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RE: Just a question for those on here - 3/22/2006 8:24:36 PM   
KatyLied


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he was within his rights to do as he wished with his slave including how he disposed of her. That was his right!


That just adds more fuel to the gore dislike.  Is that the appeal of having property?  The ease of disposal?


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RE: Just a question for those on here - 3/22/2006 8:46:03 PM   
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That just adds more fuel to the gore dislike.  Is that the appeal of having property?  The ease of disposal?


It's not just Goreans who embrace the philosophy.. and no one said it was easy.

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RE: Just a question for those on here - 3/22/2006 10:49:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

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he was within his rights to do as he wished with his slave including how he disposed of her. That was his right!


That just adds more fuel to the gore dislike.  Is that the appeal of having property?  The ease of disposal?



Katy,
Would you have preferred me to have said nothing and allow a misinformed opinion to stand? Where is the honour, integrity and honesty in that. I don’t have to believe he is a good man, or that he is particularly honourable, for me to standup and correct an erroneous statement being touted about by a person who has no knowledge of the facts. That would have bee wrong to allow such statements to pass uncorrected and I may be a bastard and not the most popular bloke but I do stand for what I believe and will nay dishonour myself for any reason or any one. You are known to dislike Gor and Goreans. That to is respected but until you wear our heads on your shoulders, walk in our sandals, experience our experiences and live our life, you are not the one to try to discredit us for our beliefs. You do not believe in ownership as we do? Good then stay away from our affairs and that way they won’t bother you. You’ll notice that generally we don’t comment in D/s specific debates or matters pertaining to submissive only, other than to make a general observation. Many of us like me do not understand D/s or submissive, we understand Gor and slaves. I am not attacking or being rude Lass, I am responding to your comment
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RE: Just a question for those on here - 3/23/2006 4:49:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		I really shouldn't have made that Gorean comment.  Yes, I don't understand Gore, I don't read the novels, etc.  My issue is the way in which she was dismissed, and that has more to do with dealing honestly and truthfully with a sub/slave than it does the lifestyle.  I'm sorry if I offended.

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RE: Just a question for those on here - 3/23/2006 6:03:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ah, Bella,some of us take a lot before we see that it isnt the place for us.He meay indeed have his reasons to be sure there are two sides.But from what you said in my humble opinion, He was negligent and not behaving as He should with You, a true relationship requires constant tending to flourish and grow, and if He was struggling,,for whatever reason He should have shared with You the reasons, thats what i think would have been right if He valued You as he should.
Move on yes,,but slowly,,learn,,re think and see this situation with fresh eyes,,as someone who is looking out for themselves first.You are the most valuable when You are whole and You deserve to be,,before You share.Blessings sis,,i wih You well
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RE: Just a question for those on here - 3/23/2006 6:06:10 AM   
genna


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RE: Just a question for those on here - 3/23/2006 6:11:36 AM   
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RE: Just a question for those on here - 3/23/2006 6:20:51 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		My guess is that he just considers himself to still be being "poly" and was afraid you'd freak out and not let him have his new toy, so figured this was the best way to try and have his cake and eat it too- without really taking any responsibility or doing the work that actual polyamory needs.

He's repeating the mistakes with his new toy that he did with you, with crymzon, with others...I hope you can follow Knights advice, take a break to find yourself and become a stable mature single adult, and then seek someone who really will work with you.

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RE: Just a question for those on here - 3/23/2006 6:27:56 AM   
babyblues


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Status: offline 		i read this entire thread...too much time on my hands today perhaps....almost like watching a new soap opera where you try to catch up on the characters...it seems many of Y/you know each other, but still....
 
i would never "report" personal details of a relationship, let alone a break-up in a public forum....this phone call, this email....he said this...i said that....i understand the need for support, but any private relationship that becomes part of public discussion is doomed to failure, in my opinion...not to mention that, again in my opinion, it's highly disrespectful to Him....
 
another note....emailing and texting a break-up? that's a sad thing in and of itself, isn't it....

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RE: Just a question for those on here - 3/23/2006 8:07:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

I really shouldn't have made that Gorean comment.  Yes, I don't understand Gore, I don't read the novels, etc.  My issue is the way in which she was dismissed, and that has more to do with dealing honestly and truthfully with a sub/slave than it does the lifestyle.  I'm sorry if I offended.


Katy lass,
 
You have demonstrated what it is to be a responsible person and that is all I ever ask.. I was not offended and perhaps we can agree that we both learned something positive of each other. In the words of the modern idiom.. You rock chicken, you rock..

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RE: Just a question for those on here - 3/23/2006 8:21:52 AM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		Your right there babyblues, many of us know each other pretty well. At least one here I spend one third of the time fighting with her, one third debating if I want to throttle heror spank her tailfeathers and the remainder loving her... so you analogy about being a soap opera may not be far wrong.. Pity we dont get paid  Equity rates.
 
Welcome to <<< As the sand in the hour glass so runs "The Days Of Our CM Forums">>>>

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RE: Just a question for those on here - 3/23/2006 5:23:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well thank you all for your comments.I agree since I was his property he could rid of me as he wished although I wish he had gone about it a bit diffrent.Sissy I am gonna come see u in a week or so. I just need to get my income tax back lol.Oh yeah...its new cell time so call that one. Well anyways....I am slowly learning this is for the best. Its very very hard to deal with and it will take time but I will grow and maybe I will even find a new hobby.Well :) laters...

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RE: Just a question for those on here - 3/24/2006 5:51:31 AM   
fyreredsub


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roller coasters that are for riding,,,,,,,,,here we come!!!!

no emotional ones

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RE: Just a question for those on here - 3/26/2006 10:56:41 AM   
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RE: Just a question for those on here - 3/26/2006 11:25:28 AM   
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If it walks like a rat and talks like a rat, it's usually a rat.
TexasMaam


Ahhah!!!! If it walks like a rat and talks like a rat, ~~~~~~~ Hey where the hell is the BBQ sauce!!

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RE: Just a question for those on here - 3/26/2006 1:32:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well Sir and me still are not talking but all who knows us both off here says for me to give it time to work its self out...right now...I am just relaxing and enjoying my own version of a vacation....Thanks to all who have helped me thru this ordeal its not a easy task to move on when so many unanswered questions are still unanswered. I cant wait to finaly get to see my sister(fyreredsub) in person finaly after all this time we have been talking and helping each other thru really odd situations. I am going to keep up with this lifestyle, I am just taking a bit of time off. Blessed be all..and keep posting.....I enjoy talking to others....and love everyones opinions because if they dont help me directly they might help out anouther despite some peoples opinions that dont believe splits are anyone elses buiessness...sometimes a ear to listen or someone elses past situations help some recover quicker and easier....sooo keep them coming.

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RE: Just a question for those on here - 3/26/2006 1:41:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		big hug sissy
love ya girl

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RE: Just a question for those on here - 3/26/2006 6:47:27 PM   
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Ahhah!!!! If it walks like a rat and talks like a rat, ~~~~~~~ Hey where the hell is the BBQ sauce!!


Bear,  that jerk's one I'd LOVE to see twisting on the barbie...lemme know when ya find the sauce.

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RE: Just a question for those on here - 5/1/2006 3:37:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Belladonna82
Thanks to all who have helped me thru this ordeal its not a easy task to move on when so many unanswered questions are still unanswered.

Apparently the questions that have been answered changed your mind about everything that happened this time around and you not only feel you were completely wrong, but can't wait to get back into the situation. 

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