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You are submissive yet refuse to address Dom as Sir in public.

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Disagree

71% (30)

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 8:09:44 AM

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Thanks Lucy. I want to do some outdoor cleanup but not unless the temperature rises above 40. We had a hard frost this morning when I let the dog out, brrrr.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 8:26:04 AM

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I'm still waiting for one of these dumbinants to have the balls to not insist on upsetting strangers, but to do it where they will be impacted. You notice he isn't willing to act like an asshat at home, in front of his parents, or his grandparents, or his nephews and nieces who he will be forbidden from seeing ever again.

No it's always some stranger's children who have to deal with this. It's always some poor person who's trying to keep their family fed by working the late shift as a cashier who gets stuck with the cucumber and lube buyer. So why doesn't he slap it on the dinner table and say "Hey Ma, guess what I'm gonna do with these".

Cowards take it out on innocents. Brave but stupid men do it at home and take the consequences. Smart men know that you can't order someone to respect you, you must inspire it through your actions. And the op has shown he's incapable of this.

Now whre did I state anywhere taht any children were involved in anything to do with public? seems you groupys take things a bit to far real fast....military uses sir executives use sir ....where I come from we were raised to address adults as si and ma'am yet modern day here you are sitting up on your thrown of child this or that pulling taboo's out of your ass....you are getting bent over a simple poll are yo ua sub who is vanilla in public against your :masters: prefference to be addressed as sir...quite simple really...it is delightful to watch you chase your tails and sound the sirens should I post anything.....even if it were good morning...anyoneelse posted the same question the same way....results would be quite different now wouldnt it. Yes it would if you have any other answer short of yes you are a liar :)

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 8:27:57 AM

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Most vanillas do NOT address their SO as Sir or Ma'am. CHances are there will be children in many public arenas.

Like Holly said.. pull your head outta your buddy there...

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 8:30:23 AM

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Most vanillas do NOT address their SO as Sir or Ma'am. CHances are there will be children in many public arenas.

Like Holly said.. pull your head outta your buddy there...

Chances are equal there wont be also.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 8:42:20 AM

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I am not allowed to call Sir anything but 'Sir'. It is his name, where I am concerned.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 8:53:20 AM

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FINALLLY one with some sense.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 9:00:07 AM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I'm still waiting for one of these dumbinants to have the balls to not insist on upsetting strangers, but to do it where they will be impacted. You notice he isn't willing to act like an asshat at home, in front of his parents, or his grandparents, or his nephews and nieces who he will be forbidden from seeing ever again.

No it's always some stranger's children who have to deal with this. It's always some poor person who's trying to keep their family fed by working the late shift as a cashier who gets stuck with the cucumber and lube buyer. So why doesn't he slap it on the dinner table and say "Hey Ma, guess what I'm gonna do with these".

Cowards take it out on innocents. Brave but stupid men do it at home and take the consequences. Smart men know that you can't order someone to respect you, you must inspire it through your actions. And the op has shown he's incapable of this.

Now whre did I state anywhere taht any children were involved in anything to do with public?

Public, adj, is of or pertaining to the people; relating to, or affecting, a nation, state, or community; opposed to private; as, the public treasury, a road or lake. Public, n, is also defined as the people of a nation not affiliated with the government of that nation. Public to the general body of mankind or of a nation, state, or community; the people, indefinitely; as, the public; also, a particular body or aggretion of people; as, an author's public. "Public network" means a network that is regulated as a common carrier.
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Does the defination state anywhere you must be over 18 to be considered a menber of the public?

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 9:02:17 AM

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FINALLLY one with some sense.

I am just learning now that 'Sir' is a dirty word.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 10:44:49 AM

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lol.. wait when did calling someone Sir in public become involving people in kink and turning poor children to a life of crime and debauchery? Wow.. I would believe that seeing someone refer to another person as sir or ma'am is just a respectful title.. now if you had said Master then that I can see .. but Sir?.. Now that just shows how far the "public" and some kinky people have turned from common decency and respect when Sir becomes a word to be feared and only associated with kink.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 11:13:51 AM

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Does your sub have to address you as Sir while Gathered at your or their parents house for Thanksgiving?

