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Hierodule -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/27/2009 2:51:03 PM)

I'm pretty sure the op was talking about the mental state of the men begging for strap-on sex. As if it is a gift they are giving.

But saying every strap on up the ass is in service to the sub is like saying my Master is servicing me when he Fs my A.

It depends on the bottoms attitude and I think this thread was meant as a rant about certain men's attitudes in their c mails to the boi's Lady, not on the act of pegging a man in general.



OneMoreWaste -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/27/2009 6:14:15 PM)

So are you feeling better now that you've spawned yet another exciting round of "male subs are like the worst thing ever" and gotten your standard fan-club cheerleading?  Does it make the hurties aww bettah? [8|]



Lockit -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/27/2009 6:16:46 PM)

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BoiJen -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/27/2009 6:21:17 PM)

I love male s-types who actually are s-types not horny lazy fuckers who don't want to work for their orgasms.

:-)

boi

Ps My fanclub exists of both femdommes and male and female s-types and a few doms. I sense fanclub envy here.



SomethingCatchy -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/27/2009 6:26:50 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: OneMoreWaste

So are you feeling better now that you've spawned yet another exciting round of "male subs are like the worst thing ever" and gotten your standard fan-club cheerleading?  Does it make the hurties aww bettah? [8|]



I'm not a member of boi's fanclub and I still thought the thread was in good taste. You really have no idea how obnoxious it is to get unwanted mail from unwanted jerkoffs who only want me to do them in the ass.

On a side note, I just noticed I got the 'twisted' hand cuffs... but it took me a minute to realize they were handcuffs and not some really weird looking sea horses. No joke!



ghitaPVH -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/27/2009 6:33:42 PM)

I actually AM in boijens fanclub and I was actually on the opposite side of this debate than her...

(I cant help it, shes just too adorable NOT to be in her fan club...Im sure she hates that..but oh well, I cant help it...I just dont see her as "boi"ish at all..I just want to cuddle her...)



BoiJen -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/27/2009 6:37:25 PM)

The fan club grows....

boi



pyroaquatic -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/27/2009 6:45:50 PM)

i work for a chance to have the opportunity to work for an orgasm.

:P

I'll join your fanclub if you join mine, BoiJen. There is one member so far. That I know of.



PeonForHer -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/27/2009 6:55:05 PM)

I've always been in your fanclub, Pyro.  Who wouldn't be, when you write such masterpieces as The Castle and Metamorphosis?



OneMoreWaste -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/27/2009 7:13:40 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SomethingCatchy
You really have no idea how obnoxious it is to get unwanted mail from unwanted jerkoffs who only want me to do them in the ass.


Actually, I do. There are approximately fifty thousand threads on the subject, and they're all pretty much in agreement.



LadyPact -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/27/2009 7:18:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: OneMoreWaste

So are you feeling better now that you've spawned yet another exciting round of "male subs are like the worst thing ever" and gotten your standard fan-club cheerleading?  Does it make the hurties aww bettah? [8|]



I am a member of the boijen fan club.  Most folks who have met MsK and her boi are.

I can tell you from My honest opinion that it has nothing to do with some type of hatred for male subs.  A lot of it comes from having to deal with some of the shit that rolls downhill from clients that MsK refuses to see and people that MsK doesn't want in her personal life.  A lot of our s types get that kind of backlash.  Jealousy is definitely out there and some of the folks who don't have what others do can be far less than civil about it.

Granted, boijen is protective as hell of MsK.  You know what they say about firecrakers, right? 

Trust Me.  If I were a 'do-me' type of male that wasn't treating a femdom right, I'd hope I'd have enough sense to pick one that didn't have such a devoted personal s type as what I've witnessed boijen to be.



SnowRanger -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/27/2009 7:40:24 PM)

Item One:  I am not the worst-thing-ever and I have never been made to feel that way here on 'Ask A Mistress.'

