Phoenixpower
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or that need to complain, without any desire to fix things. Yes, I know women like to express, and hate it when men try to fix things. But it is still annoying, like a metric socket on a Imperial nut- GRRR WTF!
well, whilst I don't count myself into that category, that reminds me on a colleague who moaned a lot about our employer within the last years...but did she ever bother to get her arse up when I informed her about great alternatives Particular as she was on the relief bank, and therefore would not have lost her current employer with just applying at one of the other ones and potentially giving it a go to work for them...of course not 
Needless to say, these days I don't listen to her moan anymore...if she wants to moan I inform her that I "need to go." (when we are on the phone...my patience is finally gone.)
Reg. EbonyWood
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Irony being, MzM, that when women are really really really angry, they cannot say a word.
I had that experience end of last year as a few people know from Cmail when I had my first meeting again (after many years break up) with my casual Dom...I got so pissy at him on that occasion that I had no desire at all to say a word. I know he wanted to fix the situation and wanted me to talk...but I was not able to...all I wanted was to go.
Once I was back home and had my sleep, the day after I was able to email him why I was as wind up as I was and we decided a few weeks later to meet up again...and on that occasion it was a great meeting...
so whilst this happens rarely that I can't talk...on that occasion it is true as for me it was done at that moment. No matter how much understanding he would have given and whatever...I had no desire anymore at all on that occasion to stay there one second longer than necessary and all I wanted was to go NOW.
Lol and regarding Stevie...
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I have heard that women need more talk time than men do.
I need some quiet time after a day at work Any woman with me needs to give me that.
But I love chat during breakfast, when 99% of the human race is still sleepy...
A relationship with a guy like you would be a very quiet one...you would be on your own during breakfast as I usually don't do breakfast (I simply can't eat that early and stay in bed as long as possible before I have to get up) and after work...well, there it is time to let off steam at home....so there you would run off to get your peace or gag me to shut up  (I assume)
With my current potential Master so far it appears we have a similar understanding of the level of talking we like...we both don't talk like a book (well...I can, but for that there has to be a real reason behind it, such as catching up the last 6 months or so) and when I managed to touch a topic he wants me to stop, then he will tell me to stop...
that being said, the first time I did not get it (or well, I did not take it serious enough)...so it did wind him up...however, as communication is important for both of us we reflected at a later stage why he got bossy at me...
another time I managed again to find a topic he did not like...there he decided to rephrase it...and said "bite your tongue."
This time, I got him straight away  and he had no need to get bossy at me 
And thats one of the things I like about this guy...he can tell me to shut up...but he also shows creativity to make himself heard
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