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Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/9/2010 10:35:02 AM   
onmynees2u


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Status: offline 		Question; How is it possible for a Dom who was mentoring a female sab,decide to put her "under cansideration', then e-mail the sub,a request to accept His collar, to become His owned property, when they have never even met yet ?..is this the norm ?. Yhe Dom, now Master has been in thr lifestle since youth. thisngirl is new,i find this situation very unusal ...is it?
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RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/9/2010 11:05:58 AM   
Fitznicely


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Suggest you all meet up for coffee. That'll sort it out.


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RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/9/2010 11:11:57 AM   
LadyPact


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RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/9/2010 11:12:38 AM   
LillyoftheVally


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ORIGINAL: onmynees2u

Question; How is it possible for a Dom who was mentoring a female sab,decide to put her "under cansideration', then e-mail the sub,a request to accept His collar, to become His owned property, when they have never even met yet ?..is this the norm ?. Yhe Dom, now Master has been in thr lifestle since youth. thisngirl is new,i find this situation very unusal ...is it?


Its not unusual its fairly common.

If it aint you doing it then why do you care what makes someone else happy?

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RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/9/2010 1:00:18 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/9/2010 3:54:45 PM   
osf


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RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/9/2010 4:51:37 PM   
LafayetteLady


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ORIGINAL: onmynees2u

Question; How is it possible for a Dom who was mentoring a female sab,decide to put her "under cansideration', then e-mail the sub,a request to accept His collar, to become His owned property, when they have never even met yet ?..is this the norm ?. Yhe Dom, now Master has been in thr lifestle since youth. thisngirl is new,i find this situation very unusal ...is it?



Well let's see, you question is how is it possible, right? Well it is possible because you let it happen. There never really was any "mentoring." More like the dom feeling you out to find out what makes you tick by making you drop your guard because he was just a "mentor," but always was the ulterior motive of snagging you for himself.

You find it unusual, yet, you accepted the "request." So I guess you go for the unusual. Now you are "owned" by someone you could trip over in the street and not even know it. If it works for ya....

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RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/9/2010 5:21:30 PM   
DarkSteven


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RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/9/2010 5:23:02 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		AFTER the banging DS..... after the banging..... what.. are you new?


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RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/9/2010 5:26:25 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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AFTER the banging DS..... after the banging..... what.. are you new?


Jeff


...edited cus I realized the reference would be lost here.

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RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/9/2010 5:32:20 PM   
InvisibleBlack


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ORIGINAL: onmynees2u

Question; How is it possible for a Dom who was mentoring a female sab,decide to put her "under cansideration', then e-mail the sub,a request to accept His collar, to become His owned property, when they have never even met yet ?..is this the norm ?. Yhe Dom, now Master has been in thr lifestle since youth. thisngirl is new,i find this situation very unusal ...is it?


It is, of course, your life to live as you see fit but I, personally, would wait until I had met someone in person at least once before seriously considering making such a commitment.

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RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/9/2010 5:34:37 PM   
LafayetteLady


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quote:

ORIGINAL: InvisibleBlack

quote:

ORIGINAL: onmynees2u

Question; How is it possible for a Dom who was mentoring a female sab,decide to put her "under cansideration', then e-mail the sub,a request to accept His collar, to become His owned property, when they have never even met yet ?..is this the norm ?. Yhe Dom, now Master has been in thr lifestle since youth. thisngirl is new,i find this situation very unusal ...is it?


It is, of course, your life to live as you see fit but I, personally, would wait until I had met someone in person at least once before seriously considering making such a commitment.



And apparently causing him grave disappointment if you read her journal. I don't know how someone could do something so horrible to someone they hadn't even met. Wait!.....I wonder if the trouble is because of this post? Wouldn't want others to tell her that it was indeed a bit "unusual."

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RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/9/2010 6:34:52 PM   
MasterSlaveLA


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ORIGINAL: onmynees2u
How is it possible for a Dom who was mentoring a female sub, decide to put her "under cansideration"...


It's "possible" because the newbie sub got SUCKERED into the "Mentor" bullshit... which is mostly used as a SCAM because they approach said newbie sub as only a "Mentor" (to gain their trust), only to later attempt to transition that trust to becoming their Owner.  In short, it's little more than a bait-and-switch... and ANY sub who becomes involved with a person such as this, should IMMEDIATELY kick said "Mentor" to the curb once anything beyond a "Mentor" dynamic is even alluded to; because in doing so, they've shown themselves a LIAR from the outset.

This is similar to a 'nilla guy approaching a 'nilla girl as just a "friend"... earning her trust... then when the time is right (e.g., some dude has broken her heart, she's feeling lonely, or whatever), he makes his cowardly move.


quote:


...is this the norm?


For many newbies... yes, this is a frequent ploy; but most are smart enough to eventually learn they've been duped and dump the dipshit Dom/me.


quote:


The Dom, now Master, has been in the lifestle since youth.


Anyone can make this claim... doesn't make it so; and is often the claim of many fakes.  I mean... it's not like they're going to tell a newbie sub that they've never owned anything beyond a hamster and the only thing they've "mastered" is how to use toilet paper, yanno?  If said alleged "Master" was soooooooooooooo experienced, they'd have approached the sub AS A MASTER; not a Mentor... no need for the bait-and-switch.

quote:


this girl is new


Of course she is... any sub/slave that's been around the block would have seen this SCAM coming... and even if they didn't, they'd have dumped the idiot once he made a move to transition their relationship from a Mentor/mentee to Owner/sub or Master/slave.

This person has been duped.




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RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/9/2010 7:01:19 PM   
kushiels


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Status: offline 		From what I've seen, this isn't that unusual here.  Take that for what you will--if it doesn't work for you, why do it at all? And if it does work for you, who cares?

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RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/9/2010 8:17:06 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		People used to become engaged and agree to marry without having ever met. So why the surprise that this can happen online?

If it works for you, then why ask if it's common?
Ditto if it doesn't work for you.

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RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/10/2010 8:06:08 PM   
AnimusRex


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I mean, if a guy can get a girl to become his by a short email, then fuck, I have to seriously rethink my approach.

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RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/10/2010 9:13:25 PM   
afkarr


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RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/10/2010 9:17:31 PM   
AnimusRex


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Online collars- cheap! one size fits all! Gets yours here today!

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Take it bitch, take it ALL!!

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RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/10/2010 9:38:38 PM   
afkarr


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ORIGINAL: AnimusRex


quote:

ORIGINAL: afkarr

Online collars- cheap! one size fits all! Gets yours here today!

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****Flings my dick furiously on the keyboard****

Take it bitch, take it ALL!!



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RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? - 2/10/2010 10:34:50 PM   
aldompdx


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