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RE: Having preferences = not obeying? - 2/10/2010 4:30:46 AM

agirl

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It's not in conflict with obeying.

It's just a waste of time when I KNOW that the fact he asked means that HE wants ME to go. He doesn't want some argy-bargy over everything. That'd be annoying. If broke my leg on the way to the door, he might reconsider........lol

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I don't see it as argy-bargy in the slightest. If there isn't a preference to stay, as there often isn't since my preference is often to obey, I don't say anything. But if there is, I don't see a problem with stating it respectfully and then obeying anyway. For us, it's only a problem if I continue after stating it.

Our relationships just differ, that's all.

Also , it really does depend on the *what*. If he asked me to plant a 12' Yukka in the middle of the garden, demolish the kitchen or buy a motorcycle and learn to ride it ..........I'd say exactly what I thought, he'd expect me to have some opinion on it and want to hear it.

When it comes to everyday stuff, he doesn't want to hear it really. He says *coffee* he expects me to say * ok*. We already KNOW there's no reason that I can't apart from the fact that I probably don't *wanna*. There are times when doesn't care what my preferences are and I know when those times are. It'd be annoying to hear me say * I'd really rather not* year in and year out.

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RE: Having preferences = not obeying? - 2/10/2010 7:49:27 AM

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There are a few things that he is "allowed" that are tacky... such as his ren and stimpy cell that is framed and the south park finger bang boy band still in the box (guilty secret... I picked out the south park figures... hee hee).

But does he have "Dogs at the Pool Table?" Cos I'm dead serious about that one. There was no place inside the house I could recommend for the billiard dogs. Seriously.

That one can go up to the mountain house that is currently in escrow..

Edited to add.. it doesn't even have electricity... so how can even that ruin its rustic charm

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