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chiaThePet -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 8:56:13 AM)

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ORIGINAL: frankieboy52

Being taken with a strap-on scares the living poop out of me


And with that, I'll simply say "Happy Holloweenie Everybody".



chia* (the pet)


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BoiJen -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 9:01:01 AM)

Oh shit



LPslittleclip -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 10:01:18 AM)

i agree with BoiJen as far too many don't appreciate the difference of doing something because it pleases another and what they think is desired. i enjoy strap on play but i don't go blathering about it in the first sentence. my position is to please my Mistress and if She decides to do strap on play with me than it will be Her decision not mine.
proud member of BoiJen fan club



mnottertail -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 10:03:28 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

quote:

ORIGINAL: frankieboy52

Being taken with a strap-on scares the living poop out of me


And with that, I'll simply say "Happy Holloweenie Everybody".

chia* (the pet)



I removed the image in the quote, so that I don't help plug the site, but:

Chia, I used to go with a girl that looked like that once, but she was mean, so I left her.

Ron



pyroaquatic -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 11:50:46 AM)

Thank you, my adoring fan Peon for having a butt shelf enough to hold my literary masterpieces.

I'm rooting for you Boije!

Snowranger, you could become the orange ranger.



BoiJen -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 12:06:04 PM)

Ya know he could likely find good business down here doin that...



MsJadis -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 1:43:19 PM)

Just to clarify re: legality. I practice in Australia and for me there is no actual legal issue attached to strapon play.

As for mal..well his post speaks for itself I think.......



DianeB269 -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 3:41:30 PM)

BoiJen

Guys pay good money to be bent over.....Very good money!!!!!


Diane



AlexDelarge -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 4:22:16 PM)

Receiving a strapon isn't service, it's a certain level of gift to the subbie.  Prolonged face sitting, or submitting to a paddling or cbt is service. 

[sm=sex.gif]

On the other hand, buggering a female submissive is almost entirely a male pleasure thing.  Most women don't like it up the ass, and the male tends to go deeper and harder due to exuberance and enthusiasm.



Lockit -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 4:31:19 PM)

I do not see anything sexual as a service. Not one damn thing. That is sex, kink, fun... but not service. Just the thought of being sexually serviced is disgusting to me! Now, I might order my submissive to do some sexual act... but god damn.. he better want to do it anyway and for fun... not because it makes him a wonderful service submissive. Grrr and ukkk!



OneMoreWaste -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 4:45:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Venatrix
If you don't like the threads, Waste, it's really simple:  don't read them.  It's not like most of us would miss you, or anything.


Sure you would; all the mutual admiration society/gripe-gripe sisterhood tedium would turn your brains to pumpkin innards. The powers of reason get no exercise in the absence of dissenting voices.

And besides, I bring exciting facts and figures.

Didja know that if you search for "rant" on this subforum, you get more results than if you search for "love"? [:-]



LadyPact -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 5:04:41 PM)

OK.  I'm curious about that.

Anytime I've ever done a search here, it's maxed at 300 results. 

How are you doing yours?



Venatrix -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 5:16:58 PM)

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ORIGINAL: OneMoreWaste

quote:

ORIGINAL: Venatrix
If you don't like the threads, Waste, it's really simple:  don't read them.  It's not like most of us would miss you, or anything.


Sure you would . . .


Well, why don't we make it a scientific study?  You leave, and if we miss you, we'll let you know.



malloves69 -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 5:51:22 PM)

the problem is theres 2 different kind of people on collarme and fetlife ..theres your 24/7 people and then theres guys like myself who hire pro doms for a scene [:)] if im paying x amount of dollars for a scene with a pro dom you can bank on our time will be mostly what i hire her for [:)] as far as im concerned its not illegal what happens between 2 consenting adults behind close doors [:)] get a life if you think other wise [:)] if you dont like what i write about dont read it ...i could care less if boi likes what i do or not ..WHO CARES ?? ..geez if it was so illegal why is there many pro doms on collarme and fetlife looking for work on a pay for play basis ? i treat my mistress well ..she means alot to me ..like Ms Diane said lots of guys pay good money to get fucked and fisted in the ass because it does feel good [:)] its a win win situation and no one gets hurt [:)] much better then being married and cheating on your other so called  wife ...after shes done she goes home ..both people are happy ..no crime committed ...oh by the way today i got fucked and fisted again and im still smiling [:)] life is good ........thats what pro doms are there for to provide a service that you cant find anywhere else ...if it was medical play ..whipping ..or sounds would it be any different ? mal



LadyNTrainer -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 5:55:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

Agreed.  Nothing feels less like "being served" and more like "service topping" than strap on play.  That doesn't make it bad or wrong.  And it IS service.  Just not HIS service to ME.


