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LionessInBoots -> RE: My master just passed (4/1/2006 1:05:23 AM)
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. first thing about this lifestyle is SSC. you have to be careful.its the motto we LIVE by and its why we stay alive. I am sorry about Your loss of your former Master. but if steps are not taking to watch your safety. this lifestyle is very dangerous. you were talking meeting in a motel room, being blindfolded. first of all. first meeting should never be for play in My book. its about meeting E/each O/other. Seeing face to face whats real and whats not. online is very real yes, but when you meet the feelings you feel here may not transcend into real time.and any TRUE master would not expect to blindfold you and play first meeting.
set up safe calls. have a friend watching that if something gets uncomfy they can break in thats why you meet in a VERY public place . lots of light people. never alone in a hotel room. being bound and blindfolded. your putting your life in a strangers hand and may be the last mistake you ever make.
what do you KNOW about this person. everything I have read not that damn much. hmmmm usuing same email as former Master thats fishy. I like Geoff have many emails emails are not sufficient verification of who somoene is. talk to people. if a Dominant has nothing to hide. they will provide refrences of dif people . phone numbers and so on.
if they have no qualms about providing refrences and personal info. fine but if not and the thought they want you blindfolded sends up a major red flag and I would run the opposite direction.
is this person clean? do they have tests done regularly for Hiv aids. know what you are getting yourself into. you may be young and new to this lifestyle but geez use your head.
take some time .. you lost a Master grieve for Him before you rebound into another relationship. talk to friends. get involved in a munch. stay on the boards you have some sound advice here. will you listen to it is the question
they are not worry worts as you call them they are conscerned. in this lifestyle we watch each others backs. at this meeting who will be watching yours? I hope if you are determined to meet you at least take the precautions we have told you.
Im not your Domme. these are not orders, but as a concerned Domme its advice I hope you will head. so you will live another day..
if somoene in this lifestyle will not follow safety procedures when meeting. they have something to hide and are NOT to be trusted.
Celleste Im sorry about the loss ofyour uncle sweetie. My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family. just as My thoughts are with you E for the loss of Your Master, but dont jump into something else because you miss and grieve for him.
I have to agree with the fact that the brother is full of crap. first of all you dont make demands on a sub/slave you dont know. to order them to call you Master would have been My first sign WANNNABE. I have dealt with many subs hurt by wannabes online and realtime. I hope you will not be another statistic in that line of numbers.
I make no demands on what to be called. no true Dominant does. we know the titles are earned not given they are earned . .submission is given not demanded. hence the term submit. fundamentals this lifestyle is based on.TRUST and RESPECT. please follow our creed be SSC, SAFE, SANE,CONSCENTUAL. that creed is there for a reason . for each and everyone of our protection.
hugzzzzzzz the ever Protective Lioness with claws out a bit.
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