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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/29/2009 8:52:51 PM   
mnottertail


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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/29/2009 8:53:59 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

OMG, this is just too too funny!!  LadyPact, You are just way too cool.



Who wouldn't be?  Folks like you make Me smile every day.


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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/29/2009 8:55:48 PM   
sweetsub1957


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

except I came after the cupcaking, didn't I?



I used edit to go back and fix it.  lol  I just had to put it all in one place.  It was so damn entertaining!!  

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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/29/2009 8:56:55 PM   
sweetsub1957


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

OMG, this is just too too funny!!  LadyPact, You are just way too cool.



Who wouldn't be?  Folks like you make Me smile every day.


aaawww Thanks.  I luvs You. 

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In lowering yourself to talking behind my back, you're perfectly positioned to kiss my ass.

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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/29/2009 9:28:58 PM   
CaringandReal


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ORIGINAL: kallisto

I believe it was wisdom that mentioned that she wondered if there was a contest going on for the most posts in short period of time.   I'm in agreement with her.   I must have missed the notice about the contest. 



Good grief!

When people want to rank up their postcount uber fast they don't do so in the serious threads. They go post their happy little brains out in the fluffy "Off Topic," "Polls and other Random Stupidity," and "Religion and Politics" monster threads. It's far more time-efficient to do so, as spam posting is not only accepted in those places but in many of the polls and games threads all you have to do is type one or two words per post!

You may not like this poster, but when you drag out every damn silly reason in the book for not liking him, or simply (as some people are) bring up this crap only to indulge in cruel taunting, the illogicalities of some of the reasons...well let's just say they don't promote your point very well. In fact, they make you look none too bright...and a tad bit too desperate. :/

The grammar poke was lame too. Call me naive, but I never understand the grammar pokes. There are some incredible, mind-boggling examples of illiteracy posted to these forums day after day and people never poke at them (or even seem to notice them)...unless they decide they dislike the poster. Then all of a sudden the Grammar Nazis come flying out of the cracks in the walls and a typo of one letter (in this case, "sense" instead of "since") becomes Major Proof Of Total Retardation! Uh-uh. No Sale. Except for the lameness. (shrug)

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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/29/2009 9:36:37 PM   
QuirkyAnne


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

I just had to put all these together in one place.  It's just way too funny!! 
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
I think I can use this same reply as an answer to several of the OP's threads.
If you don't like the term, don't use it.

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
if you don't like the thread stay out of it

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Cupcake, you ain't never gonna be Dom enough to be giving Me commands.  You can take that one to the bank.

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail
who exchanged the power in that little vignette?

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
please if you want to get into a pissing contest don't do it here

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
ok, i'll leave this thread to the book burning mob, pissing against the tide is sometimes a futile gesture

My reply: Unless you like do-it-yourself watersports. 

OMG, this is just too too funny!!  LadyPact, You are just way too cool.




Damn.  I always have to go to work when the really funny stuff goes down!

Anne

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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/29/2009 9:47:22 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		well maybe you are just quirky that way and it isnt a true power exchange.

Ron

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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/29/2009 9:56:30 PM   
QuirkyAnne


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

well maybe you are just quirky that way and it isnt a true power exchange.

Ron


???  I don't understand what post you're referencing.

Anne

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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/29/2009 9:57:33 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Damn. I always have to go to work when the really funny stuff goes down!

Anne



that one, its a joke, but I see you got your work on.

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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/29/2009 10:04:48 PM   
Whiplashsmile4


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Status: offline 		Power Exchange Principle from a caveman's point of view...

1. Me boss, you listen
2. You boss, me listen
3. Me boss, You Boss, we debate.
4. You boss, Me Boss, we debate.
5. Me no boss, you no boss, we stand around clueless...

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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/29/2009 10:53:51 PM   
susie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

When they say "Bob's ur uncle"  they mean LadyE?


Wow........... THIS is a stunning development.


The Home Office


Disappointing at best Jefff. Do your research man, Bob is my brother - he lives in a 4 bedroomed house with his new wife and "earns" even more than I do, The bastard. Still, I have a Jaguar (and soon a Porsche) and nine pussies, so beat that.

E


No No No LadyE stick to Jaguar and get an XK convertible. Much better than the Porsche.

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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/30/2009 12:48:01 AM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		In my household, we subscribe to a "transfer of authority". I have it... he conceded it. No exchange.

However, the idea of a power exchange certainly has a place and works very well for very successful and happy relationships.

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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/30/2009 6:44:07 AM   
lally2


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if im not in TPE then enslavement doesnt happen - simple as that.

its the difference between my mojo being channelled and focused into making his mojo happy and focused (and vice versa), or not.

i need control and focus he needs to give control and focus. in order for that to happen i need to submit everything and he needs to Master everything. no half way hill no part time committment.

so for me:

total - everything
power - my submission is power(ful) and empowering and i freely give it up to him. his power as Master of me and himself controls everything
exchange - i exhange my enslavement for his Mastery of me.

