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Aylee -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 9:22:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

You are wicked..........I love that in a woman!


Shiny! 

I bat for both teams, so I am a down with that.  (I am not so good with the slang though.)



Missokyst -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 9:22:49 AM)

IDK... was Deliverance done in TN?



kinkySexToy -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 9:25:33 AM)

Thanks Aylee. very profound. FYI I know how to break her as I would any child,but in this day and age thought one of You devilishly evil dominates might have a new way that is fun to execute on a unsuspecting sub,rather than to break her in a way that saddens me also. My slave picked that name she is the one looking for a sister submissive. Kinda funny I submit to a "Ask a Master" and get 4 responces form Women, and only Two from Men. i suspect I go to ask a Mistress I'm only get male slave lol.



windchymes -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 9:28:10 AM)

Nah, we'll find you there, too.

The boards here in Collar Me aren't exclusive.  We all post everywhere to anyone, and nothing and no one is sacred. 



Aylee -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 9:44:58 AM)

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ORIGINAL: kinkySexToy

Thanks Aylee. very profound.

Why thank you!  I often can be very profound when pointing out the blindingly obvious.
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FYI I know how to break her as I would any child,

Break a child?  Please scheduale an appointment for a vasectomy immediately.
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but in this day and age

What day and age is this?  Are you refering to Tolkien, as in this is the Fifth Age? 
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thought one of You devilishly evil dominates

Why would I wish to be devilish or evil?  I took this as a serious question for a solution that would work.
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might have a new way that is fun to execute on a unsuspecting sub,

Here is your first problem.  If she is unsuspecting, then she must not know your expectations.  Perhaps you should let her know what they are.  That communication thing again.  If this is just about "fun" for you, I suggest a mechanical toy.  Stop treating people as objects. 
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rather than to break her in a way that saddens me also.

Here is that "breaking" thing again.  I repeat, you are talking about a HUMAN.  With human needs, wants, and desires.  NOT AN OBJECT. 
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My slave picked that name she is the one looking for a sister submissive.

And you do not have veto power?  I would suggest that you get your house in order before adding to it. 
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Kinda funny I submit to a "Ask a Master" and get 4 responces form Women, and only Two from Men.

I fail to see the humour.  Perhaps you could explain it. 
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i suspect I go to ask a Mistress I'm only get male slave lol.

LOL?  I could almost gaurantee that you would receive male s-type responses in the Ask A Mistress forum.  Some of those males are very intelligent.  You should listen to them.  Stop letting your pre-conceived notions cloud your judgement. 



daintydimples -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 9:45:43 AM)

Oy !!  He can't control the 19 year old and they're looking for a third. Can you spell train wreck?





Aylee -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 9:49:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: daintydimples
Can you spell train wreck?


Yes I can.  You have spelled "train wreck" correctly.  You get an "A" for the day.



daintydimples -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 9:51:52 AM)

* flounces around with my "A" all happy like *



Lashra -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 9:52:00 AM)

She has learned to push your buttons and is effectively getting away with it. What you have to learn is what pushes her buttons and use that to your advantage. If she likes spanking, your just reinforcing her negative behavior. Perhaps if she hates writing, give her a nice long writing assignment. Make sure that she knows how disappointed you feel by her bad behavior, for most subs that is enough to yank them back in line, if it is not you may have to find something else. Are you sure that she is submissive and not into this just for the sex/attention?

Good luck,
~Lashra



CalifChick -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 9:57:07 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Lashra

She has learned to push your buttons and is effectively getting away with it.


It appears that the 19 yr old is not the only one pushing his buttons and getting away with it.  Perhaps he needs to work more diligently on his own behavior.  I was going to say "and spelling", but thought better of it.  [;)]

Cali



DesFIP -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 10:04:26 AM)

 Without talking to her, he has no idea what her needs are. Maybe all she wants is a kinky relationship with someone she can have fun with. Someone who enjoys when she acts up a bit to instigate play and responds playfully with  giving her a spanking. And if that's what she wants, then that is the relationship she should have.

The fact that the op wants something different and feels it is perfectly responsible to break someone mentally to force them into a relationship they would not choose, shows the problems with the op.

I hope the 19 y. o. gets out and finds the relationship of her dreams before the op fucks her up royally.

Op learn how to communicate. Learn how to negotiate prior to the commitment. Learn how to express your expectations. Learn how to listen.



strangedesire -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 10:09:56 AM)

Her profile says that she's a domme.  I can see how that might cause some problems.  