I would guess probably not.

I am reminded of the time I was at a bar with a friend. He wanted me to try the lamb fries (sheep balls for those who don't know). He kept on and on and on and on about how good they were and I should try them.
I turned to him and said "Would you eat the pecker?"

"Hell no!"
"Why not? They might be REALLY REALLY good!"
And I went on for a bit and he dropped the subject quickly.

Bottom line, some people stop at the pecker, some stop at the balls.

To each his own.

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RE: REwrite of the "Sir" question - 11/7/2009 11:39:05 AM

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Well let's re-write!!!

What are some ways that you find to manage the dissonance between an s-type being respectful to the M-type in public that also manages the need to be respectful of the rest of the world and not subjecting them to your kink? How is the decision made?

Hello,
The decision is made by him. I am always respectful, deferential, polite (to everyone). I may not use his given name, ever, except to refer to him to someone else (like family). He expects me to address him as Master when he expects me to address him as anything, but he knows who is is and isn't really into a lot of the smaller protocols. If he has a preference for "Sir" in any given situation, i use it. I find there are too many ways to use it unobtrusively and naturally without calling particular attention to it for it to be offensive or even a 'kinky give away'. He would never require inappropriate behavior to any situation. It isn't my pride, just his sense of decorum.

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RE: REwrite of the "Sir" question - 11/7/2009 12:10:41 PM

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knew I would find a use for this pic

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RE: REwrite of the "Sir" question - 11/7/2009 12:12:33 PM

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*snort* Zeph...I had that as a screen saver at work for a while.....I loved it!

BTW, I thought you waz leeving?????

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RE: REwrite of the "Sir" question - 11/7/2009 12:16:25 PM

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*snort* Zeph...I had that as a screen saver at work for a while.....I loved it!

BTW, I thought you waz leeving?????

it was in an email my sis sent me

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RE: REwrite of the "Sir" question - 11/7/2009 12:16:42 PM

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 12:18:16 PM

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lol.. wait when did calling someone Sir in public become involving people in kink and turning poor children to a life of crime and debauchery? Wow.. I would believe that seeing someone refer to another person as sir or ma'am is just a respectful title.. now if you had said Master then that I can see .. but Sir?.. Now that just shows how far the "public" and some kinky people have turned from common decency and respect when Sir becomes a word to be feared and only associated with kink.

So where do you draw the line?
Because the op claims that if you refuse anything, then you're not a twue submissive, that instead you turn it on and off like a lamp.

You really think that someone who espouses that won't also claim the same if you refuse to pick a kid up from daycare in a corset and six inch stilettoes? Or decline to be walked on a leash next to a playground?

The question isn't do you call him sir, in public or private, and why one and not the other? Which could easily be that public could be defined as in front of your grandmother in a nursing home who would not understand and would be needlessly upset.

Go read some of his other posts and you'll understand why the op is universally disliked.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 12:25:15 PM

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lol.. wait when did calling someone Sir in public become involving people in kink and turning poor children to a life of crime and debauchery? Wow.. I would believe that seeing someone refer to another person as sir or ma'am is just a respectful title.. now if you had said Master then that I can see .. but Sir?.. Now that just shows how far the "public" and some kinky people have turned from common decency and respect when Sir becomes a word to be feared and only associated with kink.

It's the old my way is the right way argument again...it just so happens that it's coming from the "liberal" thinkers this time. Don't sweat it..Do
what ya want to and fuck those who don't like it.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 12:38:34 PM

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 12:39:22 PM

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 12:42:20 PM

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You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir..
Thus you flip your submission on and off like a light "switch" <==as to avoid offending the public vs pleasing your master and showing him the respect you clearly think he deserves as you have agreed to meet his terms and or conditions. Yet at any moment will Sir or ma'am the check out clerk at the grocery store and or pharmacy.

I don't even call him sir or master in private. I call him by his first name. So why would I call him something different in public. If you need that title in order to feel respected then you are doing something wrong.

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