barelynangel
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I enjoy the way that I am and going on a diet and going to the gym do not sound like things I would enjoy. Steel THIS IS what i am speaking if YOU have choosen and admit its a choice YOU MAKE. FOR MOST PEOPLE IT IS AND THEY DON'T WANT TO ADMIT IT. However, you choose to be fat and yet you want to cry false when people don't find your attractive or want a relationship with you and call them shallow.. interesting. IF you want a woman who doesn't like fat Men to be interested in you and chooses NOT to be interested in you because she doesn't like YOUR choices for yourself, that is not being shallow, its simply you having to deal with the consequences of YOUR decision to be fat. PEOPLE don't have to find it attractive or accepting it in everyone and not being selective as far as appearance. Its not shallow, its called i like what i like, and i don't like people who appear overweight as a choice for someone in my relationships THATS the right of people and choosing who they want to be with includes a lot of things and YEAH ONE OF THOSE IS APPEARANCE. Okay you asked so i will be honet based on the fact you are 100 lbs overweight. Honestly, okay you say you are 100 lbs overweight what needs would i believe could not be met -- now mind you this is based on say a first hello --- NOT SOMEONE with intimate knowledge of you that they initially decided your weight doesn't bother them -- i also would have to SEE you in order to generate a full opinion but here are some basics i could see an initial hello and meeting could generate as you are incapable because of your appearance -- 1) you would appear to me to be a man of very little self discipline because you choose to be overweight so i would have a hard time seeing how you could meet my needs of discipline and mastery when you haven't mastered yourself or choose not to because exercise and eating healthy aren't what you want, 2) my sexual needs would be effected because i don't find fat men appealing so yeah that's kind of a need that would be effected and yes its a major one, 3) My respect for you would have to be analyzed because if you accept that in yourself, would you expect and accept it of me -- as i don't want a Man who would except that in me, 4) what kind of example would you be for my children in this day and age where they are bombarded with eating healthy, weight control, and exercise, and these are just off the top of my head and not analyzed at all. So yeah, i could see how a Dom who is in shape and not overweight could very well have needs he wants met that he could see not happening with someone overweight. STEEL, YOU CAN be happy with your body, your girlfriends, slaves and whatnot can be, however, that doesn't mean someone who would rather something else due to your being morbidly obese is shallow because they don't find you appealing to them or chemistry feeling. YOu want to make it WRONG for people to NOT want to find you appealing just because you are happy obese. Sorry it doesn't work like that, if you want to make people shallow for not finding you appealing due to your weight and your CHOICE to be that way, then they are allowed to find you lazy and not capable of meeting their needs for the same reasons. You can't have it both ways. You can't say they can't judge me and yet you judge them beause they don't agree with you. I don't know ONE PERSON here who would forgo their own needs for a relationship to passify some polticially correct BS of not finding fat people attractive and feel they need to passify the PC concept by accepting a fat person in a relationship when they aren't attracted to the person becasue of their weight. THAT is simply BS and its a ploy many fat people use to try and make those who don't want them for a relationship to be the BAD person instead of simply a person with different wants, needs and desires. Oh and that's not me, its an avatar, however, people who know me say she does look like me when i was a slave lol. Ahh memories. I am not as that picture is anymore, but i am hoping to be by next year lol or at least a 40 year old version of same. When i change my choices it will happen. angel
< Message edited by barelynangel -- 10/17/2009 2:13:53 PM >
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