quote:

ORIGINAL: notinferior

Quick, easy answer.....   but I'll take the long path, just because its a forum and I have unlimited space.  So often we hear people say that dominant women are in the minority, and it looks as though they are, given the numbers of "sub" men on a site like this compared to the "dom" women.  The reality, though, is not so simple.  I am convinced that about half to more than half of the men are actually married and just trolling to see what is "out there".  These guys will chat for a short time, then disappear when it gets real.  Answer:  get their phone number as quickly as possible.  Real guys will give you the number without a lot of fear.  Married guys, no way.  Next, a lot of "sub" men are actually "dom" men who want to see what the other side is like.  Same thing, they disappear fast.  Next, a lot of guys are dreamers.   We dream about female authority and have an inkling that it might be a great lifestyle, but the reality is that they could never live it.... family and friends would embarrass them too much.  Answer:  Start asking the guy about his family, the reality of the thing will hit him fast.

   In the end, submissive men, real sub men who have truly thought the thing out are actually pretty rare.  24/7 types are even more so.  Men who aren't afraid to acknowledge their submissive nature publicly are even rarer.  In the end, I believe that there are actually more dominant women than truly submissive men who have the guts to walk the walk.  Thus, on a site like this, there are a whole lot of men who disappear fast when you contact them.  Women though, not so much.