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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/6/2006 10:44:33 PM   
RavenMuse


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ORIGINAL: NeedToUseYou
Oh there's no question I'm a bit insane. That dead horse was hot looking lying there with it's hoofs all tied. And the way the light sparkled off it's eyes. Oh and don't get me started about the bridle and saddle. I couldn't help myself, that horse was the ultimate bound and gagged submissive. .

ummmm, that's a joke, just in case this gets indexed by google or read out of context.


Yeh yeh, of course. all a joke....

Psssst! Boys, you ready with that trank gun and white canvas overcoat with the optional long sleeves?

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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/7/2006 3:36:25 AM   
smilezz


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Status: offline 		WOW! i actually took the time to read all the posts. Goood gawwd what was i thinking? *laughs*

I'm not going to reply to any one person's post, y'all have something to say and everyone has that right. Now it's my turn.

When i go to watch demo's at the local dungeon here, one of the first things people say is: If a demo bother's you, please get up quietly, not disturbing the demo and leave the room. It may be something that an individual is not into, and instead of making a scene for everyone, the polite thing to do is to remove yourself from it. (HINT, HINT, HINT)

I remember watching a scene with Midori, She strapped on a pig nose to this lil girlie and spit on her, threw money at her and pretty much humiliated her in front of us. This lil girlie thrived on it. Remember: what is one persons pleasure is not another's. It is not up to us as a whole to decide what is good or bad for that person.

As far as the whole abuse entries go...........again, i know abuse, i know people who have been abused, it's sad, it's not fun and i hope that no one ever has to go through it. People do though. There are some things that we think are abuse in the way we happen to live, but who are we to make that call? Again, what is one persons pleasure is not another's. (I am not going to get into the whole schematic of abuse here, all of you know exactly what i mean)

How easy it seems for some of you to judge, but then again, it's exactly what i expect to see from some. How sad.

On my final closing note: OINK!! >smirks<

Have an outstanding day!

~smilezz~

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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/7/2006 7:27:33 AM   
caitlyn


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ORIGINAL: angelic
Caitlyn as Yyou may or may not have noticed hasn't bothered to respond to Yyour opinions of what she said. so Wwe don't agree with the majority here... bfd?


If you look carefully at Mr.D's., responses you will notice that he is not responding to what I actually said, but is instead making assumptions.

As an example, he stated several times that I said I respected his opinion. I actually never said that. What I said was that I respect his right to have whatever opinion he wants. There is a clear difference.

I suppose if Mr.D., wants to pick apart my posts on this board and offer his brand of advice, he should go for it! To be fair, I should offer advice in return.

My advice would be to once and for all, learn the difference between their, there and they're.

FYI ... this is me flaming ... just so you know.

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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/7/2006 8:11:04 AM   
valeca


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Status: offline 		Was the horse revived? If not, I'll consider this my eulogy to it.

You can't save 'em all. Not everyone wants to be 'saved' either.

If you're going to step into someone else's life with the intent of making it 'better', you'd better make damn sure your own skeletons are in perfect order.

Here's a quick example of how easily 'abuse' can be mistakenly identified:

Master flogs the hell out of my back and puts a few bruises on my wrists from some delicious bondage. I reach for a coffee and vanilla co-worker notices and cries abuse! --a reasonable assumption on their part as 'seeing bruises' is a common indicator of abuse in society. Suddenly my world is turned upside-down because of well intentioned 'help'. Let's face it, most are not going to believe me if I say, "But I like it!"...they're going to think I'm just covering for Him. Even with that 'proof', they've made a wrong assumption based on their own beliefs.

I intensely dislike when the word 'morals' is tossed around. No two people have identical morals--they may be similar in a lot of areas, but they are never the same. If you don't want me to shove my morals down your throat because I think they are the right set, then kindly keep yours out of my face as well. 'Morals' is rarely, if ever, a good defense.



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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/7/2006 8:38:06 AM   
MrDiscipline44


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Status: offline 		Wow, I really expected better from you caitlyn. But then, I expected better then what I got from quite a few of the opposition to me. Seems people can't post or debate without making it adulterious to another person and debasing themselves. Really a disappointment. But I guess people get used to hearing that. Well, I guess since you really don't want to talk but make inflammatory remarks I'll just move on to bigger and better people.

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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/7/2006 9:13:39 AM   
caitlyn


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Status: offline 		You probably should not have expected better.

There is really no way to debate with you, MrD. All you have done here is take everything I said completely out of context, in order to apply a meaning that was never there in the first place. This may not be entirely intentional. The ability given by this message board to reduce complete thoughts to small snippets, is a very poor debate tool.

But then, you are not really interested in debate, now are you? If you would have been interested in debate, you might have asked what my acid test would be to determine abuse. If you would have been interested in debate, you might have asked what steps I would have taken, when I did decide to step in.

Then again, this has been a successful interaction, as my only real goal was to draw you off angelic. I was having her back ... and I think my work here is done.

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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/7/2006 9:19:02 AM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		OK who gave the horse CPR?

Nicely said btw valeca---

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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/7/2006 9:34:04 AM   
Dom4me2


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Status: offline 		LOL - much like a train wreck I had to stop by and check out the dead horse.....

