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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/18/2010 7:03:44 PM

jenny88

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think you should be patient honey something is gonna come up alon gthe line,ok?

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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/18/2010 7:29:43 PM

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For whatever it's worth, the same problems exist for sincere subs looking for dommes. And for that matter, the same problems exist in the vanilla dating world. We see profiles of people who seem like they would be potentially compatible, we write and then one of a number of things happen: They don't write back for reasons we can't understand and will never know; you start a furious back and forth email exchange that holds amazing promise and it just peters out before anything happens, again, often for reasons we’ll never know.

Attraction, chemistry, and compatibility are a mystery more often than not, and in this world where people have needs and desires that are outside of the mainstream, finding someone is all the more elusive. I never understand why people require so much just to go meet someone in a casual, safe setting just to see if they might like to see each other again. It would be so much easier and faster than the endless time spent emailing back and forth, chatting, etc. It almost seems like people want some sort of guarantee before a simple meeting for coffee. The irony is that you'd think people would make even more of that effort for something so much harder to find, which once found, is potentially worth so much more.

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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/18/2010 11:22:40 PM

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You want a "committed" relationship. That's a turnoff to most men but at least you are being honest.

You also say you have no experience, you don't post a picture, and you didn't write any information about yourself.

You are obviously fake, so don't complain when fakes check you out!

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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/21/2010 1:04:43 AM

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Good Luck with the SF "Kink" Community. I find that the majority of people there are more interested in being tied up and having sexual interactions rather than D/s. We all have our own troubles on here. Most people look at my age and see a young Kid lookin for a quick thrill, which is understandable. It is going to be hard to find a man who is willing to become a true and complete slave right on the spot. You are going to have to meet someone and take it step by step. Lol all I want to do is give domestic service for a nice lady and thats even hard! But good luck and dont give up!

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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/21/2010 4:34:56 AM

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Most women on this site are puritanical and very traditional except for their imagined desire to dominate. Actually I'm not sure domination is anything more than fantasy for most of them but they probably get wet thinking about it just like us guys get hard thinking about femdoms. If these women found a man that submitted to them they wouldn't know how to deal with him.

This website is all about fantasy and phony aliases.

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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/21/2010 7:37:32 AM

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Feel free to keep right on thinking that, ignoring the FACT that many of us are leading long term D/s or M/s dynamics.

The hungry wolf tried and tried, but the grapes on the wine were out of his reach. No matter how high he reached up, they still escaped his grasp. He leaped, and jumped, and did everything in his power to get those juicy looking grapes, until he was not only hungry, but exhausted as well. All his attempts futile. No matter how hard he tried, he just couldn't get those wonderful grapes.

"I'll bet those grapes are sour anyway," the wolf said. "I'll bet they aren't even fit to eat."

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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/21/2010 8:41:59 AM

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Wow, Az, you really are a shrivelled soul, aren't you? For me, I will go on eating my grapes...

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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/21/2010 3:35:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

Most women on this site are puritanical and very traditional except for their imagined desire to dominate. Actually I'm not sure domination is anything more than fantasy for most of them but they probably get wet thinking about it just like us guys get hard thinking about femdoms. If these women found a man that submitted to them they wouldn't know how to deal with him.

This website is all about fantasy and phony aliases.

The fact that people find you so repugnant that no one wants to become involved with you does not mean that people don't engage in the type of relationship you dream of and will never experience.

Every time you post, you remind those women that you seek why they should avoid you entirely. There's only one person to blame for the position you find yourself in, and you see them every morning when you shave.

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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/21/2010 6:43:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

This website is all about fantasy and phony aliases.

Then why are you here? Just looking to fulfill your fantasy and hide behind your phony alias?

Moreover, if that is how you feel about it, why have you been here for almost 3 years? i would never spend 3 years hanging in a place that i didn't like, communicating with people that i don't even like (or respect). Yet apparently that is EXACTLY what you have done. Your life must really suck.

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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/21/2010 7:43:36 PM

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Submission requires a substantial amount of trust.

That much trust costs time and effort.

Logically I can only conclude that your ability to find a REAL sub sandwich is proportionate to the amount of time and effort that comes from all parties.

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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/21/2010 7:50:45 PM

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Logically I can only conclude that your ability to find a REAL sub sandwich is proportionate to the amount of time and effort that comes from all parties.

I like my sub sandwiches slowly broiled so that they melt just nicely ;-)

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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/21/2010 8:08:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

This website is all about fantasy and phony aliases.

Then why are you here? Just looking to fulfill your fantasy and hide behind your phony alias?

Moreover, if that is how you feel about it, why have you been here for almost 3 years? i would never spend 3 years hanging in a place that i didn't like, communicating with people that i don't even like (or respect). Yet apparently that is EXACTLY what you have done. Your life must really suck.

Oh he likes it here... he loves to blame his wife for being here and then blames us for not wanting to do his sorry ass because he is married and lying and calling him on it. It's a strange fetish.

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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/21/2010 8:13:23 PM

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I believe you have been flirting with me good Lady Angelika.

Attempting to tempt me in my current state of relationship ennui?

damn now I am hungry.

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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/21/2010 8:17:36 PM

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I believe you have been flirting with me good Lady Angelika.

Attempting to tempt me in my current state of relationship ennui?

I thought you made good posts and I'm a natural flirt.

But no, no tempting. Too young, too far, too taken ;-)

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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/21/2010 8:27:44 PM

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Ah, thank you for that.

Natural Flirt, check.

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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/21/2010 9:06:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

This website is all about fantasy and phony aliases.

Then why are you here? Just looking to fulfill your fantasy and hide behind your phony alias?

Moreover, if that is how you feel about it, why have you been here for almost 3 years? i would never spend 3 years hanging in a place that i didn't like, communicating with people that i don't even like (or respect). Yet apparently that is EXACTLY what you have done. Your life must really suck.

Oh he likes it here... he loves to blame his wife for being here and then blames us for not wanting to do his sorry ass because he is married and lying and calling him on it. It's a strange fetish.

In all fairness, I don't blame the wife a bit. I can tell you very plainly that if My husband was of the same personality type and character that's been projected here on these boards, I probably wouldn't want to fuck him either.

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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/22/2010 1:33:38 AM

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i am male and submissive but i'm already owned =D

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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/22/2010 1:38:39 AM

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I am a novice and in Real time a dominant personality... but a sexual submissive.... not a doormat.... if that makes sense..... Don

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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/22/2010 3:12:34 AM

MistressTonya2u

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I have no doubt there are real male subs on here..hopefully one day, I will find him....

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RE: Any REAL sub men on here? - 1/22/2010 7:54:10 AM

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I am a novice and in Real time a dominant personality... but a sexual submissive.... not a doormat.... if that makes sense...

That makes perfect sense. It is the same category that i am in. Although my submission goes beyond the bedroom. i'd describe myself as an alpha male in the "real world" who prefers a female-led relationship.

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