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alicenwondrland -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/19/2010 1:06:06 PM)
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Not understanding, in the context of my remarks, is a friendly companion to "not giving a fuck why the hell anyone is harping on [your] gender, it's completely irrelevant and reflects poorly on the attacker."
You stated "put me in the group of people who don't understand or agree with the harping on her gender" since my profile states Im female- and you don't care because it is a silly insult. Yes I understand both points fully. There is no micomunication. No reason to clarify anything here.
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What I can't agree with is the implicit assumption that anyone reading or responding to you would necessarily be following all your drama.
WOW! I said EXACTLY the opposite: "....please think for a minute about the context that I may be attacking these people in- that is, you may have not seen ALL that that person may have said to me. I *rarely* read even the entire page, and *never* read the entire thread."
I am fully aware that much of the attacks on my physical appearance probably stemmed from people reading only the previous page or so and assuming I was the foremost attacker of people's looks, or that I had somehow touted how I was a perfect 10 or some such thing- in order to fairly garner ALL the vicious personal attacks I was getting "oh you are NOT that hot..sort of attitude (some state they are sorry now. *shrugs*). MEANING: I assume people only saw A BIT of what happened and made faulty conclusions about me and how to react to me. Trust me I get it.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_3071215/mpage_55/key_/tm.htm#3075966
So I do NOT know why you think I assumed everyone was "following all my drama".
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...until you stated that I had made a "mean first post." A statement that confused and amused me for assorted reasons I don't need to go into now.
Honestly? what the heck are you talking about? I am glad something that doesn't make sense amuses you; it just annoys me. Different personalities.
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And just as I don't really care why people decided it was an awesome idea to start insulting you by calling you a biological male, the number of people who were really really mean to you before you started flinging shallow and silly insults around doesn't change my opinion that your insults are shallow and silly.
Agreed entirely. However- two things- ALL my insults were not shallow and silly. In fact, as I explained in the above post (the link)- I ONLY RESORTED to such insults once someone has shown themselves to be quite vicious, and when I believe part of their viciousness stems from jealousy of me.
Further, only a person out of touch with reality or almost sociopathic could not understand how a woman would not freak out and become very, very hurt or enraged by a strong (17 pages worth) of getting called ugly, manly, anorexic, big nosed, crazy idiot, etc. etc.
So you can remain on your purported moral highground all you want, but this is the way things are here on this board. Some of the most despiccable behavior, issuing from some of the most despiccable people- looks-wise, intelligence-wise, morally, socially- people filled with insecurity, a predatory nature, and not very in touch with reality. It is clear and if I have to spell this out so much for people who are in denial then. EVERYONE KNOWS what happens on the internet. On bathroom walls. Anywhere that is open to EVERYONE and where people who work very hard in their daily life to "fit in" no longer have to.
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If you feel like you have to write a 1000 word essay "justifying" your insults, then you probably shouldn't make them in the first place.
I didn't it took: only this
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"1. I have been attacked by like 3 people at once previously- so I am enraged and hurt at this point.
2. This person has attacked my looks, without provocation, before. I am only returning the favor.
3. I think it's only fair to note that there are both men and women in the world who can be quite nasty to people who are significantly more attractive than they are. Ask any women who is attractive, they *will* tell you this. I promise you!!! I get nasty looks all the time by older ugly women when I simply waiting in line at the drug store and have made no eye contact with her until I realize someone is glaring at me. I in fact will bet any single person here, $100 that you will get the same answer if you take a random poll and ask if they feel that other women have not in the past been nasty towards them based on their looks. Or you could also do google reserach if you don't believe me. *sigh* I'd thought it was common knowledge. But here? It's rude to call this out, but let me clarify that I am stating this to give some background to the psychology of what has happened here. Plenty of people on this thread have manipulated things to seem as if somehow it is ME that is some TERRIBLE, GRINDINGLY SHALLOW NAME-CALLING human when I was consistently attacked for NOTHING BUT my looks for 17 pages almost- and in fact, continue to be ( no seriously, get a life!) AND further, I AM ONLY CALLING THEM OUT ON JEALOUSY BEING THE REASON FOR THEIR ABUSE."
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If I'm calling someone a dumbshit it's because I think they're a dumbshit, it's not because they called me a bitch first.
I am not impressed by your sophistry- you seem to be under the impression that I somehow never *actually* meant the insults I'd said. I did. But I SAID them, which was wrong and petty. If I find someone hideous on many levels, I am not going to SAY it unless they start bullying or harassing me. So. I don't really see your point here.
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