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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 5:14:41 PM   
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Was this supposed to impress us?


It's no more or less impressive than anything somebody feels like they need to tell everyone so that they may impress upon them how great they are.

I'm hardly ever impressed by someone flexing their so called mental might.




Hehe - methinks he ate beans for dinner.


Naaa it  just means he's full of hot air


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 5:17:22 PM   
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lol. 6 years. Shocker that, huh Ebony? When's the last time you got laid or do you have some lovely lucky under the desk as you type? I got a fierce session yesterday, still tired.. I know, it probably wasn't as fulfilling as telling everyone at collar me how much we all suck and how stupid we are, but I'll take the sacrifice.




Must you talk about such things? I can't remember the last time I had sex and it makes me want to cry.

Thank you in advance,

zeph


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 5:19:51 PM   
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Well.

As an outside observer who doesn't have a dog in this fight, let me make a few observations.

Psychonaut, its one of the deepest truths of human behavior that coming into a group and telling everyone that your ethics and intelligence are far superior to everyone elses, is a guaranteed method of destroying any credibility your arguments might have.

You are a writer- you know how there is that rule in writing that you should never describe a character's feelings, but show them through actions?

If you want us all to be impressed with your intelligence, the worst way to do it is by telling us you are intelligent; that automatically cancels itself out, because only a fool would do that. Making statements that ring true in people's minds, that strike them as thoughtful and reasonable, is a better way to show us your intelligence.

If you want to impress us with your ethics, the worst way to do it is by making a claim that yours are higher than everyone elses; That automatically cancels itself out, because narcissism and self-righteousness are the surest signs of those who are lacking in ethics. Show us instead that you are compassionate, self-reflective, willing to listen sincerely, instead of making airy claims of your moral superiority.

You then compound the foolishness with a citation of Kant.

Its the hallmark of the poseur to cite Kant, Nietzche, or Heidegger in wildly inappropriate forums. If this were a board for divinity students, or philosophy majors, that would be appropriate. But those three philosophers are the unfortunate victims of being massively quoted, misquoted, quoted out of context, and quoted incorrectly by those who have never read their works. Whether you have read them or not is not the point. Quoting them in a layman's forum is about on par with quoting Hallmark card and trying to pass it off as a Deep Thought. Whenever someone proudly cites Nietzche, most of us just think of Otto, in A Fish Called Wanda, the arrogant fool who thought reading was the same as understanding.

And so on that note, enjoy the comic genius of Kevin Kline and Jamie Leigh Curtis...

"Apes don't read philosophy."
Yes, they do Otto, they just don't understand it!"

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 5:20:19 PM   
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But you are loved and wanted and enjoyed and soon to probably be getting all the loving you can handle! So it is not by any fault of your own, unlike Mr. Pomposity.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 5:24:45 PM   
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My god. So eloquent, thoughtful, concise, correct, gentlemanly and still ouch that had to hurt.

Best post of 2010 so far.

May I steal that idealogy that the posting of the 3 mentioned in inappropriate venues only shows insecurity? I post in a politcal forum as well, www.perspectives.com and there are a lot of Psychonauts there that could use that bit of info that you state so much better than I was able to do it.

Well done AnimusRex.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 5:46:56 PM   
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Naaa it just means he's full of hot air

So clever..a fart reference lol


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 5:50:15 PM   
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Must you talk about such things? I can't remember the last time I had sex and it makes me want to cry.


With the childishness you put forth on these boards with all those cheap shots..it's no wonder your in the same boat as the other guy...


I wish you the best but I fear you'll be single again before long.


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 5:54:06 PM   
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red..why don't you and psychonaut..A little battle royal of the brains. Who knows..some of that sexual tension you both exude for one another could be relieved..

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 5:57:25 PM   
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Maybe the average person, I agree. The problem here is that you believe your standard is a universal standard of ethics, and it is not.


Actually it is.  There is only one standard for rational ethics, and it is a universal standard (it derives from Immanuel Kant's categorical imperative).  You are probably making the same error that most people who have not actually studied ethics make:  Assuming that because most people subscribe to what they term "personal ethics" that there is such a thing as "personal ethics."


Yeah I am familiar with Kant's work, and disagree with much of it. There are others that also disagree with it. To say there are no personal ethics, is to say that morality is a non-human construct. It is definately a human construct, which means the ideas must first come from a person.

