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Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 8:29:44 AM

Mercnbeth

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Is there such a thing?

Appreciating that many can't, or feel insecure, about posting a picture of their face; many people pick a body part to display. Men, for some reason, post a cock picture, often, if its theirs, disclosing their shortcomings. However I've notices a trend from the female side; tit shots. Tits held in hands, tits encased in corsets, tits naked, painted, clipped, tied, pulled and pinched.

I know, I know; whose complaining!! Right?

Not me - but wondering if there is, in lieu of a portrait that shows the face behind the profile, if there is a gender bias concerning icons and profile pictures of parts? I've seen men asked and mocked all the time if their 'cock shot' is the image of the and what they want to convey?

I pose the same question to the woman?

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 8:45:01 AM

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Although not a female I'll say:

I'm not a fan of vulgar thumbs personally but each to their own.

I've always found the whole nakedness thing more sensual/erotic etc. if I personally know something about the person involved. In terms of naked strangers I've seen their body type before elsewhere a million times.

There is surprisingly very little variety of body type but when you add the 'who the person is' element then it adds a whole new dimension.

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 8:55:06 AM

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I think equating tits in a corset with a cock is rather something....but you know... we all have opinions

I used to have a face pic on profile (as you well know), I took it off as my main because I do not want my son or someone else I know happening upon it... since my geography is also on profile... I chose the photo I did because I thought it wasn't crude...

I show a lot less of my body in my photos than a lot of other people show of theirs, including some people posting on this thread....

Not to mention the exact analogy on the female side would be a crotch shot... not a covered corset shot... something I have never posted....

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 10:09:01 AM

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But I have noticed, as I sign on and off, there are almost as many vaginas as cocks on display these days.

I’ve always found the distain of women for cock shots as hypocritical. But then again I’m not receiving hundreds of emails full of them either as they may be.

But when it comes to profiles I believe they are hypocritical to complain when there are far more women’s body parts displayed on this site then men’s.

I can understand displaying vaginas and breasts is not there thing or liking cock shots but considering the majority of profiles do display at least one of these… they should just stop complaining in threads.

Otherwise the bottom line… I believe women are just as kinky…exhibitionistic… on average as men. They just hate to admit it.

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 10:09:20 AM

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Love the pic, Julia ;)

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 10:27:00 AM

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Women are just as likely to have gross images as men, though I don't think tits is akin to cocks it would be cunts to cocks and I dont see as many of those from women. Though I do find a lot of the boob pics a little tacky not all but many, thats just my opinion though.

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 10:29:29 AM

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Love the pic, Julia ;)

Thanks...

and kdsub is right, I am a big exhibitionist.... but I would not post photos of my vagina and spam people with them in their inbox.. and yes I do think there is a difference

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 10:33:24 AM

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I agree. The corset shots I usually enjoy. Having someones vagina pop in front of me, in all its (questionable) glory.... *ick*

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 10:40:50 AM

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There is another angle to this. Maybe this will help.

The truth of the matter is that I just happen to like the corsets. It has very little to do with My tits and everything to do with the leather. The same thing goes for My softer side when I like silk. Just like the purse or the boots, or anything else.

Actually, I'd tend to think the female version of the cock shot would be the beaver shot. Neither of which I particularly want to see online. LOL.

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 10:48:35 AM

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quote:

I think equating tits in a corset with a cock is rather something....but you know... we all have opinions

The hypocritical standard of decency in most of the US equates them. On the majority of beaches, on TV, and with very few circumstantial exceptions in all other US venues; a woman exposing her tits is subject to the same 'indecency' violation as a man who exposes his cock. Hypocritical because a topless man standing next to her suffers no similar legal scrutiny.

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the exact analogy on the female side would be a crotch shot.

Biologically yes - but as a result of entire industries being focused and supported on the exposure of a women's breasts, as well as the civil laws noted, they serve the same function. Of course, whether they titillate to entice contact or repulse is always in the eyes of the beholder.

The reasoning behind the decision of what to display and how it is displayed of course is the entitlement of the poster. My curiosity is if the thought process between the genders is similarly based. Is the same message attempting to be conveyed? Are both putting out the assets they are most proud to display or is the reasoning also gender based?

BTW - I'll add my compliments to Greedy's regarding your new icon.

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 10:53:51 AM

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quote:

a woman exposing her tits is subject to the same 'indecency' violation as a man who exposes his cock. Hypocritical because a topless man standing next to her suffers no similar legal scrutiny.

When you can get arrested for going without a shirt then you tell me who is hypocritical...

For crying out loud, I have you ever nursed a baby in public and gotten glares? mammaries are not exactly sex organs.. their purpose is to suckle the young....

edited to add thanks for the compliments

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 11:03:33 AM

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I don't want to put words in Mercnbeth's mouth but is the question why you display your corset shot...what is your motivation and is the motivation different than a mans displaying his body parts.

Butch

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 11:07:38 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kdsub

I don't want to put words in Mercnbeth's mouth but is the question why you display your corset shot...what is your motivation and is the motivation different than a mans displaying his body parts.

