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CarrieO -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 11:26:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: kinkySexToy
How do You teach a 19 year old slave girl to act like a adult instead of a baby. she does real well around other people but when we're alone she goies into the spoiled brat baby mode and it drives me crazy!!! Spankings only seem to feed the fire. she likes to push me to see how far she can go. Sir Don


Well, a 19 year old "girl" many times is still trying to figure out what it means to be a woman let alone an adult.  What makes her a "brat" in your eyes?  Why are you unable to remain in control of yourself when she acts this way?

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she is not dumb. Tigresse and is mature for others,so I know she is she can do it. and who the hell do You think you are to question my ability to master. I have trained 8 slaves and they all turned out well. so what i exspect is real answers not smart ass half thought responces.This is "ask a Master" this board is for asking questions. Perhaps Your the one who needs training.


Well it would seem that not only are you unable to control yourself in private with a woman, you're also unable to control yourself on a public forum.

Bad form.

Just because you say you've "trained" 8 slaves dosen't mean you always know what you're doing as each person is an individual and needs to be treated as such.

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I was training slaves in a camp in Tenn. is why they are not with me.I think more that she has always gotten her way by throwing fits.I am going to start inoreing her, when she acts out as I know this hits home,as far as her not wanting to serve me I don't see how her throwing a fit warents this responce.she came to me Not the other way around. When I was training in Tenn. we'd kick them out, but this slave is special and worthy of my efforts to help her grow.


Perhaps you need to go back to camp and ask the Masters there.  If she's "worthy" of your help then don't you feel she's also worthy of a man who can control himself?  I'm only going by how you've posted on this thread and your previous posts...and the fact that I rarely forget a face and I've seen your photo before but not as a dom.  You've been here before.  

The inability to master a subject...or sub/slave, in this case...doesn't necessarily mean it's the fault of the subject matter...or sub/slave in question...but instead can sometimes be traced back to inability of the teacher...or dom...to fully understand the subject...or sub/slave.
What that means is did you ever think it's not her but you that has the problem/issue?

BTW...is this "slave" the 19yr old Domme you mention in your profile?

**Edited to add....I see I'm not the only one who remembers a face [:'(]





Lockit -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 11:37:07 AM)

http://www.collarchat.com/m_2341930/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#2341992

http://www.collarchat.com/m_2344214/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#2344214




sirsholly -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 11:51:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyDesire

greetings. i call myself a slave ,i have a submissive nature. But it seems when talking to Domme's about anything, i get told that i am topping from the bottom. i do have a opinion about most everything and before i know it i throw it out there, and get myself in hot water. could it be that i am a swich,or just a idot who can't keep his month shut. simplydesire


Ok..lemme get this straight. KinkySexToy wrote the above in December 2008.

quote:

ORIGINAL: kinkySexToy

I have trained 8 slaves and they all turned out well.


And...in a period of approx 11 months he changed his orientation from slave to master AND trained 8 slaves?

Damn...





CalifChick -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 11:59:30 AM)

tap tap tap ???




LadyPact -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 12:06:47 PM)

Anybody else starting to understand the threads about how to get a thread you've started to be removed?



Wantstocontrolu -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 12:18:44 PM)

Kick her young ass out and say come back in 10 years if this is what you really want.

That or change yourself and get into baby play



sputniklove -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 12:24:33 PM)

LOL..TAP TAP TAP.......SLAVE to MASTER in 8 months....and trained 8 slaves...wow who is making this s*% up??!!![:D].....And what has become of those 8 slaves as well?? I am sure they are the most obident control;led ever...the perfect role model by which all other slaves should be judged by.....where or where is the voice of sanity here???proabley laughing out loud with the rest of us.....thanks for making my friday a happy one filled with laughter....instamaster...just add water and some pixie dust and viloa!! instamaster.....



Lockit -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 12:30:05 PM)

My advice... change your pictures once in a while.. that way when you change your constantly evolving and ever new profiles... you won't be figured out.



LadyPact -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 12:43:32 PM)

Better advice (no offense, Lockit).  How about don't attempt to use the site to bullshit other people about who you are, what kind of experience you have, and what you do?  I've got hell of a lot more respect for someone who has the balls to say they are brand new at doing this (which the OP is and it's exactly why the 19 year old in question is able to get away with the behavior) than someone who wants to create stories of experience to make themselves look good.  (Which in this case failed miserably.)





AnimusRex -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 12:47:23 PM)

sigh

My inner cynic just got a boost. I feel punk'd for having written a somewhat serious answer.


(even more punk's for asking for directions to the slave training camp with its 8 prancing slaves)


5 minutes of my life I will never get back.



Lockit -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 12:48:35 PM)

Very true Lady Pact... I guess I just never expect to have honesty and the op in the same vacinity.



LadyPact -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 12:51:40 PM)

The good part about that, Rex, is that it's still here for future use.  It was good advice and it will still be able to be used if someone should need it someday.  All it takes is a simple search to find it.



DesFIP -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 1:15:44 PM)

Anyone else beginning to suspect the only 19 year old in this relationship is the op, still living in his mother's basement/



LadyPact -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 2:05:06 PM)

Des, please don't tempt Me.  I'm seriously having issues with My contempt of less than honest people today.  LOL.



devilishpixie -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 2:05:23 PM)

I am trying to understand this the OP was a slave (or claimed to be 8 mths ago) now he says he is a dom who has a 19 yr old young woman in his collar and is claiming to have trained 8 other slaves in some sort of camp setting? Yet he is suprised that the "slave he has in collar, misbehaves or acts out? I am honestly confused. lol



Lockit -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 2:08:19 PM)

No you aren't confused... you nailed it.



devilishpixie -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 2:12:04 PM)

Wow! Seriously? I agree someone can discover their dominant side and realize they are on the wrong side of the kneel but to go from there to training 9 slaves and owning at least one of those. That is more than a slave a mth that a new "dom" is dealing with. OP are you serious?

I mean.... you are knew to your position as a dominant how do you have the knowledge or experience to train 9 slaves/submissives yet alone 1?

Now I understand the thread in off topic about closing threads. Geesh!



LadyPact -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 2:16:45 PM)

There's something about this thread that makes Me keep thinking:

"There was this one time at band camp........"



devilishpixie -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 2:18:08 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

There's something about this thread that makes Me keep thinking:

"There was this one time at band camp........"




OMG! Well he did say he trained slaves at camp.



daintydimples -> RE: inmature frmale slave. (11/6/2009 3:22:05 PM)

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The inability to master a subject...or sub/slave, in this case...doesn't necessarily mean it's the fault of the subject matter...or sub/slave in question...but instead can sometimes be traced back to inability of the teacher...or dom...to fully understand the subject...or sub/slave.
(CarrieO)

As an experienced dominant of a sub male, I can say this: in a good D/s relationship where the sub wants to submit, where the dom knows how to inspire that, if my sub is not obedient, I consider that MY fault. It's my own lack of attention, lack of focus, lack of correct instruction, whatever.

To me, it's either the dom's fault or the dynamic is seriously fracked up in some way.

Just saying. Just in case anyone is taking this thread seriously.

BTW: *I* have an "A."

*flounces off all smug like . . . .



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