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RE: Talking Women - 2/13/2010 10:35:01 AM   
Loki45


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Loki45 I wish someone would put a cock in your mouth and leave it there.


Then I guess, the feeling is mutual. But of course you have a better chance of that happening to you than I do.

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I cant believe you are straight.


Luckily, my sexual preference doesn't require your belief.

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You are a bore, and your crap opinion of babes is a nuisance so is your toxic pov littering and smelling like a dirty diaper.


Again, the feeling is mutual. As is my feelings toward every woman who carelessly comes to this board tossing around male stereotypes, generalizations and hate. If they can do that against men, I can do it against women, plain and simple.

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What do you like about women?


I like ladies. Unfortunately, there are so few of them left in the world. They're almost as endangered as panda bears.


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RE: Talking Women - 2/13/2010 10:41:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		I can talk and talk. I have my chatty moments. I also have my moments of silence. Depending on how tired or alert I am, I might be more or less coherent/ to the point.

The funniest thing was meeting this guy once who claimed early on that he had great communication skills. What I realised is that he loved to talk and when I talked, could hear and acknowledge that I was saying, but he had no clue how to listen.

I also know men who talk a lot and some who don't. Some of them like to listen, and some don't. The same applies to women. I think this is not so much a gender thing as a personality thing.

Sure there might be stereotypes based on certain patterns, but stereotypes are dangerous as they give use preconceived notions and cloud our judgement.

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RE: Talking Women - 2/13/2010 10:55:27 AM   
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I like ladies. Unfortunately, there are so few of them left in the world. They're almost as endangered as panda bears.



And gentlemen, even moreso...

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RE: Talking Women - 2/13/2010 10:58:29 AM   
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I like ladies. Unfortunately, there are so few of them left in the world. They're almost as endangered as panda bears.



And gentlemen even moreso...


I guess it depends what part of the world you live in. I see Ladies and Gentlemen all around me!

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RE: Talking Women - 2/13/2010 11:05:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		Oh yes, in my world, very much so.

There is one here, in my home. Many in my family and work life.

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RE: Talking Women - 2/13/2010 11:12:12 AM   
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Oh yes, in my world, very much so.

There is one here, in my home. Many in my family and work life.


We tend to attract what we put out in the world... I attract Gentlemen because I usually act like a Lady.

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RE: Talking Women - 2/13/2010 11:15:57 AM   
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I talk during sex .... hehe


Lol so do I...

my ex could not believe it that even during those times I don't mind to talk about the kitchen and shopping and whatever else was on during the day

He used to signal me on several occasions to shut up with putting his finger on my mouth

hehe me too ! And sometimes if things are going very well during I may ask how he and his day was lol


thank goodness, and I always thought I am weird....


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Talking DURING sex is great. As long as you aren't saying t hings like, "Peach. I think I'll paint the ceiling peach....."



Hmmm...what is wrong with peach??? Actually, if my ex and I would have decided to move to the next stage i would not have been surprised if at times during sex I might have realised aspects such as that the ceiling could do with new painting or that we could need new blinds, or whatever is nearby to observe during sex


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Women...always on the phone.


Nope EbonyWood...can't agree to that...these days I am far too tired after lots of talking during the days at Uni, on placement, at work, that at home I don't fancy much talks on the phone anymore...I just enjoy to rest



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RE: Talking Women - 2/13/2010 11:20:36 AM   
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Oh yes, in my world, very much so.

There is one here, in my home. Many in my family and work life.


We tend to attract what we put out in the world... I attract Gentlemen because I usually act like a Lady.

- LA



I have a feeling that there are different opinions on what a Lady is. I am guessing that yours, mine, the Gentlemen in our lives.........may have a different perspective than Loki.


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RE: Talking Women - 2/13/2010 11:27:16 AM   
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Oh yes, in my world, very much so.

There is one here, in my home. Many in my family and work life.


We tend to attract what we put out in the world... I attract Gentlemen because I usually act like a Lady.

- LA



I have a feeling that there are different opinions on what a Lady is. I am guessing that yours, mine, the Gentlemen in our lives.........may have a different perspective than Loki.



Oh I don't have to guess. I'm actually quite convinced. ;-)

- LA


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RE: Talking Women - 2/13/2010 11:30:07 AM   
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His mommy didnt breast feed him?
He had a deep seated thing for her therefore loaths her and all women?
Women are whores unless they are mothers?
Some bitch did him wrong and its all her fault, hes a victim of her sexy manipulative ways?
Hes a loser and therefore all his problems are due to some other bitch?


You talking about your daddy? Because you damned sure don't speak for me.

Though your post does wonders to illustrate my problem with women like you. I couldn't have asked for a better example.



Women like me dont care about you or your feelings about us..

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RE: Talking Women - 2/13/2010 11:35:09 AM   
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Why do you hate women?


One need not 'hate' women to be annoyed by all of their double-speaking ways. Look at this very thread. Look at my first post in this thread and how it was in reply to a very generalizing post made by -- a woman. Yet *my* generalizing posts are somehow "bad" but theirs are not? Bullshit.

And there you have it in a nutshell. I am only railing against the pussification of the American man, in whatever ways I come across it.



Thats funny. The first comment you said here was about women using mens money. That was in response to a bunch of women and men illastrating that communications style were more personality and not gender based. So tell me what generalization on this thread lead to your statement? Nothing but your biased attitudes that no one here started but you.

