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RE: MODS DO NOT DELETE, THANKS. - 11/3/2009 7:22:19 AM   
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Ah now there I do disagree. *Some* people (and I don't mean the OP) are just so filled with malice or general unpleasantness or stupidity or a lack of empathy (and sometimes all 4!) that I really can't be arsed with them - they're literally a waste of bandwidth and time to read. At that point it's the Bozo Bin with them, and long may they fester


Ah.... you are such a Londoner after my own heart - you said arsed.
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lol Yes! But the place has its own car park, so that was ok. I'm ok round here coz I have a resident's permit too, but they've ticketed people with those before now, would you believe. You end up getting your money back but its all hassle. Kill em all, kill em now, say I.

But wardens have feelings to - or so I am told.  Could be an urban ledgend mind.  But at least you are getting the hang of the embedding now.

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RE: MODS DO NOT DELETE, THANKS. - 11/3/2009 7:23:35 AM   
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the venti white chocolate mocha with peppermint



That sounds utterly delish. Nice idea.

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Shame on you all!

Ah now there you're swimming upstream through treacle where I'm concerned, I'm sorry to say. I had my shame response surgically removed a while back. Nowadays, if it feels good, I just do it

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RE: MODS DO NOT DELETE, THANKS. - 11/3/2009 7:41:35 AM   
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Ah now there I do disagree. *Some* people (and I don't mean the OP) are just so filled with malice or general unpleasantness or stupidity or a lack of empathy (and sometimes all 4!) that I really can't be arsed with them - they're literally a waste of bandwidth and time to read. At that point it's the Bozo Bin with them, and long may they fester


Ah.... you are such a Londoner after my own heart - you said arsed.

I am that very thing, yes.

Although I did spend a long, long time (10 years) away from the place. Which is why I think I enjoy living here so much now - you sort of need to go elsewhere to appreciate what London has to offer, *if* you were born and raised here.

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lol Yes! But the place has its own car park, so that was ok. I'm ok round here coz I have a resident's permit too, but they've ticketed people with those before now, would you believe. You end up getting your money back but its all hassle. Kill em all, kill em now, say I.

But wardens have feelings to - or so I am told.  Could be an urban ledgend mind.  But at least you are getting the hang of the embedding now.

the.dark.



Wardens have feelings?!!!!! Wash your mouth out! They're sub-human scum, and the job only exists so that would-be burger-flippers with sub-zero people skills can still find work!

And the quoting thing is more luck than judgement - the quote-unquote-requote etc thing is tedious in extremis. Jesus, what a clunky editor. Feels like it was written by a Unix nerd.

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RE: MODS DO NOT DELETE, THANKS. - 11/3/2009 7:57:53 AM   
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I have honestly debated on whether or not to post to this thread, partly because I don’t feel well but that wasn’t totally it. Truth is I do care about you and am afraid of being to blunt at times.

As you and some others know I am diagnosed as bipolar and deal with PTSD. Like you I once struggled with feeling alone especially during my manias. Truth be told I have pushed many people away during my manic episodes. Over the years I have realized that I was vulnerable during those times, and lord knows emotional. So I had to stop postingduring my manic periods. The reality was/ is that during those times I am more vulnerable and what I need is support and I can’t get that from strangers, nor was I in an emotional position to sift through posts to find the supportive ones. Plus for me I got tired of apologizing fro my manias once they passed. So it became easier for me to simply turn off my computer during those times. To only deal with the people I knew would support me 110%.

I have seen you grow and change and I know you want to be healthy and productive that is why I put myself out there to you but the reality is not everyone who reads your posts will see that change or know that it has occurred.

I am afraid that one day you will be in a truly emotional state and read a post that is simply vile ( and we know people on her can be vile) and you react badly to it.

I am also afraid that you crave friendship so much that one day you will let the wrong person into your life and that they will do more harm than good for you.



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RE: MODS DO NOT DELETE, THANKS. - 11/3/2009 8:26:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yup I did, I felt powerful be cause I wasn't rude or bitchy or mean , and I have been in the past to those who don't like me. I felt my reply was curtious and I wasn't manic over it either, I know in my heart that I do the best I can and I don't blow smoke up people's bums and if they think I do, oh well, after a few people crashed my good mood a couple of days ago I  have decided that if I am happy an they don't like me gushing happines or they don't like I am an ageplayer tough tittie said the kitty cause the milks all gone.


Seriously with the I am so proud thread I almost said fuck it who cares if I explain an they still don't like it but I let myself get anxious and ruin my happiness, and that's bullshit, nobody can rain on your parade if you won't let them.

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TfB, i think you handles Davan's post very well and i hope when you did you felt the power of having control but more so the power of determining what to accept and disregard of what she had said and realizing that people will perceive what you write in their own way but only YOU have the power to allow it to effect you.

angel

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RE: MODS DO NOT DELETE, THANKS. - 11/3/2009 8:45:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well I fully admit to being an attention whore, specially here, but that's cause you're the only people I have to pester, since I have no real life friends hehe.

