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ORIGINAL: alicenwondrland

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They failed to convince me their One True Way was correct and, being unable to tolerate anyone who challenged their authority, they had me banned.

Are you sure they have a One True Way or are they more similar to you than you think?

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ORIGINAL: Lockit
Don't put words in my mouth. I didn't say you were unhinged. ... Even when people offered you kindness in your grief, you lashed out with all you lash out with.

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ORIGINAL: BLoved

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I can find respect for people who make mistakes and admit them as a few posters on this thread have. Bloved, you have had people gracefully admit to some error and a smoother path was found. I can respect that a lot and I am sure other's can as well.

But you continue to blame others, deflect and refuse to address your own actions that were blantant on these boards before and to this day. You will not confront where you may have a personal issue other than grief that may justify many things, but not many of the things you perpetuate upon others. That is not grief, but a charactor issue in my opinion.

You have proven yourself well. Thank you and have a good night.

I can understand the need to claim I am in some way unhinged, how else can you explain anyone challenging your authority aside from insanity?

Unfortunately, my words fail to provide any evidence of this.

Attempts to claim I am somehow grief-stricken and not in control of myself are laughable, considering how this thread has unfolded.

While the immature will lap it up, the lady I seek won't be found amongst them.

Enjoy your evening with the immature whom you are so eager to impress.

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ORIGINAL: Lockit
No long post to prove anything.

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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

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ORIGINAL: alicenwondrland

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They failed to convince me their One True Way was correct and, being unable to tolerate anyone who challenged their authority, they had me banned.

Are you sure they have a One True Way or are they more similar to you than you think?

We need a smiley with a pot calling a kettle black.

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ORIGINAL: alicenwondrland

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No Wendy/Alice  you are not an attacker.  You are a cowardly sniper, hiding behind the anonymity of email.  And you had no problem making several attempted self-esteem assassinations in the past.  Just because you wake up in a new world every day, doesn't mean everyone else does.

Well sure because, EMAIL and MESSAGE BOARDS are so different. I think what you *really* mean, WD, is that if I attack you via EMAIL- it is one on one; whereas if I attack you on the MESSAGE BOARD, your groupthink gang will all come to defend you. Is that what you mean by being a 'cowardly sniper'? Fighting you fairly?

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ORIGINAL: BLoved

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ORIGINAL: Lockit
No long post to prove anything.

Almost 700 posts to tell collarme I am a worthless human being undeserving of human company?

~smile~

I think there are more than a few who felt the need to "prove" something.

This thread is a testament to their 'maturity'.

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

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No Wendy/Alice  you are not an attacker.  You are a cowardly sniper, hiding behind the anonymity of email.  And you had no problem making several attempted self-esteem assassinations in the past.  Just because you wake up in a new world every day, doesn't mean everyone else does.

Well sure because, EMAIL and MESSAGE BOARDS are so different. I think what you *really* mean, WD, is that if I attack you via EMAIL- it is one on one; whereas if I attack you on the MESSAGE BOARD, your groupthink gang will all come to defend you. Is that what you mean by being a 'cowardly sniper'? Fighting you fairly?

No AliceDarling, I'm saying I think it is deceitful cowardly sniping to viciously insult, threaten, malign and/or attack numerous people in unsolicted email, block them before they can respond, and then attempt to present ones self as a misunderstood victim being ganged up on by the masses. 

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ORIGINAL: Smutmonger
Bob,I am sorry the you feel so alone and unfullfilled. How do you think you can change your life to overcome this?

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

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No Wendy/Alice  you are not an attacker.  You are a cowardly sniper, hiding behind the anonymity of email.  And you had no problem making several attempted self-esteem assassinations in the past.  Just because you wake up in a new world every day, doesn't mean everyone else does.

Well sure because, EMAIL and MESSAGE BOARDS are so different. I think what you *really* mean, WD, is that if I attack you via EMAIL- it is one on one; whereas if I attack you on the MESSAGE BOARD, your groupthink gang will all come to defend you. Is that what you mean by being a 'cowardly sniper'? Fighting you fairly?