That depends on your perspective and your kink.  For me, strap-on play doesn't feel like like service topping, nor does it exactly feel like service to me, but it is pretty fucking hot.  I like to do "rape" scenes with one of my partners where he is scared but submitting to being fucked because I have a knife to his throat or I've overpowered him and beaten him into submission.   My other partner is bi, and what's hot about doing him up the ass is that I can let my gay male dom side out to play and we're two guys fucking.  I could really slant either scene towards a "being served" context, if I felt the energy flowing that way, but I usually don't.

I definitely do get letters from "subs" whose attitude is exactly as you've described it.  I'm just not interested in playing with them.  :/ 



MissJana -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 6:12:37 PM)


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ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO

GM

quote:

Where the servicing the sub aspect comes in is ..
when a sub male for
eg[calls repeatedly when he is in town and wants to come over to "Serve" but has his ass out in 2 seconds and presenting it to me..

and it happened and he is GONE..

but not before I had him over 3 times and he did dishes..floors etc..and got no peggin' much to his chagrin.


I LOVE IT! LMAO[:D]



BKSir -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 6:19:02 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

I do not see anything sexual as a service. Not one damn thing. That is sex, kink, fun... but not service. Just the thought of being sexually serviced is disgusting to me! Now, I might order my submissive to do some sexual act... but god damn.. he better want to do it anyway and for fun... not because it makes him a wonderful service submissive. Grrr and ukkk!


I dunno.  I'm afraid I might have to disagree with you on this, just slightly.  You can't tell me that you haven't had those days when you get home all stressed out and ready to strangle someone.  Well, a good sub coming up and delivering a wonderful orgasm is sometimes just what the doctor ordered for stress relief.  No?  [:)]

For the most part, I'd agree with you, but, just saying... I believe there can be exceptions to this rule.



Lockit -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 6:33:57 PM)

LOL.. Even for me in that situation it would be him pleasing me sexually... not service. I guess it all boils down to what I see service as. Sex isn't service to me. I think my attitude about it has come from all those emails of men offering service and it is always sexual and for the most part.. their pleasure or hours of oral for me, which would get them fired. I'm sure there are many others who feel differently.



CherokeeRose2 -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 6:49:52 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: malloves69

..geez if it was so illegal why is there many pro doms on collarme and fetlife looking for work on a pay for play basis ?



Prostitution is the world's oldest profession - making it illegal hasn't been very effecitive in curtailing it.

I really don't care if people chose to participate in sex for pay, but be clear about what it is you are buying.



LadyPact -> RE: Guys and strapons....a rant (10/28/2009 8:04:27 PM)

Being very realistic about the matter, pros exist because there is a market for them.  There are a lot of bottoms out there who can't, won't, or aren't able to be involved with a Domme on a personal level.  Not every client out there gets off on the money factor of the transaction.  There are a lot of clients who would love to be getting the same treatment that they are getting from their pro if they could get it for free.  Or, instead of that once a week or month visit for a couple of hours that they can afford, have someone in their life every day. 

This is an absolute breeding ground for jealousy and resentment for those involved in personal dynamics.  It's a very basic case of the have nots targeting those who have with their frustrations.  Throw in the insecurities that probably already exist because of the various reasons that someone isn't involved in a personal dynamic, and you've got a potential powder keg.

Then, here comes along the personal submissive, who has everything the client believes they want.  The love, the commitment, the time, the very LIFE that someone else wishes they had so badly.  Is it any surprise whatsoever that these folks get the backlash?  The clients wouldn't dare direct it at the pro because then they won't see the client anymore.

Any female can get sex, including strap on sex, damn near anywhere.  You don't hear too many stories about females having to open up their purses to pay for it.





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