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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 4:18:02 PM

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in making that suggestion you made a judgement..

No... that's just your perception. And one that's wrong.

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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 4:34:18 PM

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And MasterSlaveLA, could you please elaborate on your need to be right - especially when this whole situation has nothing to do with you in the first place? Just wondering.

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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 5:16:29 PM

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in making that suggestion you made a judgement..

No... that's just your perception. And one that's wrong.

if it isnt judgement over what you choose or dont choose to write on here, what other process do you follow.

to be honest i couldnt give a shit what you think i am, im just feeling really peed off that you assume to know my mind, my personality and traits better than i do.

its more youre opinionated determination to be right even after ive taken the trouble to tell you youre wrong. again a judgement about me being incapable of knowing my own mind.

but probably its because every fucking christmas tree has been sold and so my son wont have a tree to put his presents under and im feeling really really fucked off - so if i can pick away at something other than that its a welcome distraction. so thanks, im indebted to you.

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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 5:22:36 PM

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I don't "need" to be right.

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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 6:36:51 PM

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in making that suggestion you made a judgement..

No... that's just your perception. And one that's wrong.

if it isnt judgement over what you choose or dont choose to write on here, what other process do you follow.

In this case, you were given a suggestion.

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its more youre opinionated determination to be right even after ive taken the trouble to tell you youre wrong.

No, actually it's not my determination to be "right"... I simply feel I am in this case. Here's why...

1) You stated those D-types that have "grown" and "learned" to strive towards ensuring their s-type is "happy", will result in an s-type that's "worth more" than an s-type who is not focused on their own happiness, but their D-type's happiness. This is false, as not everyone seeks the SAME dynamic YOU seek.

2) You stated your thread was based on a "hypothetical". This is false, as you also stated:

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... ive already used alot of this advice and directed it at him. he knows he has alot to do to rebuild my trust.

The above is not "hypothetical", but REAL.

3) You stated "judgement" was passed on you. This is false... another (moi) simply inquired if you had explored a LDD/TiH and/or D/lg dynamic, as those dynamics seem to place greater emphasis on the s-type's happiness than do typical D/s or M/s dynamics.

Thus, none of the above is someone needing to be "right", but rather, simply addressing that which YOU have stated; and where you've become needlessly defensive.

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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 7:41:21 PM

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MasterSlaveLA wrote "I don't "need" to be right."

Riiight....lol

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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 7:44:01 PM

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If the grass is green and the sky blue, and one states this to be so... that is not "needing" to be "right"; it is "right".

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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 7:47:48 PM

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If the grass is green and the sky blue, and one states this to be so... that is not "needing" to be "right"; it is "right".

of Course it is... and of course it's YOUR responsibility to make that so abundantly clear

lol

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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 8:07:23 PM

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If the grass is green and the sky blue, and one states this to be so... that is not "needing" to be "right"; it is "right".

of Course it is... and of course it's YOUR responsibility to make that so abundantly clear

lol

To those who insist to me it's not... then yes. Have you always failed to grasp the complete obvious, or are you taking some special medication today?!!

LOL

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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 8:10:28 PM

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If the grass is green and the sky blue, and one states this to be so... that is not "needing" to be "right"; it is "right".

of Course it is... and of course it's YOUR responsibility to make that so abundantly clear

lol

To those who insist to me it's not... then yes. Have you always failed to grasp the complete obvious, or are you taking some special medication today?!!

LOL

Everyone else is crazy and you are the only sane one. Glad we cleared that up.

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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 8:13:37 PM

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If the grass is green and the sky blue, and one states this to be so... that is not "needing" to be "right"; it is "right".

of Course it is... and of course it's YOUR responsibility to make that so abundantly clear

lol

To those who insist to me it's not... then yes. Have you always failed to grasp the complete obvious, or are you taking some special medication today?!!

LOL

Everyone else is crazy and you are the only sane one. Glad we cleared that up.

it's because he's so domly that we, in our lowly submissiveness, fail to notice his sheer magnificance

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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 8:17:01 PM

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If the grass is green and the sky blue, and one states this to be so... that is not "needing" to be "right"; it is "right".

of Course it is... and of course it's YOUR responsibility to make that so abundantly clear

lol

To those who insist to me it's not... then yes. Have you always failed to grasp the complete obvious, or are you taking some special medication today?!!

LOL

Everyone else is crazy and you are the only sane one. Glad we cleared that up.

I'm sorry, do I resemble your therapist? I'm not. Sell your delusions somewhere else.

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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 8:18:40 PM

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Geez i thought a female was posting. I hate when they dont post their own picture or specify who they are if they are sharing a profile.

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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 8:20:27 PM

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LOL... clueless. You've just proven a complete failure to grasp the obvious.

ha ha ha!!!

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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 8:21:22 PM

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If the grass is green and the sky blue, and one states this to be so... that is not "needing" to be "right"; it is "right".

of Course it is... and of course it's YOUR responsibility to make that so abundantly clear

lol

To those who insist to me it's not... then yes. Have you always failed to grasp the complete obvious, or are you taking some special medication today?!!

LOL

Everyone else is crazy and you are the only sane one. Glad we cleared that up.

I'm sorry, do I resemble your therapist? I'm not. Sell your delusions somewhere else.

Well geez, why so hostile? Werent breast fed as a baby?
Nobodies selling anything. Except maybe you.... delusional enough to think you are the foremost authority on a person you dont even know.

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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 8:23:54 PM

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Lally, you know I entertained the thought of reuniting with someone. I even spoke and wrote with him. But no, it never happened and I realized it was wrong through conversation and behaviors displayed. So I believe you when you say "the jury is out." Some think they know women when they really havent a clue.

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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 8:25:14 PM

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LOL... you two are a match made in delusion. Didn't know "pathetic" was an option in bookends?!!

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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 8:26:44 PM

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LOL... you two are a match made in delusion. Didn't know "pathetic" was an option in bookends?!!

Thank you. Coming from you, thats a compliment. If you approved of me, then I would be really scared and on my way to seek therapy.

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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 8:28:11 PM

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Well geez, why so hostile? Werent breast fed as a baby?

Well geez, why so hostile? Ever wondered what life would be like if you'd had enough oxygen at birth?

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RE: what if - 12/21/2009 8:31:48 PM

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