Butch

Why does she need a motivation? People post whatever photos they want for various reasons. I think the better question overall is the taste level of photos and sharing them with people who do not wish to see them.

I don't think Julia fits into that category, her photo is tasteful, at least to me. A cock shot, is not, again, just to my taste.

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 11:07:44 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
Biologically yes - but as a result of entire industries being focused and supported on the exposure of a women's breasts, as well as the civil laws noted, they serve the same function. Of course, whether they titillate to entice contact or repulse is always in the eyes of the beholder.

The reasoning behind the decision of what to display and how it is displayed of course is the entitlement of the poster. My curiosity is if the thought process between the genders is similarly based. Is the same message attempting to be conveyed? Are both putting out the assets they are most proud to display or is the reasoning also gender based?

It is still different, mens cocks are not the same as breasts, breasts are far more acceptable, and as you said many an industry is based on them. I think when a woman puts up a boob picture that is the intent, to as you aptly put it, titillate and it is mens hope too although men miss the mark with a cock shot, in fact a chest shot would be more akin to breasts as if you look at male models in campaigns the focus is on their gleaming six pack not their small willy. Men's choice is less subtle possibly because mens attitude to sex is often less subtle, the assumption being that this is a 'sex site' so it is a good idea, epic fail really.

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 11:08:59 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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a woman exposing her tits is subject to the same 'indecency' violation as a man who exposes his cock. Hypocritical because a topless man standing next to her suffers no similar legal scrutiny.

When you can get arrested for going without a shirt then you tell me who is hypocritical...

For crying out loud, I have you ever nursed a baby in public and gotten glares? mammaries are not exactly sex organs.. their purpose is to suckle the young....

I had to read my post again to be sure; but you do know that I agree with you - right?

It's hypocritical that you, or any woman, get stares whether for nursing in public or going topless on the beach. It doesn't happen in Europe. While on Capri, while dining at one of the beach side restaurants, topless was the norm for both men & woman swimming in the clear water.

beth thinks that in the US there is too much money to be made from keeping woman's breasts covered. What would be the draw of 'strip clubs' if topless was the norm for beaches and other places where men are permitted that 'privilege'? she notes that unlike in most US cities, in Europe there are not many 'Badda Bing' strip clubs. There are some erotic venues and shows, but interestingly their audiences are usually mixed, unlike their US counterparts.

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 11:09:25 AM

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I don't want to put words in Mercnbeth's mouth but is the question why you display your corset shot...what is your motivation and is the motivation different than a mans displaying his body parts.

Butch

Here's the difference:

If I'm going to a public event, chances are, I'm going to be in one of the six leather corsets that I own. Most of My pictures here have been taken either at clubs or events. Quite often, I will even change into a corset at a private gathering if I intend to play. (Not always, but most of the time.)

In My particular case, this has done a lot of promotion for the gal who I buy all of My corsets from. I have sent her a number of referrals over the years, both from here and from real life events.

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 11:13:03 AM

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I don't mind seeing some decolattage, but I don't like seeing nipples.
I don't mind seeing a man wearing long shorts and no shirt but I don't like seeing cock shots or even male bikinis. *lol*

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 11:13:57 AM

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in fact a chest shot would be more akin to breasts as if you look at male models in campaigns the focus is on their gleaming six pack not their small willy.

So Lilly, would you consider that since men don't have the implied 'mystery' and 'taboo' perception applied to their chests - they are left with no similar choice to 'titillate' other than their "small willy"?

The equivalent both genders have in common is the ass, but self portraits are difficult at best. Besides, the last time beth took and posted one of mine, the only comment it generated was a request to braid the hairs on both cheeks together!

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 11:16:54 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kdsub

I don't want to put words in Mercnbeth's mouth but is the question why you display your corset shot...what is your motivation and is the motivation different than a mans displaying his body parts.

Butch

I do not know why men display their crotches... I would guess it is for a variety of reasons...

Why am I displaying my chest corseted chest? For a few reasons, but mostly because at 41 I am beginning to feel completely comfortable in my skin, so it is all about me more than it is about those seeing me... I really am starting to love my body, which is ironic because it is starting to age at the same time I have grown to love it

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RE: Female Version of a 'cock shot' - 2/9/2010 11:17:01 AM

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
So Lilly, would you consider that since men don't have the implied 'mystery' and 'taboo' perception applied to their chests - they are left with no similar choice to 'titillate' other than their "small willy"?

The equivalent both genders have in common is the ass, but self portraits are difficult at best. Besides, the last time beth took and posted one of mine, the only comment it generated was a request to braid the hairs on both cheeks together!

No because even without the mystery the chest is still an object of sexual attraction, if you talk to women often they fascination is with bums and chests rather than willys. Mystery isn't the only thing that makes something sexy.

Thing is chests dont fare as well on over weight men as boobs do on overweight women so probably easier to use the willy than the chest for a lot of men, but still it doesn't work.

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