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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 3:26:14 PM   
SlutAndi


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Status: offline 		Okay thankyou peeps, I feel better about it now... And your right butch, i shouldnt change me!

Another thing to be honest tho i dont like the cock shots ect either.. Once my Dom did use one and was asked by myself to remove it imidiatly out of respect because to me that showed he was out to try and impress and pull in interest.



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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 3:27:39 PM   
DomImus


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19
1. So tell me, am I wrong to think that a man who thinks this will get a woman knows nothing about women?

2. Men do you want to forge a relationship with a woman who has her labia spread wide for you to see in a profile?

3. Am I old fashioned thinking this way?


1. He has a target audience. You obviously are not that target audience. Get over it.

2. No, that would not make the best first impression.

3. Probably, but that's okay.




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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 3:46:13 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I have no interest in seeing crotch shots. Hell I don't even wanna see pics of most of the men on here without a shirt on! I mean really..the majority remind me of seeing my 80 yr old stepfather running around in his shorts <cringe><covers eyes>. All I can remember yelling is "come on! Put on some clothes for pete's sake!"

And I'm not into females so really..have no interest in seeing their naked bits whatsoever and I never see them since my settings are set for straight Doms only.

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 3:56:34 PM   
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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 4:50:16 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I happen to adore female bits but I do not care to see them before I have a clue whether or not I want to get to know the woman they are "supposedly" a part of.

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 5:21:32 PM   
DomMeinCT


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kdsub


quote:

ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT

I assume that the picture someone shares as the main shot in their profile best represents them. 

With that logic in mind, if it's a cock shot, I pass the profile right on by.*



*(Although that doesn't eliminate the desire to send them a message and ask "How's that cock shot working for you?!")


Maybe you have hit the problem on the head... My silly picture does NOT represent who I am as a whole person...it is a very small part I wish fulfilled. It would be shortsighted to think the pictures people post represent the most important parts of their lives. And even more of a fools errand to think any picture can give you insight into another persons mind.

Butch



What can I say?  When someone posts a close-up shot of their cock and nothing else, it's the thing upon which they want viewers to focus.  I didn't say anything about getting insight into someone else's mind beyond the big cock shot, but it's probably not too much of a stretch to think that they're not mainly interested in libertarian politics or something.  lol

P.S.  I think your av pic is great fun (and I don't overanalyze it). 

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 5:35:05 PM   
VioletGray


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Status: offline 		In this case, we have the right to be judgemental, because I choose who I will or will not deal with.  Opening with a crotch shot for me, personally, is a bad impression. 

People who open with crotch shots are being presumptuous. Would you just walk around with your dick hanging out at Applebee's?  No, because besides being illegal it would be inappropriate in a setting full of people you don't know.  It's different if you're physically at a fetish gathering, and you know what kind of party it is beforehand.  But imagine if you were in mixed company and mentioned that you were a fetishist, and one of the other people says "Oh really? Guess I can wave m'dick around then! Light Saber! Light Saber! Luke! I'm Your Father! ZZZZZM! ZMMM!"

To me that's no different than being on here.  Even if someone is looking at all your photos, that's no reason to assume they wanna see your labia/penis/alien symbiote or whatever.

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 5:37:35 PM   
thornhappy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

well, there are women here who have shots of them giving an airstart..much as that is my reason for living, that's enough to trash them

Wonder what an APU start would look like...

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 5:56:27 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		I would venture to guess that guys who do this are guys who would like seeing a pussy shot and assume women think like they do. But we don't.



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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 5:59:22 PM   
blackpearl81


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Status: offline 		Wait a sec.  I have a half naked pic of me in the shower, rocking a soap-hawk (soaped up mohawk).

Does that mean I have bad character traits??

XD

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 6:02:53 PM   
NormalOutside


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Status: offline 		And girls who do this are girls who like seeing a cock shot and assume everybody wants to see their pussy?

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 6:06:20 PM   
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quote:

SlutAndi wrote:

I hope my avatar hasnt offended anyone


It's a terrific pic.
quote:

windchymes wrote:

For one thing, sorry guys, but yours just isn't anything that special or different from anybody elses.