No AliceDarling, I'm saying I think it is deceitful cowardly sniping to viciously insult, threaten, malign and/or attack numerous people in unsolicted email, block them before they can respond, and then attempt to present ones self as a misunderstood victim being ganged up on by the masses. 

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ORIGINAL: BLoved

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Bob,I am sorry the you feel so alone and unfullfilled. How do you think you can change your life to overcome this?

I don't think it is a matter of changing my life, so much as living my life honestly and honourably.

Life is a process. Through life I grow, learn, express, consider, explore, experience, reflect, re-consider, and grow some more.

We are social creatures, most at ease within secure social networks. Love is the ultimate expression of our social nature. Thus I seek the opportunity to develop a loving relationship with a lady who wishes to follow where I lead, a lady for whom I inspire her best as she inspires me to achieve my best.

Whether that opportunity will again appear in my life I cannot say. I am well aware of the odds against it, yet the odds have always been against it and I've been fortunate enough to have known true love three times in my life, spanning 20 of the past 27 years.

Of course I was younger and lived in Canada's largest city at the time.

The last time I did this I was in my 30s. I am discovering it is not nearly as easy at 52 (which I will be 'celebrating' in a week).

But I know life offers no guarantees, and I expect none.

Life is a process ... either my path will lead me to the lady I seek, or it won't. Either way, the only way to find out is to live my life honestly and honourably.

And I have no intentions of changing that.

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ORIGINAL: alicenwondrland
BOB you need to know that you are NOT a worthless human being undeserving of human company!!!! I have enjoyed speaking with you!

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

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ORIGINAL: alicenwondrland

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No Wendy/Alice  you are not an attacker.  You are a cowardly sniper, hiding behind the anonymity of email.  And you had no problem making several attempted self-esteem assassinations in the past.  Just because you wake up in a new world every day, doesn't mean everyone else does.

Well sure because, EMAIL and MESSAGE BOARDS are so different. I think what you *really* mean, WD, is that if I attack you via EMAIL- it is one on one; whereas if I attack you on the MESSAGE BOARD, your groupthink gang will all come to defend you. Is that what you mean by being a 'cowardly sniper'? Fighting you fairly?

No AliceDarling, I'm saying I think it is deceitful cowardly sniping to viciously insult, threaten, malign and/or attack numerous people in unsolicted email, block them before they can respond, and then attempt to present ones self as a misunderstood victim being ganged up on by the masses. 

#1. Desperately enraged, the emails may be. Immature even. But deceitful and cowardly- certainly not, when you and your cronies both started attacked me unprovoked first- and also continued to attack me viciously on the boards. Also I will have you know that there were members of the board (can't remember who now) who - before *I* sent any of those emails out- had done the same thing to me. One of your friends I suppose. So do not try to play innocent. You're a big girl. With a bunch of friends on here.
#2. It's pretty obvious whether or not I was a "misunderstood victim ganged up on by the masses". It's all there.It's not just me you guys do this too. THIS IS WHAT YOU GUYS DO. You are predators. Over and over you d the same thing. So many of you have been banned in the past.

I never said I was a victim or tried to "play" anything in any way". How could I be misunderstood" when on a MESSAGE BOARD? I AM WRITING. WORDS. They mean what they appear to mean- I am not a San bushmen or a member of the Yanomano tribe. I am not dyslexic. If I was misunderstood then it was my fault for writing unclearly. Everything I wrote I mean. Where did I say I was misunderstood?

Further, most importantly, I WAS "ganged up on by the masses" as I have mentioned before. If there is one person fighting (in whatever way) against 20 or 30 people would you say this is A FAIR FIGHT?

Yet here you are weeks later complaining about how I sent you an angry email and how DARE I call anyone on ganing up against me.

jesus friggchristf@^E%#*@shit

Entertainment out.

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I've seen people get there by innumerable ways Bob. I know that you feel you must do it by a certain formula. I see the end result as being the valued part-not neccesarily doing it by a set path.

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ORIGINAL: BLoved
The last time I did this I was in my 30s. I am discovering it is not nearly as easy at 52 (which I will be 'celebrating' in a week).