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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 1:05:14 PM   
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I understand that Sirholly...but do you think it wise to judge the character of the person posting? Some good interesting people are far less Victorian about their bodies.

Butch



Actually, a bit, yes.  I do think it's fine to judge the character of that person.  If their primary picture is a crotch shot, the first thing that comes to mind is "Lovely, this person is not only crass but seems to see themselves as nothing but a piece of meat either consciously or subconsciously."  It tells me right off the bat that they think their most important quality is their junk.  As I said, kind of sad.

EDIT:  To add...
I don't come here to look at porn, I come here to meet people and chat, you know, be social.  Not that I dislike porn, in fact, I rather enjoy it.  But I have other places to go for that, and they're not difficult to find.  A place and time for everything.




And you see you could be dead wrong..too many people make snap judgements...but of course it is your right to do so.

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Isnt that part of the point I am making? WHether it is right or wrong, isnt the fact that it will make some judge you harshly for it trouble when you are trying to meet someone?

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 1:07:53 PM   
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Of course Butch you are absolutely right. I do think they are looking to shock and turn some people off. Perhaps they arent here to meet their soul mate and seek a slap and tickle only. I do believe though that are not going to get the numbers that they would have got without the overt dick in your face pic.


But imagine your reaction when you found out the truth about them... would it not be better to have an idea what they like up front?

Oh we understand each other....I just hate to see people judged in some way by the picture they post...when many kinks here are far far worse in the privacy of a bedroom. It is like penalizing someone for being honest about their wants and needs

Butch

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 1:12:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think you are crying discrimination feeling sorry for the judged. However, I dont think you would put up a pic like that yourself.

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But imagine your reaction when you found out the truth about them... would it not be better to have an idea what they like up front?


Everyone shows me the truth about them with their pictures. THey are worth a thousand words. It tells me whats most important to them. It aint about getting to know me. I also wonder when people put their dick shot up and no other if they are married? They will show their dick but not their face? The penis shot is so seemingly intimate yet not intimate at all. Nameless, faceless hiding. Its fine if you want anonimity but there are more tasteful ways to do that.

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 1:17:07 PM   
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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 1:18:47 PM   
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I understand that Sirholly...but do you think it wise to judge the character of the person posting? Some good interesting people are far less Victorian about their bodies.

Butch



Actually, a bit, yes.  I do think it's fine to judge the character of that person.  If their primary picture is a crotch shot, the first thing that comes to mind is "Lovely, this person is not only crass but seems to see themselves as nothing but a piece of meat either consciously or subconsciously."  It tells me right off the bat that they think their most important quality is their junk.  As I said, kind of sad.

EDIT:  To add...
I don't come here to look at porn, I come here to meet people and chat, you know, be social.  Not that I dislike porn, in fact, I rather enjoy it.  But I have other places to go for that, and they're not difficult to find.  A place and time for everything.




And you see you could be dead wrong..too many people make snap judgements...but of course it is your right to do so.

Butch


The thing that gets me is, you say "judgmental" like that's a BAD thing. That is what PC Brigade wants you to believe! Life without judgment is worthless. Recipe for wasted time: don't be "judgmental." Just let life wash over you.

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 1:23:41 PM   
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I think you are crying discrimination feeling sorry for the judged. However, I dont think you would put up a pic like that yourself.

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But imagine your reaction when you found out the truth about them... would it not be better to have an idea what they like up front?


Everyone shows me the truth about them with their pictures. THey are worth a thousand words. It tells me whats most important to them. It aint about getting to know me. I also wonder when people put their dick shot up and no other if they are married? They will show their dick but not their face? The penis shot is so seemingly intimate yet not intimate at all. Nameless, faceless hiding. Its fine if you want anonimity but there are more tasteful ways to do that.


You would love it... how often do you fall uncontrollably to the ground...unable to support your weight because of the lack of breath...from laughing...tears running down your cheeks...your laugh changing to straggled gasps...your finger pointing to the screen and when you can finally speak you say” Come hear look at this guy”… then fall into another round of HAAAAAAAAHAAAAAAHAAAAAAHAAAAAAA

Butch


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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 1:27:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		I love seeing (attractive) nudity when I'm browsing profiles. That said, I'm pretty possessive about my girls, so I would be very unlikely to message a girl with a profile like that, considering thousands of people have already seen her naughty parts. Not to mention, if she's showing her cervix on her profile, she's probably been on webcam with 100 guys, etc etc etc.

So yes, I like to see the boobies. No, it doesn't make me message anyone.


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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 1:30:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		well it is damn hard to start up a conversation with a gash picture, or boob picture, especially since they cavil about us staring at them and they do everything they can to get us to stare at them.

Hey, that there is a really nice slit, and the way you took the picture, the shadow sort of makes it look like the grand canyon in a '50's john wayne movie, I kinda like that, so wanna get together?

Ron

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 1:35:31 PM   
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Hey, that there is a really nice slit, and the way you took the picture, the shadow sort of makes it look like the grand canyon in a '50's john wayne movie, I kinda like that, so wanna get together?

Ron


Hey Ron can I use that?

Butch

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 1:41:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		I assume that the picture someone shares as the main shot in their profile best represents them. 

With that logic in mind, if it's a cock shot, I pass the profile right on by.*



*(Although that doesn't eliminate the desire to send them a message and ask "How's that cock shot working for you?!")