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There is no such thing as personal ethics.  All ethics are universal, and anyone who claims they follow their own personal ethical code is actually telling you that they are an ammoral person who has created a rules system that allows them to do whatever they want to do and delude themselves into thinking they are ethical.


If all ethics are universal then they would be static and non evolving. They would also be applicable in all situations, which they are not, otherwise there would not be a division of ethics called applied ethics. Using the term amoral (notice just one m) also leads me to conclude you likely stay in the area of meta-ethics. Amoral is a lack of a moral belief structure, not the invention of a code that one follows to determine right and wrong.

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Not meant as a strawman, so maybe you should think about the perception you give with your words, as that means as much as substance. If you were better than the average person at communication, you would know this.


Please don't attribute your poor reading and arguing skills to a failure on my part.  I'm a professional writer, I know how to communicate.  I may be talking over your head, but it's not my job to be aware of your ignorance.  If you don't understand what I'm saying, then you should not argue with me.  You should ask questions.


Not talking over my head at all, but possibly talking out of your ass. You sound good, but I see little substance, and a lot of theater. This also concludes me to believe your area of reading has been meta-ethics. So you do not own what you have created, that is interesting, and tells me a lot at least. I don't see much productive discussion occuring with you, but will see how things proceed.

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Maybe you do know this, and just not wanting to own it. Maybe you do not accept the responsibility the impression your words may give, and if that is correct, then that can be considered unethical as well, using my standard of ethics.


Your standard of ethics?  ::sigh::


Yeah I doubt you would understand a person having a different code of ethics than another, but it happens every day, through out many cultures. These code develop and evolve as more situations arrive so that the application of the code can be measured and determined whether it is good or bad.

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Ahhh the intent argument. So what is the difference in intent between a female using a sexy tone on the phone, and being very friendly, or flirtatious in person? The genders do have a different set of social skills that they use (this is a general statement, not a blanket one).


How could I possibly answer that question?  I can't read the minds of hypothetical people.  I'm not even sure why you're asking, because I can't see how the answer would help you make your case at all.


Don't ask me how you can answer it, you are the one that said intent is what determined whether it was ethical or not. Since you stated it, I presumed you had some kind of test you applied to check whether something passed or failed your ethics test. You assume I am making a case, and instead I am asking questions to gain a measure of something.

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It seems more like a personal issue you have with Aynne than with anything else.


I don't know Annye from Eve, I can hardly be said to have a personal problem with her.


Sure we do, we all know each other from our postings. Whether it is face to face or not, communication that is replied to creates an entity that we perceive. So you do know her from the words she uses. If you are a professional writer then you would know that word usage, sentence structure, and style can tell us much about a person.

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If you consider it unethical, great, but your presentation has been that it should be universally unethical.


This statement belies such incredible lack of understanding of what ethics are that I actually feel sorry for you.  Seriously, you have no idea what ethics are.  Which is cool, that's the case with 99% of people.  All ethics are universal or they are not ethics, they are aesthetics.  Universality is one of the defining traits of ethics.


Do you actually believe that you are intellectually superior to everyone you have a disagreement with? I am trying to figure out whether this is a personality flaw of yours, or a debate tactic. Your all ethics is universal is a very poor argument, even by those that actually know what they are talking about have a difficult time debating it in a decent forum.

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Seriously, go take a few college level courses on ethics.  You'll see.


This comment here is rather humerous, but we will keep it as an inside joke for myself.

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I suppose utilizing human behavior techniques in sales is unethical as well?


Yes.  Duh.



By all means continue to show yourself to be a pompous ass. I doubt there is much productivity that will be found with you, I have heard it many times before, from students and those that read a few books and believe they know. I will continue to use casuistry to determine moral outcomes, and teach it.

Now continue on with your performance for the others. You will excuse me if I do not respond, since I usually remove from my perception those things that are a waste of time. I often recommend this to others as well.

Live well.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 5:58:01 PM   
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red..why don't you and psychonaut..A little battle royal of the brains. Who knows..some of that sexual tension you both exude for one another could be relieved..


Wow , I can see Red's response now.
 
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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 5:59:33 PM   
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Was this supposed to impress us?


It's no more or less impressive than anything somebody feels like they need to tell everyone so that they may impress upon them how great they are.

I'm hardly ever impressed by someone flexing their so called mental might.




Hehe - methinks he ate beans for dinner.


