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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 11/28/2009 11:57:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

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Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM
 

 

I'm still waiting to hear the answer to this.  What has CM taught you about BDSM?  Or was that just a catchy title?
 
 
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What I've learned about BDSM here on CM is that your kink, his kink, her kink, and their kink may not be my kink, but I'm willing to except you without judgement based on that kink. Now, if one is a dumbass for no apparent reason, and finds humor insulting people, well, I wouldn't like you if I met you anywhere

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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 11/29/2009 12:04:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Valyraen

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ORIGINAL: rockspider

Someone mentioned that nobody is perfect. I suppose it is true, but i have meet quite a few perfect assholes in my time


Wait, what?! Damnit, there's someone out there that's more of an asshole than I am?

I'm just gonna have to try harder.



Darling... if you do that, you'll become a clone of one of my exes.

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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 11/29/2009 8:04:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't think I have learned anything about BDSM from CM.

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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 11/29/2009 4:25:30 PM   
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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 11/29/2009 5:11:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		CM hasn't taught me anything; however, there are at least 20 people i have met on CM, that have taught me Many things, as well as reminding me of things i knew, but had forgotten. Sometimes they teach me the same lessons again and again.


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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 11/30/2009 10:20:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		If you had to figure that out online and not from common sense or real life experience or hell even just assumption that there's probably assholes out there, please lock your doors and stay in doors shuttered until you know that there's creeps out there with out an internet site telling you this. that's really dangerous in my opinion.


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ORIGINAL: mercyriddle

I think an interesting lesson for an inexperienced sub like myself is that being a creep knows no gender boundaries.

Being a BBW sub, I always expect to receive one or two messages from a certain sort of man who sees plump girls and just goes for it.

But on CM, its the first time that I have received similar messages from women, or just plain out creepy ultra demanding messages from Dommes.

What can we learn from this? That BDSM has every type of personality under its black latex umbrella, and it is good to learn this in an online environment before going out to real life.

And it reminds me that just because I am a lesbian doesn't mean that I don't have to worry about my own safety. Creeps come in all shapes and sizes, ladies included!



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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 12/1/2009 9:20:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		(CNJDom here:)  CM has taught me a great deal of things about BDSM, but the most important was not about BDSM...but good spelling is vital.  Nothing says "duh" like poor spelling in profiles, posts and journals.  Now onto a few things that CM has taught me:  to be open-minded to other's fetishes and desires, that there are 4.2 million sub-males in the tri-state area alone (1/3 are NOT cross dressers), and  that there are some really wonderful people on this site that I can call friends.  I have also learned that I need more sleep, but that wasn't BDSM, but age...I'm getting older (and I don't dare say wiser, that's for others to decide...).  We are all growing with different things we bring to this site and what we share as well as take with us.  I have learned more than these things of course, but I'm sure we are inspired in many direct and indirect ways with the inclusion of this element in our lives.   

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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 12/1/2009 10:08:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: rockspider

Someone mentioned that nobody is perfect. I suppose it is true, but i have meet quite a few perfect assholes in my time

OMG! i didn't think anyone noticed me!.....i don't know what to say!! i'm a little embarrassed by the compliment


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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 12/1/2009 12:30:41 PM   
Kyoki


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Status: offline 		Seriously, why is this forum nothing but bashing others for saying ONE thing? OMG THIS PERSON DIDN'T STATE EVERY VARIABLE THEY'RE STUPID LET'S PICK ON THEM OLOLOL.

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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 12/1/2009 12:35:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		I can think of one thing I have learnt and that was fire cupping from Lady P..... Thank you Maam
Now for the tongue in cheek bit....
I haven't learnt anything about acts of sadism and masochism because those kind of threads always tend to go in a very negative and 'DONT DO IT' direction.
I think we sometimes forget that this site is meant to be about other things as well as D/s but I tend to go to other sites if I want to ask a specific question about the painful things we can do!
I have learnt that there is a fairly big online community that 'just don't get switches' and I have learnt that Dominants and submissives can be hugely competitive.
I have learnt that Americans don't have the same sense of humor as the English and visa versa!

