RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one

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osf -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 11:37:37 AM)
quote: I use to hear," Im sorry, now drop it". But no actual attempt at growth. Growth, amends and attempts at change shows the true character of a person. just what is this growth? i keep hearing it

sexyred1 -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 11:38:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Yes, Lushy, Rock was quite handsome, but alas...I also liked Paul Newman...yikes, what a man. Those eyes could drop you to your knees in a nanosecond.... but was he dominant? Yes. Ever see Hud?

mc1234 -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 11:39:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: mc1234 As my E puts it - when you're with someone and you never feel the need to put the tv on ... it's all good. I like that. Did you ever doubt that you'd find such a person? Thanks! And yes, I did doubt it, I suppose.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 11:42:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf quote: I use to hear," Im sorry, now drop it". But no actual attempt at growth. Growth, amends and attempts at change shows the true character of a person. just what is this growth? i keep hearing it Looking at self, figuring out your issues and where they stem from, dealing with them, attempting to become a better person as a result and making amends. This is what I consider growth. Though others might see it differently. Many consider the definition insanity to be.....Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.

osf -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 11:44:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 quote: ORIGINAL: osf quote: I use to hear," Im sorry, now drop it". But no actual attempt at growth. Growth, amends and attempts at change shows the true character of a person. just what is this growth? i keep hearing it Looking at self, figuring out your issues and where they stem from, dealing with them, attempting to become a better person as a result and making amends. This is what I consider growth. Though others might see it differently. Many consider the definition insanity to be.....Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. but this isn't only associated to d/s so what you saying is that you want a relationship in which there is some normalcy too

sexyred1 -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 11:54:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf but this isn't only associated to d/s so what you saying is that you want a relationship in which there is some normalcy too I continue to be curious as to why you think that D/s based relationships lack normalcy. Every relationship I ever had as an adult was D/s based and was normal for me. Perhaps you need to define normalcy.

osf -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 11:58:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: osf but this isn't only associated to d/s so what you saying is that you want a relationship in which there is some normalcy too I continue to be curious as to why you think that D/s based relationships lack normalcy. Every relationship I ever had as an adult was D/s based and was normal for me. Perhaps you need to define normalcy. i never said it did't have what appeared normalcy if you take out the undercurrent of the hierarchal nature of the relationship

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 11:58:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Icarys I don't have a "situation" per say as much as I have choices to make..All joking aside..Alaska is in the plans and living alone in that beauty would suffice as far as I'm concerened. I'd take a peaceful existence carved out in the wilds alone over that same set-up with a not so compatible person at my side...any day. What amazes me is how some people know they need to change all the while pointing out the faults in others..All the while making lite of their own shortcomings. How could someone have an outlook like that..One of my shit doesn't stink and still carry their head up high when they know the truth is exactly the opposite. Keep in mind that this comes from a submissive....It's not my "situation" but theirs that they need to worry about. I'm a little bemused here. Is your post a general unrelated rant, in response to my having been silly, or directed in some way toward me? Not being deliberately obtuse here. Just befuddled.

osf -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 12:00:01 PM)
quote: I'm a little bemused here. Is your post a general unrelated rant, in response to my having been silly, or directed in some way toward me? Not being deliberately obtuse here. Just befuddled. you're cute when you're silly

lusciouslips19 -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 12:01:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: osf but this isn't only associated to d/s so what you saying is that you want a relationship in which there is some normalcy too quote: I continue to be curious as to why you think that D/s based relationships lack normalcy. Every relationship I ever had as an adult was D/s based and was normal for me. Perhaps you need to define normalcy. Even in D's there is normalcy. Much of life, even in a 24/7 power exchange is mostly every day life. People still need to eat, make dinner, do laundry, deal with house problems, family issues and lots of normal things.

