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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 5:47:59 PM

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reread post 9 please

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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 5:49:26 PM

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Post 9 is where you post the PMs. Nowhere do they say "Guilty is the word Aqua would use in this situation".

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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 5:53:04 PM

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aqu in all honesty and i mean this sincerely if i had a woman that behaved as badly as you, i would rid myself of her

i'm not that desperate that i'd keep her around

my damn goose has better manners and she hates everybody

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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 5:54:56 PM

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I do believe that's an insult.

Please show me where I've stated that you are a bad dominant, dangerous, unfit or any such notion.

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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 6:00:12 PM

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aqu, i dont have to it is known

ii was at a party once where this young so called sub was there with her tame dom going around to most every single male there and saying see this body , it's nice and you can't touch it

it seemed she got her kicks with such absurd behavior , you remind me of her

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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 6:02:32 PM

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aqu, i dont have to it is known

ii was at a party once where this young so called sub was there with her tame dom going around to most every single male there and saying see this body , it's nice and you can't touch it

it seemed she got her kicks with such absurd behavior , you remind me of her

I'm very interested in how opinions I don't have are known. Please continue your insults though. Eventually the moderators will be interested in them.

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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 6:02:36 PM

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oh and you were mentioned by name in one of the cmails i got about the behavior in the threads

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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 6:03:33 PM

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Was I mentioned, too? I'd hate to be left out.

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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 6:03:54 PM

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show me an insult

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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 6:04:29 PM

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I'm sure I was. You've been mentioned in several I've received too. I still don't regard them as some sort leverage in this discussion.

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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 6:06:13 PM

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Your need to discuss a submissive idea of structure in a relationship is not even here..You tell people to go find it in another post. No problem, which one though, since you tend to start many each day. Then to further your cause, in post 9 you copy and paste a cmail from someone who pats you on the head, and she cant stand Dom/mees..again showing your dislike for any female with a brain. You say this is a joke? That i should know you are joking around? How absurb that i dont know ? Well i never heard you speak, i don't know where you are, except a farm..and imho you got to much time on your hand if you live on a farm...I don't see any jokes. I dont see you being clever...and i see you love the support from women against female Doms and s-type women who think. Now how can i see this any differently?

One other thing, why did you start this topic when you already have it going in other areas? ..

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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 6:08:09 PM

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it was here but removed because it was cross posted
so if you want it see my journal

its a horse boarding farm and people take care of their own horses and its too damn cold out, it's a nice life

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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 6:08:30 PM

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Dude, not to inuslt you, seriously. Are you sure you are dominant? Your passive/agressive posting style doesn't exactly scream Dominance.

This play ground stuff about, " I know people who don't LIKE you" seems.... silly.

As for people who are, "afraid: of posting here. they are like folks who don't vote. I can't "hear" them.

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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 6:08:53 PM

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As a general rule, when someone goes on and on about "tame doms" and "absurd behavior" it's not intended as sweetness and light.

You don't know me. You don't know Valyraen. I have yet to call you names or say anything beyond that your communication is ineffective based on the fact that so many people can not understand your intentions, that you have insulted others and that you seem to be seeking negative attention and making every thread about you.

And I will not insult you, I will not call you names. I will be honest with you and honest isn't always flattering. I will not hide insults by saying if I would or would not be interested in you or comparing you to people I know who behave "badly".

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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 6:11:29 PM

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quote:

As a general rule, when someone goes on and on about "tame doms" and "absurd behavior" it's not intended as sweetness and light.

You don't know me. You don't know Valyraen. I have yet to call you names or say anything beyond that your communication is ineffective based on the fact that so many people can not understand your intentions, that you have insulted others and that you seem to be seeking negative attention and making every thread about you.

And I will not insult you, I will not call you names. I will be honest with you and honest isn't always flattering. I will not hide insults by saying if I would or would not be interested in you or comparing you to people I know who behave "badly".

i'll hand it to you, you are good. lolololololol

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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 6:13:52 PM

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Please continue your insults though. Eventually the moderators will be interested in them.

Or they might ask you to place him on Hide and Block.

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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 6:14:38 PM

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By the way... humor me...

"lol" is "laughing out loud".

What on earth are you attempting to communicate with "lololololol"?

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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 6:15:46 PM

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Please continue your insults though. Eventually the moderators will be interested in them.

Or they might ask you to place him on Hide and Block.

Might. I'm not seeking him out. We'll see.

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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 6:17:17 PM

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it only takes a few to ruin it for th many

no wonder all you see is lame threads devoid of any real content or discussion

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RE: what is your idea of structure in a relationship - 1/12/2010 6:18:10 PM

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Heh. He could always block you. Also, the moon could fall from the heavens and land in my lap.

Nice background.

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