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osf -> why do some women feel that being hard to handle.......... (1/4/2010 7:54:36 AM)
why do some women feel that being a brat/feisty/hand full makes them more desirable sounds more like a TPS than TPE to me as for me if you tell me you're submissive, that's more or less how i want you to show up how many women want a bratty guy? don't they believe in equality? this doesn't mean i'm weak or lazy, it means i have better things to do

LaTigresse -> RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle.......... (1/4/2010 8:00:22 AM)
I think that SOME equate it to being superiour. When to me it just screams insecurity. "I am no doormat!" "I have a mind and know how to use it!" "I won't submit to just anyone!" way of thinking. To me, it's all just chatter that I ignore. I've no time for either a brat or a peacock strutting their 'superiour' feathers. A fantastic s-type will be noticed without their own self advertising. Then again, most that advertise, are not that great.

osf -> RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle.......... (1/4/2010 8:03:03 AM)
doormat = anyone more submissive than i am

Lashra -> RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle (1/4/2010 8:05:08 AM)
quote: bratty guy? There are MANY bratty guys out there, as a Woman and as the Owner of a male I know. Brats come in all genders and orientations, that is a fact. It depends on how much brattiness a Dominant finds desirable (If any at all). I like a little brattiness but not so much that I want to kick him to the curb. People are people and most of them are not going to change just because you have a certain view of how they should be. Sure some will pretend to change, some might even attempt to change IF they think you are worth it as a Dominant. If you don't want a brat, then keep on moving with your search. ~Lashra

Mercnbeth -> RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle.......... (1/4/2010 8:05:33 AM)
quote: why do some women feel that being a brat/feisty/hand full makes them more desirable because there are some men and women who do indeed find it desirable.

osf -> RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle.......... (1/4/2010 8:08:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth quote: why do some women feel that being a brat/feisty/hand full makes them more desirable because there are some men and women who do indeed find it desirable. that would depend on your definition of brattyness i guess my idea is any hesitation in doing what i want lololol

Mercnbeth -> RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle.......... (1/4/2010 8:14:00 AM)
well, there are those who WANT hesitation, struggle, challenge, etc. to occur before submitting. there have been quite a few on here who state they want to subjugate an otherwise dominant individual...not to be blindly obeyed by a submissive one. thankfully, we all aren't cut from the same cloth.[:)]

osf -> RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle.......... (1/4/2010 8:16:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth well, there are those who WANT hesitation, struggle, challenge, etc. to occur before submitting. there have been quite a few on here who state they want to subjugate an otherwise dominant individual...not to be blindly obeyed by a submissive one. thankfully, we all aren't cut from the same cloth.[:)] intellectually i know that, i just don't feel it

thedavezone -> RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle.......... (1/4/2010 8:18:18 AM)
Well, I kind of like it when a girl is just a LITTLE bratty or disobediant. Something small, simple, and easily rectified - like "forgetting" to put the salt on the table. I like to punish MOST for disobediance like that. It's best to have an unspoken understanding - so I get to punish and she gets to GET punished - it's another form of communication. Other than the above, NO, it's otherwise very annoying.

cpK69 -> RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle.......... (1/4/2010 8:19:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf why do some women feel that being a brat/feisty/hand full makes them more desirable I can only guess, but it does seem that those are desirable qualities, in the eyes of some; especially when the ‘skill’ is being used toward someone/thing that the beholder finds offensive. quote: how many women want a bratty guy? don't they believe in equality? I strive for balance, and believe that ‘equality’ should be left to describing comparisons of things, such as mass and weight. (hope I worded that rightly) Kim

Marc2b -> RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle.......... (1/4/2010 8:20:38 AM)
In some cases the bratty slave is looking to be "conquered." They want to push the boundaries to see if Master/Mistress will be a "true" dominant and force their slave to be obediant.

