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littleone35 -> RE: My master just passed (3/24/2006 10:28:33 AM)

Easy i know what you are going through i also lost my late Master due to death.  At least i got to meet him though.  it will be 4 years this May since he left me.  I know it sounds like a platitude but all i can say is take it one day at a time it will get eaiser.  If you hav to cry cry don't hold it in.  You have my deepest syphtly and support if you need someone to talk to e mail me.

Matt's littleone



angelic -> RE: Updates (3/24/2006 10:31:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

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ORIGINAL: angelic

i had an e-mail from EasyE this morning. he asked me to be one of his safe calls. i've never spoken to him before, and without reading through the thread, i think this is even the first time i've posted to this thread. i asked for more specific information from him before i give him my phone number. i just found it odd. EasyE i am not trying to embarrass you, but i found your e-mail a bit disturbing. :( i am happy to help another in any way i can; however, i am also very leary about giving my phone number out to anyone, most particularly ones i've never even spoken to.



I certainly never suggested he email anyone in particular.

I'd say he made an error if he contacted a stranger to be his safecall -- the point is to have someone you can trust to call and have your back so to speak.


Oh no Ma'am i wasn't trying to indicate that You or Aanyone had suggested he e-mail me.  i just thought it not very safe to arbitrarily ask someone to just give their phone number and be available for a few hours.  However, if he e-mails me with the name of the hotel, the phone number, the name of the person the room is registered under i am VERY happy to call at a time specific to make sure everything is ok.  (yes i will block my phone number).

(ok please don't Aanyone flame me for that) LOL



EvilGeoff -> RE: Huge update (3/24/2006 10:32:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: truesub4u

Geoff........ thank you.


You're quite welcome!



bklynbbw -> RE: Huge update (3/24/2006 10:35:44 AM)

I am very new to the lifestyle and have little/no experience.   I do however have life experience and  would run as far and as fast as i could from this situation.    Im sorry for your loss but please be careful and safe



thetammyjo -> RE: Updates (3/24/2006 10:39:49 AM)

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ORIGINAL: angelic

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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

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ORIGINAL: angelic

i had an e-mail from EasyE this morning. he asked me to be one of his safe calls. i've never spoken to him before, and without reading through the thread, i think this is even the first time i've posted to this thread. i asked for more specific information from him before i give him my phone number. i just found it odd. EasyE i am not trying to embarrass you, but i found your e-mail a bit disturbing. :( i am happy to help another in any way i can; however, i am also very leary about giving my phone number out to anyone, most particularly ones i've never even spoken to.



I certainly never suggested he email anyone in particular.

I'd say he made an error if he contacted a stranger to be his safecall -- the point is to have someone you can trust to call and have your back so to speak.


Oh no Ma'am i wasn't trying to indicate that You or Aanyone had suggested he e-mail me. i just thought it not very safe to arbitrarily ask someone to just give their phone number and be available for a few hours. However, if he e-mails me with the name of the hotel, the phone number, the name of the person the room is registered under i am VERY happy to call at a time specific to make sure everything is ok. (yes i will block my phone number).

(ok please don't Aanyone flame me for that) LOL


You are being a very generous person, Angelic.

Very kind to someone who may not be making very wise decisions with his life... or maybe his pulling our collective leg as EvilGeoff has called.



angelic -> RE: Updates (3/24/2006 10:49:39 AM)

Yes, he could be "pulling our collective leg", if that is the case, imho, he most likely won't give me the name of the hotel, etc.  However, if he (i said if) is being honest here and if one phone call saves him from abuse or much worse, it's a call worth making (imho)... even though 'collectively' Eeveryone has told him how UNSAFE he is being, he's still a human being.  We see enough statistics. 



SearchingMasterX -> RE: My master just passed (3/24/2006 10:54:04 AM)

I am very sorry for your loss;
I can understand what your going thru. I lost My wife & slave 7 years ago after a prolonged illness. All I can tell you it will get better with time, spend time with family & friends , even if there not in the lifestyle, you need to have people around. All areas have bereavment groups locally, find one, all the group needs to know is you have lost someone dear to you.
Most of all take time to heal.
Master X



truesub4u -> RE: Updates (3/24/2006 11:02:36 AM)

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ORIGINAL: angelic

Yes, he could be "pulling our collective leg", if that is the case, imho, he most likely won't give me the name of the hotel, etc.  However, if he (i said if) is being honest here and if one phone call saves him from abuse or much worse, it's a call worth making (imho)... even though 'collectively' Eeveryone has told him how UNSAFE he is being, he's still a human being.  We see enough statistics. 