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RE: Talking Women - 2/13/2010 5:29:28 PM   
Loki45


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And gentlemen, even moreso...


Agreed. But the problem arises when the majority of men are *aware* they are not a gentleman and the majority of women believe that simply having their genitalia makes them a lady (it doesn't).


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RE: Talking Women - 2/13/2010 5:30:49 PM   
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Women like me dont care about you or your feelings about us..


Judging from what I've seen of you in the past, I'd say that's fairly obvious.


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RE: Talking Women - 2/13/2010 5:31:52 PM   
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Thats funny. The first comment you said here was about women using mens money. That was in response to a bunch of women and men illastrating that communications style were more personality and not gender based. So tell me what generalization on this thread lead to your statement? Nothing but your biased attitudes that no one here started but you.


Do I really have to hold your hand? My first post has a quote in it. It should then be obvious to whom I was replying and about what.

Reading is fundamental.


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RE: Talking Women - 2/13/2010 6:50:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		You mean the researcher being interviewed was misleading people?

In the right company,  my work pays the same for women or men.  I've never denied that.

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Well, you may find it unlikely, but that doesn't mean it's not true.  I heard it from the researcher involved, during an NPR broadcast.


And of course, NPR doesn't mislead about *anything* right? 

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RE: Talking Women - 2/13/2010 7:01:16 PM   
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I see Ladies and Gentlemen all around me!


I see it printed on doors a lot.

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RE: Talking Women - 2/13/2010 7:10:17 PM   
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I am certain there are men who dig it, arent there? I am wondering is it really so bad? Are there some women who might be the exception, that do hold some sort of interest and talking with them is something you look forward to? Is it the content? Or simply a general eye rolling groan if you sense a woman wanting to chat?



Depends on the conversation and the setting.....good conversation and food in a restaurant makes for a good night.......and I couldn't go out with a woman where we didn't really have much to say to one another apart from small talk.

But I need peace and quiet from time to time and were I to spend too much time in the company of a woman who couldn't stop talking about any old bollocks I'd probably strangle her and throw her in the duck pond (I'm not really advocating murder here by the way - for the easily persuaded).

Anyway - nothing better than good conversation - but as with anything the principle of quality over quantity matters here.

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RE: Talking Women - 2/13/2010 7:17:02 PM   
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You mean the researcher being interviewed was misleading people?


It's very possible. In my psych class, we've been talking about sample and researcher bias. It's not inconceivable that the researcher on a very slanted radio network has some amount of bias which prejudiced his results.

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In the right company,  my work pays the same for women or men.  I've never denied that.


In the majority of companies, I'd imagine. The trouble with the assertion that women are paid less than men is that unless you can get the guy who hired the two people in question to admit willingly that he deliberately paid the woman less on purpose, it's awefully hard to prove.

What a company pays a certain position is very subjective and influenced by many factors. Perhaps the man was hire when the company was doing very well and the woman was not. Who knows. Perhaps he exuded confidence in his interview whereas she seemed overly green, yet capable. In my mom's office, she was making one amount, with 30 years of experience, and another *woman* came into her office with not even half that experience making more money. Sometimes shit happens. Sometimes the boss is a jerk or there are other factors involved.

The fact is, the pay gap is a perception that is very difficult to prove out right. As I've said, since I joined the work force in the mid-90's, I've held *no* job where I was paid more than women or vice versa. Every position I've held from grocery clerk, to the military, to various temp jobs has paid the same amount no matter what was between my legs.

I can't even imagine what field it would be that pays the woman less. Though, in my honest opinion, if there were such a field, I could certainly understand it. A conversation as recently as last night with my boss leads me to think that women can often be unreliable. We had some bad weather here the past two days. All the men fought through it and showed up for work. Nearly all the women stayed home. Couple that with things like maternity leave where the rest of the office will inevitably have to pick up slack for someone who wants their career and their family too and if those people are making the same amount, you do a disservice to the ones left holding the bag in the office. Why should they make the same amount while doing double the work when their coworker is absent? But that's another debate entirely.


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RE: Talking Women - 2/13/2010 7:25:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't think women are more unreliable than men; my mom drove to her job at a small grocery store, at 3 AM, for many years, come hell or highwater. Now, this may not sound like a big deal, but my mom was literally terrified of driving; she had been thrown through the windshield of a car, and ran over, and had a huge mental block about it. But push came to shove, and she did what she had to do.

Same thing with my current employer; she's a Justice of the Peace, and has to go out into not only horrible weather at all times of day and night, but she has to see some awfully gruesome things on inquests. She does not flinch from her duty, unlike a couple of the male judges around here do.

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RE: Talking Women - 2/14/2010 1:54:01 AM   
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I don't think women are more unreliable than men; my mom drove to her job at a small grocery store, at 3 AM, for many years, come hell or highwater. Now, this may not sound like a big deal, but my mom was literally terrified of driving; she had been thrown through the windshield of a car, and ran over, and had a huge mental block about it. But push came to shove, and she did what she had to do.

Same thing with my current employer; she's a Justice of the Peace, and has to go out into not only horrible weather at all times of day and night, but she has to see some awfully gruesome things on inquests. She does not flinch from her duty, unlike a couple of the male judges around here do.


I did say "often," not "all." There were two female employees where I work that were there like always. But there were at least 4 that were too 'scared' or whatever to get out in the weather.


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