Item Two:  I will bust my ass for My Mistress' orgasm without a thought for my own.

Item Three:  The only reason that I am not a member of the BoiJen fan club is that I can't swing the dues expensive that everybody else pays with out even blinking!

Item Last:  (Personal for Ghita)  Would you please take me with your BIG...  No... Forget it...  There just isn't enough work for a snow ranger in Florida.... Oh Well!

Let's Be Careful Out There



VeryMercurial -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/27/2009 7:46:08 PM)

We have more men on here begging for someone to stuff it up
their behinds, than there are oranges in Florida.
The begging get's old quickly.
Sometimes I forget, that the reason they are on here, begging and begging
for it, is because they want to serve a woman.
lol



MsJadis -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 3:54:37 AM)

Arggh! This drives me nuts...not just with the strapon but the attitude in general. I'm a ProDomme and I see a lot of bottoms who want X,Y,Z in their sessions....and that's fine...BUT don't try and dress it up by calling it service.

Service enhances my ease, comfort and pleasure. Yes there's times that I feel like giving someone a good strapon fucking. But "letting" me give you that fucking is NOT a service to Me!



malloves69 -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 4:29:54 AM)

its a service as long as im paying a pro dom x amount of dollars for that service [:)] if she dont want to do what i want to do in a scene trust me there are many other dominant women who will [:)] isnt that what a pro dom is all about ? .i treat my mistress well thank you very much ..enough said ..mal [:)] and no im NOT  in boi s fan club



BoiJen -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 6:01:02 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: malloves69
if she dont want to do what i want to do in a scene trust me there are many other dominant women who will isnt that what a pro dom is all about ?


Actually, no. Especially when it comes to strap-on stuff, primarily because it's ILLEGAL in most states in the US. How ridiculously stupid it is of guys who claim to be s-types to have such an attitude that Dommes (pro or not) are expendable and that that particular male's sexual wants should ever be placed before the legal well being of a Domme. Such a statement is selfish and disrespectful not only a particular Domme, but of all Dommes, because what it comes down to is this: if you're willing to treat one woman that way, then you're willing to treat any woman that way.

boi



BBBTBW -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 6:34:45 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: queencaliph

THANK YOU!!!!! I tried less than a week ago to explain this concept to a male sub that strapon play is the DOMME servicing the SUB. Not the sub servicing the Domme.


I hope you added "in my opinion" to your explanation to him. Some of us do enjoy using a strapon on a male. It's not so much for sex for most of us, but it is a form of control, even if he enjoys it.



BoiJen -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 6:47:20 AM)

I refuse to add "in my opinion" because clearly it's my opinion. Political correctness has gone way too far if before anything anyone says/posts/etc, has to prefaced with "in my opinion".

I think some people are confusing the actual instance in which a Woman enjoys and demands strap-on stuff in Her relationship and the insistence, single-mindedness, and entitlement in which some (I might even say "most" given my experience) single male "s-types" approach strap-on stuff and expect that calling it "service" to a Woman should make their entire, rude, approach about it ok.

Just because a Woman likes strap-on stuff, doesn't mean it should be the first thing brought up between "hi" and "how are you?"

boi

PS and yes I do believe if someone is willing to treat someone else poorly based on their profession, gender, color, etc, they are willing to treat anyone that way. If someone's general behavior toward people is appropriate and only changes when some asshole sticks his ass out, then that's a different story.



Venatrix -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 7:13:36 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: OneMoreWaste

So are you feeling better now that you've spawned yet another exciting round of "male subs are like the worst thing ever" and gotten your standard fan-club cheerleading?  Does it make the hurties aww bettah? [8|]



If you don't like the threads, Waste, it's really simple:  don't read them.  It's not like most of us would miss you, or anything.



BoiJen -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 8:54:00 AM)

Twice today, just asking for it "professionally" (obviously not understanding why this is an issue), and it's not even noon.

oh yeah!



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