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wisdomtogive -> RE: Why do some Masters feel that they have to lie? (11/21/2009 6:08:32 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Muirren
I have not been trying to shed responsibility. I take my role seriously and so should the person I am with. Maybe it is because I was raised to believe that honesty is the best policy. I suppose most people don't have any scruples. And to attack me just because I expect someone to live up to my standards is unhinged, plain and simple.
You have strick expectations for people, and where has that gotten you? I do not understand the need for a person to lie, but life happens...and some do lie. I can't change them, and I will not belittle them in public, or whine about it. A Master might hold themselves to a high code of ethic, and they might not. What is important to me, is what i do. I make mistakes, yes..and i learned from them. I thank the lesson and move on. Having expectations of what a Master should be for you is okay..but to put it on all Doms can lead to a person's downfall. Choose wiser next time. Look at your expectations and see if you these are getting in your way. When the word should is used on people in general, let a lone a group it is a sign that you want an utopian world, and that just isn't going to happen.
You made this error 2x in a year, so what will you do about it? Will you continue to grump about lying Masters? Will you start changing your belief that if you are x you must then behave in x way? it cant happen. this is life and it will never happen. To attract different, you might want to look at yourself first. As you review and search within, be grateful for the lessons that came to show you that you might need to do some changing here.
wisdomtogive
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