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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:26:14 PM   
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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:27:30 PM   
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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:32:23 PM   
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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:32:54 PM   
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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:34:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

Ok, I have some bearing now.  You are removing Dominance/submission from the BDSM compound acronym.  Gotcha.


i always think in terms of the relationship first, thats the part i enjoy most

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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:35:58 PM   
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< Message edited by osf -- 1/2/2010 5:36:20 PM >

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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:36:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: osf


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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

Ok, I have some bearing now.  You are removing Dominance/submission from the BDSM compound acronym.  Gotcha.


i always think in terms of the relationship first, thats the part i enjoy most


Dominance and submission aren't parts of a bdsm relationship????
Those two things are pretty much the foundation of my relationship.

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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:37:04 PM   
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Of course my way of using the 'inner child'  is esoteric and psychological in nature. The inner child trusts completely, that an adults can seldom reach. Hence why meditation is highly recommended to use in reaching the inner child.

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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:37:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

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ORIGINAL: osf


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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

Ok, I have some bearing now.  You are removing Dominance/submission from the BDSM compound acronym.  Gotcha.


i always think in terms of the relationship first, thats the part i enjoy most


Dominance and submission aren't parts of a bdsm relationship????
Those two things are pretty much the foundation of my relationship.


but first the relationship has to be cared for

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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:38:57 PM   
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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:43:55 PM   
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It instead responds to feelings of safety and being at peace with the world, or in BDSM, with one's Master..



forget bdsm it confuses the issue

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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:43:55 PM   
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You mean your id?


You know, I never actually made that connection!  Go you!  Gives me a whole new appreciation for otherwise dry verbiage.

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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:44:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: osf


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf


quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

Ok, I have some bearing now.  You are removing Dominance/submission from the BDSM compound acronym.  Gotcha.


i always think in terms of the relationship first, thats the part i enjoy most


Dominance and submission aren't parts of a bdsm relationship????
Those two things are pretty much the foundation of my relationship.


but first the relationship has to be cared for


I don't know why I respond to your threads...I can never quite seem to understand what you are saying.
I doubt I'm the only one. Part of your problem might just be your communication skills.

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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:45:43 PM   
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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:47:30 PM   
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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:48:38 PM   
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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:50:23 PM   
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lets see, first you have to have a solid relationship from which all else springs, such as what kink you engage in


Nope...mine started out as a purely kink relationship. Didn't even know his real name.

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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:50:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968


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lets see, first you have to have a solid relationship from which all else springs, such as what kink you engage in


Nope...mine started out as a purely kink relationship. Didn't even know his real name.


ok

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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:52:05 PM   
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I don't know why I respond to your threads...I can never quite seem to understand what you are saying.
I doubt I'm the only one. Part of your problem might just be your communication skills.


Its not just you. The fortune cookies are in fact rather inscrutable.

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RE: Operant conditioning - 1/2/2010 5:54:07 PM   
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