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Bimtrain -> RE: Too Picky??? (9/20/2009 10:49:17 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Acer49
When I first read your post, I was thinking, 19 out of 20, seems pretty reasonable and that I could not understand why you were being treated so harshly, so I decided to look at your profile. I give you credits for that as many do not put anything. However…
Well after reviewing your profile I can see that the type of women you desire might be a little hard to find. While there is nothing wrong with wanting one to be healthy and try to look desirable as possible, requiring extensive body modifications it a little bit over the top. I am afraid only someone would have to want to be truly objectified would consider this to be acceptable possibility. Let us say, you were able to find such a woman, and she hands you a list of 10-15 things which require surgery for you. Are you willing to do the same thing that you are requiring of her?
I am afraid whoever gave you your definition of beauty did you a grave injustice. I can with 100% certainty that ones beauty is not determined by one’s outer packaging. Beauty is love, devotion, caring, trusting, and honesty.
I think that many may view you as one dimensional as you’re life focus is simply on one thing, sex. What value do you have to one another the other 22-23 hours of the day? You speak nothing of desiring true intimacy between yourself and your partner. You speak nothing of your partner’s value as a woman or as a human being. I must caution you that to make such requirements simply to be considered worthy of your manhood may backfire on you. While I am sure it would not be as fulfilling a 4.99 vibrator and two “C” batteries will get the job done for many women.
A quote from your profile
“She's generally pretty helpless and needs help doing anything I haven't already trained her well to do. She will want to surrender control of her entire life to her Master.”
Helpless; does the thought of a strong woman threaten you? Or do you have a need to micro manage as well? You profile, I am afraid, may give some the impression that you are a very insecure individual lacking in self esteem. This verified by your obsessive focus on the desire to look perfect when in view of others.
I am sorry but your profile suggests nothing as to your desire or ability to be a well rounded dominant, much less someone who would be comfortable in a TPE. I truly hope that when asked about previous experience, you can produce 10 years live-in experience that can be verified. But in all fairness, I guess it does not take much to tell someone to spread your legs, bend over or suck my….
I am afraid the stress of always being perfect may wear very heavily on most, for fear you may at some point feel them not perfect enough, despite all the surguries, exercise and make up, terminate the relationship, no matter how devoted they had been
I did not post this to degrade or disgrace you, but to simply show you how you might be being perceived. Good luck and I hope you get what you looking for
I can see why you came to many of the conclusions you did but you have me quite wrong. First of all, I do work very hard on my body and appearance. Even the pictures in my profile don't do me justice as I doubled my workout regimen after that shoot. I would totally consider any surgery or whatever is necessary to be perfect for my partner as well. But that's not even the point. The girls I've contacted have either said they want to be modified to fit their owners desires or had something that gave me the impression that they might in which case I would ask early. If they don't want that then that's perfectly fine. We go our separate ways.
As for your definition of beauty, do you think you're the first person to give that "beauty is on the inside" speech? Do you think that after nearly thirty years on this earth I haven't heard it? I've dated countless women of all kinds, have fallen in and out of love and have come to find that only a certain kind do it for me. Yes, I've dated and nearly married very beautiful, STRONG women and no, they didn't even have an outside chance of intimidating me (The thought is humorous though). They did however bore me and I'm tired of coming up with an excuse for why my cock is on 70% hard when I fuck them. I'm don't have the heart to tell them it's because they're boring to me.
You have me nailed as a control freak. I do exercise control over all aspects of my life. Not out of insecurity but because I truly believe that if you want something done right you do it yourself. I leave nothing up to other people or chance or fate or whatever. I know that I would be fulfilled in a TPE relationship. I know this like I know anything else about me. Introspection is a constant theme in my life.
10 years experience? Really??? lol. I've always found the whole "you have to have experience to get experience" kind of...well...retarded. I know what I want, I know what I'm capable of and I know that I succeed at anything I commit myself to. I understand this is a commitment and I have yet to let anyone down whom I've committed to.
Finally, when I say perfection, it is not the end result that I desire. I want a woman who WANTS to look perfect and tried like hell to do so. I'm realistic and have realistic expectations. She would never have to worry about being left for greener pastures. I understand what a commitment is and when I make one I stick to it.
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