with him. I still have moments were I lay in my twin bed and just let the tears run down my face but I guess.....it has only been one week. I want to thank the people that have been very helpful here and on the other side.
sidney

So ya got through the first week. It gets easier.

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/22/2009 6:54:29 PM

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like DS said it does get easier. huggles sid miss you girl!!!!

(yes i actually agreed with you, im tired!)

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RE: I left my Daddy on Sunday - 9/22/2009 8:09:48 PM

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Your an aweome person Sid, you can do this!!!!

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