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 1:41:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would never consider someone that has a photo of their crotch on their profile. I prefer they don't email them to me either. If I want porn, I can get it. I want a female slave, not just a vagina.

I would rather a hundred words telling me about yourself, than a hundred pictures of your cunt.

The photos are easy, the words, opening the soul.......much less so.


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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 1:42:48 PM   
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There is someone right for everyone I expect.

edited to add something more...

Having said that a limp bell-end leaped out at me when I clicked the next picture button and this ruined the sanctity of my internet cache so I had to clean it out vigorously with bleach. An that is all I have to say about that.


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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 2:12:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wow, okay I just joined yesterday and have probably underestimated this board to some extent... I post on one similar but its very much a porn forum

I hope my avatar hasnt offended anyone and that was not my intension or even to shock... or even as most would assume "to be an attention seeker" If you get to know me you will find that i am not like that at all. I used to be quite closed and kirbed when it came to my body or even of pictures of me. My fiance has made me see that there is nothing to be ashamed about which has made me moere confident in this way. By using this picture of me.. I thought it was more tasteful than porno.. and have by no means used it to attract attention Which it hasnt so far which im happy about,

I will try and find a more decent pic as i didnt want to use a face shot!

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 2:15:14 PM   
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I understand that Sirholly...but do you think it wise to judge the character of the person posting? Some good interesting people are far less Victorian about their bodies.

Butch



I wouldn't judge them as bad or good, character wise. However if I was seeking a dominant female, I would not go after someone who's profile pic is a shot of their ass bent over a bench. It just doesn't bring out the submissive in me.

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 2:18:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT

I assume that the picture someone shares as the main shot in their profile best represents them. 

With that logic in mind, if it's a cock shot, I pass the profile right on by.*



*(Although that doesn't eliminate the desire to send them a message and ask "How's that cock shot working for you?!")


Maybe you have hit the problem on the head... My silly picture does NOT represent who I am as a whole person...it is a very small part I wish fulfilled. It would be shortsighted to think the pictures people post represent the most important parts of their lives. And even more of a fools errand to think any picture can give you insight into another persons mind.

Butch


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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 2:18:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		The last thing I want to see when I'm getting to know somebody is a picture of their dick.  For one thing, sorry guys, but yours just isn't anything that special or different from anybody elses.  And, even if it was the most magnificent thing I've ever seen, if you can't back it up with some sparkling conversation, I'm still not going to be impressed.

Now, if you can make a balloon animal out of it, I might pay attention.

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 2:20:27 PM   
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Wow, okay I just joined yesterday and have probably underestimated this board to some extent... I post on one similar but its very much a porn forum

I hope my avatar hasnt offended anyone and that was not my intension or even to shock... or even as most would assume "to be an attention seeker" If you get to know me you will find that i am not like that at all. I used to be quite closed and kirbed when it came to my body or even of pictures of me. My fiance has made me see that there is nothing to be ashamed about which has made me moere confident in this way. By using this picture of me.. I thought it was more tasteful than porno.. and have by no means used it to attract attention Which it hasnt so far which im happy about,

I will try and find a more decent pic as i didnt want to use a face shot!



Please be yourself...no need to change... it would not be you.

Butch

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 2:23:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SlutAndi

Wow, okay I just joined yesterday and have probably underestimated this board to some extent... I post on one similar but its very much a porn forum

I hope my avatar hasnt offended anyone and that was not my intension or even to shock... or even as most would assume "to be an attention seeker" If you get to know me you will find that i am not like that at all. I used to be quite closed and kirbed when it came to my body or even of pictures of me. My fiance has made me see that there is nothing to be ashamed about which has made me moere confident in this way. By using this picture of me.. I thought it was more tasteful than porno.. and have by no means used it to attract attention Which it hasnt so far which im happy about,

I will try and find a more decent pic as i didnt want to use a face shot!


If your talking about that little pic under your name NO STOP don't touch it. That is not a crotch shot and I doubt anyone will be offended.

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 2:40:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SlutAndi

Wow, okay I just joined yesterday and have probably underestimated this board to some extent... I post on one similar but its very much a porn forum

I hope my avatar hasnt offended anyone and that was not my intension or even to shock... or even as most would assume "to be an attention seeker" If you get to know me you will find that i am not like that at all. I used to be quite closed and kirbed when it came to my body or even of pictures of me. My fiance has made me see that there is nothing to be ashamed about which has made me moere confident in this way. By using this picture of me.. I thought it was more tasteful than porno.. and have by no means used it to attract attention Which it hasnt so far which im happy about,

I will try and find a more decent pic as i didnt want to use a face shot!


No, no, no... silly.  There's a difference between that and opening up a pic to see "Oh look!  A dick!"... and that's all.  Yours is actually a very nicely done picture.


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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 3:19:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SlutAndi

Wow, okay I just joined yesterday and have probably underestimated this board to some extent... I post on one similar but its very much a porn forum

I hope my avatar hasnt offended anyone and that was not my intension or even to shock... or even as most would assume "to be an attention seeker" If you get to know me you will find that i am not like that at all. I used to be quite closed and kirbed when it came to my body or even of pictures of me. My fiance has made me see that there is nothing to be ashamed about which has made me moere confident in this way. By using this picture of me.. I thought it was more tasteful than porno.. and have by no means used it to attract attention Which it hasnt so far which im happy about,

I will try and find a more decent pic as i didnt want to use a face shot!


There is nothing wrong with your photo - it is very tastefully done. Leave it alone.

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