Elizabeth666 -> RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle.......... (1/4/2010 8:23:41 AM)
I don't think I'm Bratty per say, I can be a snot sometimes. But, I've talked with Sir about it and He likes it. It's a challenge and He would bore quickly with someone who bent to His every single whim, desire and want.

osf -> RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle.......... (1/4/2010 8:36:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thedavezone Well, I kind of like it when a girl is just a LITTLE bratty or disobediant. Something small, simple, and easily rectified - like "forgetting" to put the salt on the table. I like to punish MOST for disobediance like that. It's best to have an unspoken understanding - so I get to punish and she gets to GET punished - it's another form of communication. Other than the above, NO, it's otherwise very annoying. quote: Well, I kind of like it when a girl is just a LITTLE bratty or disobediant. Something small, simple, and easily rectified - like "forgetting" to put the salt on the table. I like to punish MOST for disobediance like that. It's best to have an unspoken understanding - so I get to punish and she gets to GET punished - it's another form of communication. forgetting something isn't disobedience to me, more like a lapse of attention if i want to hit the bitch i don't need any other reason than i want to

yellowroses -> RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle.......... (1/4/2010 8:38:11 AM)
I agree with many of the replies. The bratty behavior is a dynamic that many Dominants and submissives enjoy. Personally it is not apart of our relationship or something we enjoy. I enjoy doing what He wants and pleasing Him. Occasionally I will forget something but we don't have any punishment system in place for any mistakes that are made. I find that that I am harder on myself for the error then He ever would be. kim

osf -> RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle.......... (1/4/2010 8:38:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Marc2b In some cases the bratty slave is looking to be "conquered." They want to push the boundaries to see if Master/Mistress will be a "true" dominant and force their slave to be obediant. quote: In some cases the bratty slave is looking to be "conquered." They want to push the boundaries to see if Master/Mistress will be a "true" dominant and force their slave to be obediant. i'm not so much into forcing obedience as helping and encourageing you can't force someone to want to be obedient

osf -> RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle.......... (1/4/2010 8:40:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Elizabeth666 I don't think I'm Bratty per say, I can be a snot sometimes. But, I've talked with Sir about it and He likes it. It's a challenge and He would bore quickly with someone who bent to His every single whim, desire and want. quote: I don't think I'm Bratty per say, I can be a snot sometimes. But, I've talked with Sir about it and He likes it. It's a challenge and He would bore quickly with someone who bent to His every single whim, desire and want. i'm not complaining about others concepts just trying to get others reasons

Marc2b -> RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle.......... (1/4/2010 8:42:02 AM)
quote: I don't think I'm Bratty per say, I can be a snot sometimes. But, I've talked with Sir about it and He likes it. It's a challenge and He would bore quickly with someone who bent to His every single whim, desire and want. [emphasis mine] Tis true, tis true. There is great fun to be had in reminding the slave of her place. I love that moment, usually after about a dozen lashes, when she promises eternal obedience. "Eternal" usually means a week to ten days.

Elizabeth666 -> RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle.......... (1/4/2010 8:42:50 AM)
quote: 'm not complaining about others concepts just trying to get others reasons I didn't think you were :)

osf -> RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle.......... (1/4/2010 8:43:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: yellowroses I agree with many of the replies. The bratty behavior is a dynamic that many Dominants and submissives enjoy. Personally it is not apart of our relationship or something we enjoy. I enjoy doing what He wants and pleasing Him. Occasionally I will forget something but we don't have any punishment system in place for any mistakes that are made. I find that that I am harder on myself for the error then He ever would be. kim to me there's a great difference between punishment and correction i personally find having to punish a distasteful thing to have to do, but i do if necessary

Elizabeth666 -> RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle.......... (1/4/2010 8:44:08 AM)
quote: Tis true, tis true. There is great fun to be had in reminding the slave of her place. I love that moment, usually after about a dozen lashes, when she promises eternal obedience. "Eternal" usually means a week to ten days. LOL That sounds like me

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