Your no better than that child that annoys all the adults, misbehaving and embarrassing your parents at the holiday party(They knew a baby sitter would have been best)..Grow up will ya..




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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 6:01:25 PM   
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red..why don't you and psychonaut..A little battle royal of the brains. Who knows..some of that sexual tension you both exude for one another could be relieved..


Wow , I can see Red's response now.
 
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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 6:03:58 PM   
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Okay folks, the jig is up. It's time for us all to admit that psychobabble, or whatever his name is, is right and far more intelligent on any subject and we're just a bunch of idiots....well except me, I'm a genius 

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 6:07:09 PM   
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But you don't perform sales in an ethical way.  You have already demonstrated that by describing your actions.  You simply don't know what ethical means.
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That sounds like the rant of a person who can't present an actual counter-argument and lacks the intellectual honesty to admit that she's beat.


You haven't made an argument; you've asserted a conclusion - Aynne is an unethical saleswoman. But you haven't identified what the ethical norm is that she's allegedly violated or in what way she did so. Which makes it difficult to impossible to mount a proper "counter-argument."

Give us a working definition of "ethical." It doesn't need to be perfect, just a starting point from which you can apply Aynne's actions to the rule established and explain why she is not in conformity with the asserted ethical norm.

Also, a more constructive consideration of how we view and use dictionary entries can be found here.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 6:07:18 PM   
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If either one of them can claim they were the ones that ghost wrote Stephen Hawkins " A brief history of time" I might be impressed..Until then you haven't really done shit now have ya?

Try a little humble pie..It taste like shit to your ego but it's a whole lot more filling to your soul.


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 6:12:17 PM   
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How presumptive of you Psychonaut to presume I don't understand AnimusRex's post simply because he owned you on such an astute intellectual level. Besides, you could have saved the blah blah blah and simply said something as simplistic as I agreed with him because of the old adage "The enemy of my enemy is my friend." However for someone with such a love of hearing themself blathering on endlessly like some kind of narcissictic egomaniac with self loathing issues, you couldn't sum it up so precisely. You had to bore us all again with too many words to convery to small of an idea. I doubt you understand Orion's post either, and the irony of you telling him to take some college courses is just so fucking rich I can't stand it.

You poor deluded thing...I really do pity you. How's that making you feel? I cannot imagine the joyless life you live, especially since it seems to be of your own making.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 6:21:55 PM   
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How presumptive of you Psychonaut to presume I don't understand AnimusRex's post simply because he owned you on such an astute intellectual level. Besides, you could have saved the blah blah blah and simply said something as simplistic as I agreed with him because of the old adage "The enemy of my enemy is my friend." However for someone with such a love of hearing themself blathering on endlessly like some kind of narcissictic egomaniac with self loathing issues, you couldn't sum it up so precisely. You had to bore us all again with too many words to convery to small of an idea. I doubt you understand Orion's post either, and the irony of you telling him to take some college courses is just so fucking rich I can't stand it.

You poor deluded thing...I really do pity you. How's that making you feel? I cannot imagine the joyless life you live, especially since it seems to be of your own making.


Don't jump on that bandwagon like so many do.

I had such high hopes for you lobster too.(Tail)


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 6:22:54 PM   
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red..why don't you and psychonaut..A little battle royal of the brains. Who knows..some of that sexual tension you both exude for one another could be relieved..


Honestly? I would rather get gang banged in a leper colony.  And I still would be getting more action than that poseur who thinks playing the AngryYoung Man card will impress any of us.

From what I can see, none of us are impressed in the least; but it is always amusing to see the newbies dig a hole for themselves and get bitch slapped by their betters.. Although in Psycho boy's case, the hole is more like a chasm that can never fill his empty hole.

But carry on; you seem to like the exchanges...I am officially using the HIDE button, so I don't have to read any of his drivel.

I think this is a new fetish; coming on to a new forum and alienating everyone.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 6:26:49 PM   
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I think this is a new fetish; coming on to a new forum and alienating everyone.

Far be it for us lowly newbies to ruffle the feathers of the great regulars.

Okay ignore it is.


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/3/2010 6:29:26 PM   
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I think this is a new fetish; coming on to a new forum and alienating everyone.

Far be it for us lowly newbies to ruffle the feathers of the great regulars.

Okay ignore it is.



I was not referring to you, unless of course, the shoe fits.

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