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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/7/2006 9:44:55 AM   
angelic


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ORIGINAL: caitlyn


Then again, this has been a successful interaction, as my only real goal was to draw you off angelic. I was having her back ... and I think my work here is done.


thank you caitlyn!! huge hugs

(as a disclaimer... i didn't give the horse cpr.. honest i didn't) LOL

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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/7/2006 10:05:33 AM   
MHOO314


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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/7/2006 10:26:37 AM   
MrDiscipline44


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Status: offline 		It's funny how people see things that are not there. In the begining, I made one post to angelic and one post alone. That was post #60. It stated that I thought she needed to get help before getting into another relationship. If you'll notice, she responded to that post (that would be post 66) and I never responded back to her. All of a sudden I'm flamming her and telling people they're wrong for their opinion. Something that I never stated. My remarks to her were not meant to be derrogatory and I explained that. But I supposed you're too busy to actually read the posts as they transpired. So along came you (post 90), this is where you think your the heroine. You posted your opinions and I replied to those with my opinions (post 108). Now, you'll notice that between my post to angelic (60) and my post to you (108) I never once posted to angelic again. Are you following this so far, it seems people get confused. Along comes Knight with the chip on his shoulder (post 113) about what I posted to you. So my next post to angelic was post #194. You'll notice that between posts 60 and post 194 I never posted to angelic again. I know math is hard but thats 134 post between when I posted to her at first to when I posted to her again. In those 134 posts, I posted to truesub, level and others (including you and knight) but never to angelic again.

So where is it that I was on angelic? With not one reference to her, I single handedly flammed her and told her she was wrong?

As for taking your posts out of context, I took them completely in the context you presented them in. I found fault with what you posted and said so. When asked, I clarified further. If you think that the context I found in your post was not the context that you meant in your post then you should've been more clear in your post, about your post.

So what do we have here?
1) Good work with having someones back against a person that wasn't a threat to her. Nice job.
2) By going "against" me in "defence" of angelic you proved my reason why you should have your facts straight about the situation before getting involved. You're vision became crossed and you lost site of where people really stood on the issue or what the issue really was. You thought you were doing right by coming to the "victims" defence when really, the only person she needs defending from is herself because the enemy is in her head.
3) You prove that no matter how intelligent one is, they still are prone to simple mistakes and lapses of judgement. Thank you for being an example.

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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/7/2006 10:39:32 AM   
angelic


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Status: offline 		ok excuse me... i'm killing that damn horse!!!! (justifiable homicide)!

< Message edited by angelic -- 3/7/2006 11:00:31 AM >

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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/7/2006 11:08:30 AM   
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, as my only real goal was to draw you off angelic. I was having her back

Caitlyn, why is it you felt you had to "have angelic's back" to begin with? Is she not a grown adult who can clearly handle herself on these boards? I didnt and still do not see a threat to her or anyone else on this thread. If one is going to post on here, then one should be able to handle feedback, without someone else feeling like they need to defend or protect them. Classic case of enabling. Nice, if the person you are trying to protect truly is a victim and needs help, but I didnt see angelic crying for help or asking anyone to "watch her back", she rose to the occasion and handled herself nicely, against those she felt were attacking her.

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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/7/2006 11:24:21 AM   
angelic


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Status: offline 		gads i wish this thread would die.... lol... i killed the damn horse.

First off, i do appreciate caityln backing me up... sometimes we need it. it was nice in the face of almost complete (i said almost) complete adversity... she, if not agreed with me, at least tried to see where i was coming from. i don't necessarily think she did agree with me and that's ok... what i appreciated was she stepped back and voiced her opinion. she didn't say i was right, she didn't say i was wrong. That's what i appreciated most.

btw thank You Ma'am for saying i handled it nicely that is nice to hear.

< Message edited by angelic -- 3/7/2006 11:28:05 AM >

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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/7/2006 11:30:35 AM   
truesub4u


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Status: offline 		Ugh....... I hate math....... but did my homework... Grade... A+


Now.. where the hell is that damn horse now?

MHOO... I get nervous when you stand with hands on hips like that... lol

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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/7/2006 11:38:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: truesub4u

Ugh....... I hate math....... but did my homework... Grade... A+


Now.. where the hell is that damn horse now?

MHOO... I get nervous when you stand with hands on hips like that... lol



The horse is now feeding my dog.

Now where is that damned coffee?


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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/7/2006 11:42:59 AM   
truesub4u


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The horse is now feeding my dog.

Now where is that damned coffee?




It's on another thread already... lol


Ummm horse feeding the dog.... Ya know.. when Master feeds me.. it's not actual food.. what is that horse feeding that damn dog ??????.............

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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/7/2006 11:45:03 AM   
Dom4me2


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Status: offline 		brings ownedgirlie coffee....kicks horse carcass....pets dog...chuckles....shakes head and walks away...

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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/7/2006 11:59:45 AM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		LOL well you know what they say about horses becoming dog food...

LOL @ Domme4me2.

At least the dog is happy :)

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RE: Who or What gives You the Dominate the right! - 3/7/2006 12:37:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: truesub4u

Ugh....... I hate math....... but did my homework... Grade... A+


Now.. where the hell is that damn horse now?

MHOO... I get nervous when you stand with hands on hips like that... lol

Yeah baby. I gots a A+.

As for that horse, I don't know where it got on to. (kicks the tail under a sheet) I swear, it's just up and vanished.

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