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The strong thread of "look at me!"/attention whore is also annoying,

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RE: MODS DO NOT DELETE, THANKS. - 11/3/2009 8:46:23 AM   
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RE: MODS DO NOT DELETE, THANKS. - 11/3/2009 8:48:44 AM   
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Well I fully admit to being an attention whore, specially here, but that's cause you're the only people I have to pester, since I have no real life friends hehe.

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The strong thread of "look at me!"/attention whore is also annoying,


Geesh what am I chopped liver? lol

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RE: MODS DO NOT DELETE, THANKS. - 11/3/2009 8:56:10 AM   
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have you walked your dog today?

<worried>

Is that a euphemism?

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RE: MODS DO NOT DELETE, THANKS. - 11/3/2009 8:58:18 AM   
Toppingfrmbottom


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Status: offline 		Not a problem Angel I haven't minded a bit, actually,  it helps a lot, in that people confirm that I shouldn';t allow people to stomp on my pride or feelings, because I am a good person and their opnion isn't worth hurting my idea of self worth over.

When people rally around, it makes me feel less like the stupid heel that should just go hide, and more justified in being happy and me.


Now I know that needs to come with in me, an from me and not be external, but I am beginning to see people like me and I'm not the biggest pest they ever saw, and I feel  ok and strong enough not to let the nay sayers run me off, because there's people who like me just as I am and would be sad if I stopped being so happy and joyous and just goofy and sweet.

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Eh i am soo not the happy go lucky cheerleader type lol by any means on a board like this.... but when someone is posting that they take everything to heart and allows it to effect their self-worth as TfB has, i don't think the troops coming in to protect is the way for her to learn how to handle it on her own and in fact is a concept of usurping any steps she takes to learn to disregard that which appears negative and take from posts in a non-emotional way.


angel

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RE: MODS DO NOT DELETE, THANKS. - 11/3/2009 9:03:45 AM   
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mmnottertail I have school early this morning so I have not but it's only 9a m for me, and I only been awake since 7 am.
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have you walked your dog today?

<worried>

Is that a euphemism?


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RE: MODS DO NOT DELETE, THANKS. - 11/3/2009 9:24:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		no:) but you're a new frienship so when I say I don't have any friends, I don't mean you* beaming*

And you're sick and tired so I am being calm and peaceful and not sending a bunch of restless energy your way so you can rest* beaming again*
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Well I fully admit to being an attention whore, specially here, but that's cause you're the only people I have to pester, since I have no real life friends hehe.

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ORIGINAL: RapierFugue



The strong thread of "look at me!"/attention whore is also annoying,


Geesh what am I chopped liver? lol

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RE: MODS DO NOT DELETE, THANKS. - 11/3/2009 1:04:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		That's happend before, being  emotional and seeing something saying vile things to me that just hurt bad. Daddy tells me all the time do not put yourself out there, people will just sucker punch you in the heart then you'll be devistated and Daddy will have to put you back together again.


That's also already happend, and thank god I wasn't raped or beaten or something but I was sad they turned out to be a Predator and not a friend.

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I have seen you grow and change and I know you want to be healthy and productive that is why I put myself out there to you but the reality is not everyone who reads your posts will see that change or know that it has occurred.

I am afraid that one day you will be in a truly emotional state and read a post that is simply vile ( and we know people on her can be vile) and you react badly to it.

I am also afraid that you crave friendship so much that one day you will let the wrong person into your life and that they will do more harm than good for you.





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RE: MODS DO NOT DELETE, THANKS. - 11/3/2009 1:22:11 PM   
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That's happend before, being  emotional and seeing something saying vile things to me that just hurt bad. Daddy tells me all the time do not put yourself out there, people will just sucker punch you in the heart then you'll be devistated and Daddy will have to put you back together again.


That's also already happend, and thank god I wasn't raped or beaten or something but I was sad they turned out to be a Predator and not a friend.

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I have seen you grow and change and I know you want to be healthy and productive that is why I put myself out there to you but the reality is not everyone who reads your posts will see that change or know that it has occurred.

I am afraid that one day you will be in a truly emotional state and read a post that is simply vile ( and we know people on her can be vile) and you react badly to it.

I am also afraid that you crave friendship so much that one day you will let the wrong person into your life and that they will do more harm than good for you.






I honestly tend to agree with your Daddy on that, especially when you are already in a vulnerable state. Sometimes it only takes a little thing to push you over the edge and why risk it?

Again that is why I am asking you to be very cautious about who consider a "friend". Predators don't wear gaint A's on their chests and often times it is to late when you realize what is happening. At times I don't even see peoples true motives until they step over the line b/c like you I am learning how to interact with people again.

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RE: MODS DO NOT DELETE, THANKS. - 11/7/2009 11:38:11 PM   
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Back to the OP:

I enjoy your posts.   You don't owe anyone an explanation.  Just be you.  If there is a personality conflict then simply ignore that persons threads and posts. Not everyone gets along with every single person.     But that does not mean either one is bad- or deficient.   It just is.

As to ADD, and such-  I have diagnoses too.  And from seeing others post- a decent size crowd had mentioned meds-  , welcome to the real world.

Try not to be upset.   While you may have hit a bump in the road-  I and others enjoy your posts and want you to keep on being YOU!  

We love you!    HUGS!


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