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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/30/2009 6:52:44 AM   
DesFIP


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quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
and i have been on this sight a lot longer than this nic


So you admit having multiple screen names. Either you became universally laughed at under the last one (s) in which case you have learned nothing because you are quickly achieving the same status with this one, or your trolling became so offensive you were banned from the site. In which case it is apparent you have not learned much because several of your posts have been against TOS and reported to the site and you will eventually be banned under this one.

Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is a good working definition of insanity and one that you have admitted applies to you.

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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/30/2009 7:10:46 AM   
osf


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
and i have been on this sight a lot longer than this nic


So you admit having multiple screen names. Either you became universally laughed at under the last one (s) in which case you have learned nothing because you are quickly achieving the same status with this one, or your trolling became so offensive you were banned from the site. In which case it is apparent you have not learned much because several of your posts have been against TOS and reported to the site and you will eventually be banned under this one.

Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is a good working definition of insanity and one that you have admitted applies to you.


listen sweetheart, can't you read?

i've made no secret of it and as those are my words, so i guess i am saying i had another nic,, how dastardly and sneaky of me to say so



< Message edited by osf -- 12/30/2009 7:26:50 AM >

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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/30/2009 7:30:30 AM   
osf


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
and i have been on this sight a lot longer than this nic


So you admit having multiple screen names. Either you became universally laughed at under the last one (s) in which case you have learned nothing because you are quickly achieving the same status with this one, or your trolling became so offensive you were banned from the site. In which case it is apparent you have not learned much because several of your posts have been against TOS and reported to the site and you will eventually be banned under this one.

Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is a good working definition of insanity and one that you have admitted applies to you.


for the first time ever i have made a complaint against someone and you have that honor

i reported a couple of your vicious personal attacks

i'm letting you know so as not to be sneaky


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i'm not very skilled so i just hit harder

i want a woman to make into the woman she never wanted to become

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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/30/2009 8:24:54 AM   
mnottertail


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quote:

ORIGINAL: osf


quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
and i have been on this sight a lot longer than this nic


So you admit having multiple screen names. Either you became universally laughed at under the last one (s) in which case you have learned nothing because you are quickly achieving the same status with this one, or your trolling became so offensive you were banned from the site. In which case it is apparent you have not learned much because several of your posts have been against TOS and reported to the site and you will eventually be banned under this one.

Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is a good working definition of insanity and one that you have admitted applies to you.


for the first time ever i have made a complaint against someone and you have that honor

i reported a couple of your vicious personal attacks
i'm letting you know so as not to be sneaky



LOLOLOL DesFIP like the vicious little chimpanzee she is, has viciously attacked a unknown person and 5:43 this evening....charges are pending....

I can see the skin hangin off your face dwoode!!!!!!! You should get some betadine on that!!!!!!!!


LOL. Gawd I love this town!!!!

Ron

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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/30/2009 9:07:22 AM   
LadyPact


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quote:

ORIGINAL: osf


quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
and i have been on this sight a lot longer than this nic


So you admit having multiple screen names. Either you became universally laughed at under the last one (s) in which case you have learned nothing because you are quickly achieving the same status with this one, or your trolling became so offensive you were banned from the site. In which case it is apparent you have not learned much because several of your posts have been against TOS and reported to the site and you will eventually be banned under this one.

Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is a good working definition of insanity and one that you have admitted applies to you.


for the first time ever i have made a complaint against someone and you have that honor

i reported a couple of your vicious personal attacks

i'm letting you know so as not to be sneaky



Somebody please define 'vicious personal attacks' because if it was the above post and reply, I'm just not seeing it.


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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/30/2009 9:12:50 AM   
Drifa


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

I just had to put all these together in one place.  It's just way too funny!! 
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
I think I can use this same reply as an answer to several of the OP's threads.
If you don't like the term, don't use it.

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
if you don't like the thread stay out of it

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Cupcake, you ain't never gonna be Dom enough to be giving Me commands.  You can take that one to the bank.

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail
who exchanged the power in that little vignette?

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
please if you want to get into a pissing contest don't do it here

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
ok, i'll leave this thread to the book burning mob, pissing against the tide is sometimes a futile gesture

My reply: Unless you like do-it-yourself watersports. 

OMG, this is just too too funny!!  LadyPact, You are just way too cool.




Okay, this was worth being home sick to appreciate. I have osf on HIDE so I don't normally see his posts. This is too funny! LadyPact, you go girl!

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RE: the power exchange principle - 12/30/2009 9:23:49 AM   
Jeffff


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Somebody please define 'vicious personal attacks' because if it was the above post and reply, I'm just not seeing it.





"Vicious personal attacks"

1.An opinion that disagrees the the OP.  2. A  thought expressing disbelief at some of the OP's posts. 3.  Any word or group of words typed to the OP.


I hope this helps


Jeff

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