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FosterDomme -> RE: Is now the time to ban pro Dommes from Collarme or should we just live and let live (11/16/2009 1:14:51 AM)
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I just wish I could get paid to take a whip to someone's backside. Talk about an easy job. [:D]
See how easy it is when about half of them want to hand you a script and micromanage as you're doing so. It takes a lot of the fun out of it... That's not even taking into account the ones who waste your time by never showing (quite often without the courtesy of canceling - often just trolling for wank fodder, in the first place.) There are SOME who are what could be classified as "masochistic Doms." Personally, I enjoy the occassional serious pain puppy; so, I'm willing to play with some of them; but, if they're going to act like I'm their employee, it's going to cost them...
Regarding rubberpet's:
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I don't think pros should be banned, but I do think they should have their own special section since there are so many of them. That way people who are looking for one can filter them in or out. I get the random, off the wall, unsolicited message from pro-dommes every once in a while and while it's a bit annoying, those messages aren't from reputable, well-known and respected ones.
I say just give them their own sections. :-)
What about those of us who are both??? Do we set up separate accounts? My attitude is one of, " The more it's 'about me' to him, the more it's 'about him' to me. The more it's 'about him' to him, the more it's 'about me' to me..." If he's a total jerk, he can just go take a long walk off of a short pier. I'm not interested in finding "the love of my life;" and, I'm darned sure not looking for a sexual relationship. That doesn't mean that I don't enjoy doing the things I enjoy. When I find that someone is a lot of fun to play with and has an "about me" attitude, they get moved into the category of being welcome whether they can kick in financially or not. If I was into serving someone (not to be confused with caring about them having an equally positive experience), I'd be a sub; or, at least a switch. In addition to the guys I mention above, there are a lot of guys that I play with who CAN'T, for any number of reasons, show their appreciation in any way other than by helping out financially.
If there were to be any changes made, it might make sense to simply add the following interests section questions: "Casual play without sex," "Casual play with sex," "Looking for a serious, long-term relationship." That way, those who are only interested in the latter two could designate those when the search. Those who just shoot off notes without bothering to read profiles probably wouldn't bother to use the search feature, either; but, that's "on them." [:'(] If there was a clarification that there was a MAJOR difference between a Pro-Dom/me and a "hooker with a whip," I'd be in favor of having something in the interests section for that, as well.
As for "credentials," references, contact, and common sense are much better than a certificate any day.
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