Well, that's true for most...

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 6:08:32 PM   
afterforever


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Status: offline 		To be fair a lot of the people on the boards have really prettyful pictures involving a bit of boob or arse. I am constantly drooling over Sunnyfey's, for instance. And I'm showing way more cleavage than I would in vanillaworld.
But I definitely draw the line at opening a message and finding a guy with his arse cheeks spread and balls tucked between his legs. He would have to have the face of Johnny Depp and be an actual rocket scientist (I like intelligence and explosions) to make up for that.

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 6:19:31 PM   
ShaharThorne


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Status: offline 		Sorry, but crotch shots do not appeal to me. IMHO, the sex organ is the brain. If you actually carry a conversation about anything but sex, you will have my attention. IF all you can yap about is sex, sorry, but that is a turn off to me.

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 6:21:04 PM   
KyttynTheMynx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: VioletGray

But imagine if you were in mixed company and mentioned that you were a fetishist, and one of the other people says "Oh really? Guess I can wave m'dick around then! Light Saber! Light Saber! Luke! I'm Your Father! ZZZZZM! ZMMM!"



Totally off topic, but OMG, major snortage over that one!  Thank you!  lol

Anyways, I like penis as much as the next person, but seeing a cockshot as a way of saying hello, is a big turn off.  Yea, I have some nudey pics, but they are tasteful, and Only come out once a year.

Lushy, you arent old fashioned.  You are just having a logical moment.


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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 6:55:11 PM   
DemonKia


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Status: offline 		FR, after skim thru

First off, I don't read CollarChat with the avatars enabled, so people's pics don't bother me the least when I'm hanging out on the boards.

Those who'd like that option, go to Profile (in the upper right hand corner of any CollarChat page). Halfway down the page is Viewing Preference, select Simplified Flat Style. (ETA: Be sure to then click on either OK or Apply, at the bottom of the Profile page to save your changes . . . . )Voila, CC without the avatars. & for me, pages load faster, which is why I do that . . . . .

I like nude pics. & frankly, I come here to hang out in a more sexualized environment. If I wanted something more PG I'd hang out on some non-adult social-networking site . . . .

But, personally, I save the pussy pics for XTube, where they fit the audience better . . . . This (& FL, too) is a good place for displaying the arty naked photos . ... . .



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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 7:05:36 PM   
daintydimples


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Status: offline 		Even more off topic, I love the new pic, Kyttyn.

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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 7:53:30 PM   
KyttynTheMynx


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ORIGINAL: daintydimples

Even more off topic, I love the new pic, Kyttyn.


Thanks sugar dimples!  -hugs-


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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 8:04:42 PM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		I suspect that it is due to the fact that men, as a rule are visually oriented, that's why the vast majority of photographic porn is aimed at men. I am speaking in generalities here, so please don't bother jumping up to tell me that it isn't so with you....As a rule men are quite happy to see the goods early on in a relationship, I'm sure all you women have been asked for a nudie pic within the first few emails. So toa lot of men having a pussy or tittie shot in the profile just cuts to the chase...Hmmmm like them tits, maybe I'll write her. Now given that mindset, I would say that they just assume that women are wired the same way and decide to show them what it is they really want to see...as if anything were that simple and straightforward when dealing with women.


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RE: Crotch Shots - 9/17/2009 8:39:07 PM   
Sunnyfey


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quote:

ORIGINAL: afterforever

To be fair a lot of the people on the boards have really prettyful pictures involving a bit of boob or arse. I am constantly drooling over Sunnyfey's, for instance. And I'm showing way more cleavage than I would in vanillaworld.
But I definitely draw the line at opening a message and finding a guy with his arse cheeks spread and balls tucked between his legs. He would have to have the face of Johnny Depp and be an actual rocket scientist (I like intelligence and explosions) to make up for that.



Gosh! Make a girl blush why don't ya!!!

Yeah, like its possible for me to blush anymore

Dont worry, everytime I see yours I want to run my hands through that pretty long hair and (for some reason?) drink margaritas...


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