osf -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 12:06:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: osf but this isn't only associated to d/s so what you saying is that you want a relationship in which there is some normalcy too quote: I continue to be curious as to why you think that D/s based relationships lack normalcy. Every relationship I ever had as an adult was D/s based and was normal for me. Perhaps you need to define normalcy. Even in D's there is normalcy. Much of life, even in a 24/7 power exchange is mostly every day life. People still need to eat, make dinner, do laundry, deal with house problems, family issues and lots of normal things. because everything in it is colored by the authority dynamic, though you can have the benefits of normalcy, that is quite possible

sexyred1 -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 12:12:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: osf but this isn't only associated to d/s so what you saying is that you want a relationship in which there is some normalcy too quote: I continue to be curious as to why you think that D/s based relationships lack normalcy. Every relationship I ever had as an adult was D/s based and was normal for me. Perhaps you need to define normalcy. Even in D's there is normalcy. Much of life, even in a 24/7 power exchange is mostly every day life. People still need to eat, make dinner, do laundry, deal with house problems, family issues and lots of normal things. because everything in it is colored by the authority dynamic, though you can have the benefits of normalcy, that is quite possible osf, did you ever stop to think that for those in authority transfer relationships, that IS NORMAL TO THEM?

osf -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 12:15:49 PM)
quote: osf, did you ever stop to think that for those in authority transfer relationships, that IS NORMAL TO THEM? quite true, but my understanding is we were using it in a broader context

Icarys -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 12:20:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance quote: ORIGINAL: Icarys I don't have a "situation" per say as much as I have choices to make..All joking aside..Alaska is in the plans and living alone in that beauty would suffice as far as I'm concerened. I'd take a peaceful existence carved out in the wilds alone over that same set-up with a not so compatible person at my side...any day. What amazes me is how some people know they need to change all the while pointing out the faults in others..All the while making lite of their own shortcomings. How could someone have an outlook like that..One of my shit doesn't stink and still carry their head up high when they know the truth is exactly the opposite. Keep in mind that this comes from a submissive....It's not my "situation" but theirs that they need to worry about. I'm a little bemused here. Is your post a general unrelated rant, in response to my having been silly, or directed in some way toward me? Not being deliberately obtuse here. Just befuddled. It was directed at anyone who carries an attitude like that. For real. You say you were just joking.

osf -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 12:23:04 PM)
lit sucks when someone you hate makes you laugh

wisdomtogive -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 12:37:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Icarys quote: ORIGINAL: wisdomtogive Thank Level i just did a google on Gary Cooper as well. i still prefer those men who been a strong part in my life, and the one now who is:) I like your tag line. You've learned to use your intelligence for the positive. That's great.At least that's the way I took it..[:D] Thank you Icarys Yes, after figuring out i had to ask myself some very tough questions, did things start making sense to me. hard being responsible for one's own thinking, but prefer it that way:)

osf -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 12:39:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wisdomtogive quote: ORIGINAL: Icarys quote: ORIGINAL: wisdomtogive Thank Level i just did a google on Gary Cooper as well. i still prefer those men who been a strong part in my life, and the one now who is:) I like your tag line. You've learned to use your intelligence for the positive. That's great.At least that's the way I took it..[:D] Thank you Icarys Yes, after figuring out i had to ask myself some very tough questions, did things start making sense to me. hard being responsible for one's own thinking, but prefer it that way:) try being responsible for the thinking of two

wisdomtogive -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 12:47:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf quote: ORIGINAL: wisdomtogive quote: ORIGINAL: Icarys quote: ORIGINAL: wisdomtogive Thank Level i just did a google on Gary Cooper as well. i still prefer those men who been a strong part in my life, and the one now who is:) I like your tag line. You've learned to use your intelligence for the positive. That's great.At least that's the way I took it..[:D] Thank you Icarys Yes, after figuring out i had to ask myself some very tough questions, did things start making sense to me. hard being responsible for one's own thinking, but prefer it that way:) try being responsible for the thinking of two osf, i do understand how hard it would be for a Dom to think what is best the the "US", and as a parent, that i had to do as well. Sir is grateful that i can think on my own, and wouldnt want someone who can't. There will be things he will need to help me with, and i am humble enough to accept that with gratitude. His views i think just are different then yours, he doesnt look at me as being a burden [not putting words in your mouth just how i read your words], and having to think for me all the time. That was something we did discuss thoroughly and for Him he feels i would be the best to serve him, and i will serve him well.

osf -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 12:49:16 PM)
geee, and here i thought i was being humorous

wisdomtogive -> RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the want one (1/3/2010 12:52:47 PM)
awww, okay..see those string of words would be hard for me to take humoursly. i am glad you corrected my impression on them.

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