On the good side I have learnt that contrary to popular belief, there are many real people on here that really are into the practices of BDSM.
I have learnt about places in the USA that really get down to business and we intend to visit those places sometime soon and I have learnt that if your patient, keep your nose clean and hang around for a while you will be accepted into this community

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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 12/1/2009 2:17:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		i learned what the term "toss your salad" meant

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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 12/1/2009 2:21:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

i learned what the term "toss your salad" meant



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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 12/1/2009 2:24:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kyoki

Seriously, why is this forum nothing but bashing others for saying ONE thing? OMG THIS PERSON DIDN'T STATE EVERY VARIABLE THEY'RE STUPID LET'S PICK ON THEM OLOLOL.



You forgot an L. Let one warning be sufficient.



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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 12/1/2009 10:06:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		hmmm...after a looong time of being on here, taking a break, then coming back (for a good long while this time LOL) I have learned to laugh instead of getting annoyed,  that it is FAR better to seek out the comfort of friends instead of being on a mission for your missing half (or pieces) because hey you can just relax and learn about people at that point, and am thinking that I just learned these journals can be a great release LOL.  

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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 12/1/2009 10:24:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh dear CM can be such fun! There are some really funny interesting people here for sure. I feel affection for some folks here. I have learned quite a bit about quite a bit. Levels of learning garnered in different ways. Using my guts to navigate through some of the more gnarly aspects surfacing here

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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 12/1/2009 11:05:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		::: With her Pollyanna Look::: I learned that if you wait long enough, you just might find the dom of your dreams! Smiles... ON HERE! Ya never know what the next email may bring.

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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 12/2/2009 10:55:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lovingpet

welcome to the internet! Bitches and assholes have longed for a world just like this. Good luck!




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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead
CollarMe has taught me:

that there are tons of people in the world who feel similarly to me in WIITWD. 
that there are good and bad people on every side of the kneel, and in every gender.
that being open and kind has given me the chance to become real-life friends with close to 50 people I would have never known otherwise.
that I am more "at home" with my kinky friends than my vanilla friends.
that there are people out there who will never make friends with anyone.
that stupidity runs rampant on the internet.
that there are some people I wish I never met.
that there is a place that feels like "home" to me on the internet... and it is the first site I check when I log in, and the last one I check before I log out.

~ Red ~


Seconded.

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ORIGINAL: Acer49
I have seen behaviors from males I never could have imagined, what makes you think that a female is incapable of acting just as slimy or rude?


Yes, I have seen that happen and, no, it did not surprise me at all.

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ORIGINAL: rockspider
Someone mentioned that nobody is perfect. I suppose it is true, but i have meet quite a few perfect assholes in my time




And finally, I learned that I am EXTREMELY lucky to have met my former Sir right here on CM.  A Needle in a haystack for sure. 


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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 12/2/2009 11:11:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		That there are differences between the Europeans and the US-Americans.

The generally more sexual liberated way of the europeans (especially the more northern part of europe) i have come to value much higher after learning a lot about the generally more sexual repressed way of the US-Americans (speaking in very, very broad terms here). For example a breastfeeding woman in public is generally accepted where i live (Germany), but in the UK i am not so sure about.

On the other hand i have come to envy the ability of general solidarity and the easiness of support of each other, without that is has to me your neighbour or somebody close to you. I am having difficulties to describe what i mean. If the germans represent in that aspect a 1 of a line going from 1-4, than the UKler would be 3 and the US-americans a 4. It has something to with the understanding of citzizenship and the history of the different countries. Maybe can the dark help me out here or Ellen, because i am at the end of my ability, concerning writing in another language.


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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 12/12/2009 7:26:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mercyriddle

Literacy is my big kink.





hear, hear!

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RE: Things CollarMe has taught me about BDSM - 12/12/2009 8:07:23 PM   
Drifa


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ORIGINAL: Acer49
With all due respect
Really, now why would a male have any interest in a lesbian?


I worked in my younger days part time as a bouncer in a lesbian bar. You would not believe the number of straight guys that want to come in thinking they are going to score a pair of hot lesbians to go home and fuck with.  We tried to get them to go elsewhere otherwise it wouldn't be long before they'd pissed off someone and were getting their delusional hineys kicked by the pool tables.

Our culture has this weird myth that all any lesbian needs to go straight is the right cock, and you might be surprised at how many guys cherish the fantasy that THEIR cock is the "fix the lesbian" magic wand. Of course, straight porn flicks foster this notion.







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