Angelic, I agree with you... but sometimes.. we can't save the victim that doesn't want to be saved.
beating ones self up, over what and ifs.. when the one in question ignores the mulititude of warnings.... sweetie... we can't save the whole world.



justatoy2 -> RE: Huge update (3/24/2006 11:05:58 AM)

Geoff...
thank you for being the voice of reason. I have read this thread and all the people saying im so sorry for your loss.. People there was no loss...either this boy was played or he is playing all of us. But comeon....do you really think this guys brother wouldn't give his slave all of his personal information..it all just reeks to me of as Geoff put it...b.s.  As for the OP....i think you really need to back off from this...get your head together, and think straight. Be safe and sane.



angelic -> RE: Updates (3/24/2006 11:11:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: truesub4u

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ORIGINAL: angelic

Yes, he could be "pulling our collective leg", if that is the case, imho, he most likely won't give me the name of the hotel, etc.  However, if he (i said if) is being honest here and if one phone call saves him from abuse or much worse, it's a call worth making (imho)... even though 'collectively' Eeveryone has told him how UNSAFE he is being, he's still a human being.  We see enough statistics. 


Angelic, I agree with you... but sometimes.. we can't save the victim that doesn't want to be saved.
beating ones self up, over what and ifs.. when the one in question ignores the mulititude of warnings.... sweetie... we can't save the whole world.



i know hon, but we can try.  :)  i'm thinking it's moot now though, i somehow got the impression the meeting was today (not sure why or where i got that impression) and he's not responded again to this thread. 



EvilGeoff -> RE: Updates (3/24/2006 11:40:27 AM)

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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

You are being a very generous person, Angelic.

Very kind to someone who may not be making very wise decisions with his life... or maybe his pulling our collective leg as EvilGeoff has called.

Hi tammyjo,

I was calling bullshit on the "brother Master" stuff, not the OP.  Though it is certainly possible that EasyE is yanking our collective chains.   I would rather err on the side of caution, and give EasyE the benefit of the doubt (ignorance, inexperience and naivety can be forgiven and corrected, stupidity or malice, not so much).  That being said, how many times do you think someone has to be told "don't do that!" before they should start thinking "that might not be such a good idea" ? ? ?

Personally, I think the almost unanimous chorus here ought to be telling EasyE "buy a clue, bubba."

YIK,
- Geoff



Maam4slavegirl -> RE: My master just passed (3/24/2006 12:44:33 PM)

Dear edward, I am sorry. I have been where you are when my slave passed years ago. I took time for me to heal before exploring owning another. Though you never met you must still feel the void left, but taking time to heal and grieve is the best you can do. Good luck in your future.



SimplyV -> RE: Updates (3/24/2006 12:59:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: EvilGeoff

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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

You are being a very generous person, Angelic.

Very kind to someone who may not be making very wise decisions with his life... or maybe his pulling our collective leg as EvilGeoff has called.

Hi tammyjo,

I was calling bullshit on the "brother Master" stuff, not the OP. Though it is certainly possible that EasyE is yanking our collective chains. I would rather err on the side of caution, and give EasyE the benefit of the doubt (ignorance, inexperience and naivety can be forgiven and corrected, stupidity or malice, not so much). That being said, how many times do you think someone has to be told "don't do that!" before they should start thinking "that might not be such a good idea" ? ? ?

Personally, I think the almost unanimous chorus here ought to be telling EasyE "buy a clue, bubba."

YIK,
- Geoff


I am the "other" person who volunteered to be a safecall.. I don't really care if I give out my phone number if it means keeping someone safe. What's he going to do with just a phone number anyway? Phone me to death? Sign me up for MCI?

He has trusted me to read his correspondence with this "Master" and even his former "Master". (Still not sure why people trust me so easy, must be that Jedi mind control I'm working on) I'm pretty certain that EasyE is not yanking our chains. He seems pretty guillible and innocent (in a lot of ways), due to his lack of experence and an overwhelming desire to serve. But there are tons of emails, all dated over months on a reliable web email address which would be incredibly hard for him to "fake date" them, and how weird and desperate would you have to be to fake this.. do it over months.. just to get some girl's phone number?