AnimusRex -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 10:17:28 AM)

Kinky Sex Toy-

Lets assume you are serious, and taking your question at face value:

You haven't mastered this girl- meaning you haven't gained her trust and confidence- she sees you as her kinky sex toy, her dildo that she toys with to get what she wants.

Your question seems to assume that there is an artful beating or painful torment that will comply her into behaving; Or a simple "spank her and send her to bed without supper" solution.

If we were all living in an erotic novel, the kind where mysterious slave training camps actually exist, your premise would be spot on. But since we live in the flesh and blood world of consenting adults, you don't have physical power over a submissive- you can't physically force another adult to do anything unconsensually- all you have is your ability to inspire her to follow you.

Which you haven't done yet.

You have no power to change other people; You can only be the man you want to be, and she will either follow you, or she won't.



GreedyTop -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 10:27:01 AM)

*applauds*  well said, Rex!



sirsholly -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 10:39:58 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

What exactly did you expect from a 19yo?

And.......if you cannot deal with the above described issue......I really think you need to consider your ability and whether or not you should be trying to master anyone.

Oh for crying out loud........you are 42 and you do not know how to deal with basic childish behaviour?

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ORIGINAL: kinkySexToy

she is not dumb. Tigresse and is mature for others,so I know she is she can do it. and who the hell do You think you are to question my ability to master. I have trained 8 slaves and they all turned out well. so what i exspect is real answers not smart ass half thought responces.This is "ask a Master" this board is for asking questions. Perhaps Your the one who needs training.
Dude...LaT, and the rest of us, are questioning your ability to "master" because you are getting walked on by a 19 year old....and are posting here asking a bunch of strangers how to handle it. Yep...you really have the "master" thing down pat[8|]

And an FYI...anyone can post on any thread at any time as long as there is no violation of the TOS.



angelikaJ -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 10:53:57 AM)

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ORIGINAL: AnimusRex

Kinky Sex Toy-

If we were all living in an erotic novel, the kind where mysterious slave training camps actually exist, your premise would be spot on. But since we live in the flesh and blood world of consenting adults, you don't have physical power over a submissive- you can't physically force another adult to do anything unconsensually- all you have is your ability to inspire her to follow you.

Which you haven't done yet.

You have no power to change other people; You can only be the man you want to be, and she will either follow you, or she won't.


 Faith
 
When you walk to the edge of all the light you have
and take that first step into the darkness of the unknown,
you must believe that one of two things will happen:
    There will be something solid for you to stand upon,
    or, you will be taught how to fly
     
     
    Patrick Overton



LadyPact -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 11:10:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: kinkySexToy
. Kinda funny I submit to a "Ask a Master" and get 4 responces form Women, and only Two from Men. i suspect I go to ask a Mistress I'm only get male slave lol.


Please feel free to explain to Me why the requirement to be a 'Master' has anything to do with someone having a dick between their legs and I promise you this is going to be a whole different thread.



sputniklove -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 11:11:04 AM)

Rare it is for me to share comments here,which I will try to be more forthcoming...That said...orgional poster"kinkysextoy"....I agree with many of the views that you are not
1) communicating[&:]
2) responsable enough to add a 3RD...person to this already dysfunctional mess you are faced with
3) having your buttons "hit" by a SUB....is not the very definition of your relationship here being called into queston..who has control or dominace over the other....??
4) the value of AR comments best reflect your situation...you have no control over another- submission,and obiedence, like commincation, are choice ideals to be made by indviduals giving those actions (ie; subs)...clearly in your situation they are not being given
I suggest,and that is all it is....TALK, express your disapointment as was suggested earlier in this thread...and if spanking is a not an apropiate punishment,and just a kink desire of your submissive,then you have to evulate what is working,and what is not in this relationship...where it sounds like whose roles are still being established...
IF I was the gambling type I would say she is topping from the botttom and you are the last to know....



Lockit -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 11:18:23 AM)

ROFL... I bet you don't want to see my picture or comments Sir Don! LOL... Doesn't anyone remember the picture of the guy that once wanted to be my slave and was so slavish that he got laughed out of the mistress and submissive boards?

The story used to be.. he was trained in TN. lol Damn how things change. Yeah... so... get mad at me again... and do your thing. lol I'z not scared.



sirsholly -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 11:21:56 AM)

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one of You devilishly evil dominates
hon...if you are going to try to convince anyone you are a dominant you might want to learn to spell it correctly



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