The whole thing is extremely fishy. the "Masters" talk the same, make the same typos, use the same verbage (Anyone else use "obiescence"?). They don't even give out their location. Not even "I'm in California near San Francisco". They also seem to take "ownership" without a collaring even happening, and both "Masters" seem to be into the same things/activities, rules, restrictions, body modification. If they aren't the same person, then this is some type of BDSM "gang" or "underground" where the same rules apply to everyone in the group. Which would make me run scared anyway.

Btw, the "Brother" won't give him the new "Masters" email. He's having no direct contact with this new "Master".. their first contact will be when they meet at the hotel.

I can't say strongly enough to EasyE.. to RUN!! I just hope he listens.

V



truesub4u -> RE: Updates (3/24/2006 1:27:58 PM)

Simply V,
Not disputing the passing of his Master... no one knows of that .. than the ones involved. I see everyone refering to the Meeting of the "New Brother Master".... and the tidbit of information he's left on the thread...

Bullshit detector still going off... either on him.. or his new "Master".. but it's still going off none the less.

and with all the advise on this thread about be leary, be warned, RUN, etc.... if he still meets... nothing no one can do... and a safe call won't help none if he's DEAD....



spadsangelslave -> RE: My master just passed (3/24/2006 1:35:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: RavenMuse

First and only real piece of advice is not to start looking just yet. Give yourself time to grieve and put yourself back together again. Get to where you are content within yourself before seeking out another no matter how much you might want to. Otherwise you are quite likely to have those unresolved feeling get in the way when you are making decisions.... you need a clear head to make good choises.


[:(] Yes, I know How that Feels As well.. I myself had a Very Nice Master Whom I had Never Met and W/we was supposed to have gotten together last year,buthe passed on before it could happen, so i know what u are going thru. Took me awhile because i kept looking for him... al over again, but now i have found Another..and i know thats what he would me to do.. [:)] and im Very Happy.
once again im so sorry.



thetammyjo -> RE: Updates (3/24/2006 1:45:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: EvilGeoff

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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

You are being a very generous person, Angelic.

Very kind to someone who may not be making very wise decisions with his life... or maybe his pulling our collective leg as EvilGeoff has called.

Hi tammyjo,

I was calling bullshit on the "brother Master" stuff, not the OP. Though it is certainly possible that EasyE is yanking our collective chains. I would rather err on the side of caution, and give EasyE the benefit of the doubt (ignorance, inexperience and naivety can be forgiven and corrected, stupidity or malice, not so much). That being said, how many times do you think someone has to be told "don't do that!" before they should start thinking "that might not be such a good idea" ? ? ?

Personally, I think the almost unanimous chorus here ought to be telling EasyE "buy a clue, bubba."

YIK,
- Geoff


I figured it was about these later "masters"...

Of course I have my own opinion and ethical code about what is a good top and a good bottom and these descriptions are almost poster boys for the opposite.

Maybe this is akin to being a parent. We can all say "don't do this" or "do this to be safer" but sometimes a kid just has to try it, fall down, get hurt, and then learn.

(or not -- I swear some of my neices and nephews made the same bloody mistakes over and over and freaking over again [I have 4 neices and 8 nephews FYI all between my age and 17 years younger than me])



dorsaisgirl1 -> RE: My master just passed (3/24/2006 10:32:58 PM)

i am very sorry for your loss . and wish you luck in finding anouther but please dont rush into anything. bad desisions are made when you rush into a new relationship exspecaily after a loss such as this .



Vancouver_cinful -> RE: My master just passed (3/24/2006 11:21:42 PM)

Having just read this thread today, I am sitting here with  the worst case of heebie-jeebies. This just reeks of a set-up...It's the opening scene of a stalker-horror-serial killer movie. I just hope something happened to change Edward's mind about meeting what appears to be a dangerous person(s).

All I have left to say is I add my vote for RUN, RUN,RUN!!!!!

Cin <~ who hopes with all her heart and soul that it's all just a harmless prank...



truesub4u -> RE: My master just passed (3/25/2006 12:02:37 AM)

Gonna see if this works or not....

RUN EDWARD RUN
not sure if that was big enough.... LOL




sweetbbwsub31 -> RE: My master just passed (3/25/2006 2:36:34 PM)

Edward,
 
I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I have lost many who I was very close with.
 
Please take some time before searching for someone new.
 
If you ever need to talk I have great listening ears.



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