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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88



Well then....I shall order the tuna...tartar.

You'll barely notice it then! You have thwarted my plans yet again....

I am a drunken thwarter. . Let's go to dinner.

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ORIGINAL: osf

to undress in a restaurant would you expect her to regardless of the consequences?

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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ORIGINAL: CaringandReal

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ORIGINAL: osf

If you told your slave...

...to undress in a restaurant would you expect her to regardless of the consequences?

OSF, reading your threads can be like watching the penultimate scene to Taming of the Shrew, over and over and over again. Not that I mind, in fact, I love that particular scene, but the "high" reponses ("I will intentionally miss the point of the question even if it makes me look dumb as shit because I so desperately need to villify this guy") you get in here are quite interesting as well as amusing. Your "inner daddy" seems to be bringing out all the angry rebellious teenage-girl feelings in the fem-snark population here, lol.

But what is really interesting to me is that this sort of scenario (obeying without question) has dozens, if not hundreds of mudane and totally safe counterparts in an ordinary (is there such a thing? :) ) power exchange relationship. We (submissives who are controlled in any significant way) all face these situations in which for whatever reason (horrible day at work, losing an old friend, got a traffic ticket, burned the cassarole, etc.) we are in a terrible mood and just do not want to obey the order we have just been given. In those situations it's very easy to "turn all legal" on one's dominant and find all kinds of reasons and excuses for why simply obeying him or her would be the worst thing possible and, in fact, do you irrepairable psychic damage. That's what these thread protestations remind me of: that sort of weaselly reasoning that almost all of us on occasion to get out of simply obeying. I've had a lot of experience in the slave role, but the legal-weasel mindset is still something I have to be constantly vigilant for. It starts to creep in, interestingly, when you start to feel secure around your dominant, certain he's not going to abandon you or you accidentally alienate him.

Anyway, I've highjacked this thread enough. I found it interesting however, to contrast the submissive responses in this thread to the submissive responses to those in This Thread, going on at the same time. You'd almost think two different sets of people were responding, not the same individuals. This extreme contrast in these two threads is saying something about lipsevice to ideals we all want to believe in (or believe about ourselves) vs. the actual difficult facing of hard reality.

I like you..even if you have blocked me lol.

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ORIGINAL: osf

to undress in a restaurant would you expect her to regardless of the consequences?

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ORIGINAL: osf

to undress in a restaurant would you expect her to regardless of the consequences?

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

~ Fast Blink ~

Sure - I don't understand what the big deal is about it. We enjoyed a wonderful naked dinner the last time we dined at 'Opague'. No big deal.

I borrow a lesson learned from my Realtor. The three most important rules about any order given to a slave; "Location, location, location".

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ORIGINAL: CaringandReal

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ORIGINAL: osf

If you told your slave...

...to undress in a restaurant would you expect her to regardless of the consequences?

OSF, reading your threads can be like watching the penultimate scene to Taming of the Shrew, over and over and over again. Not that I mind, in fact, I love that particular scene, but the "high" reponses ("I will intentionally miss the point of the question even if it makes me look dumb as shit because I so desperately need to villify this guy") you get in here are quite interesting as well as amusing. Your "inner daddy" seems to be bringing out all the angry rebellious teenage-girl feelings in the fem-snark population here, lol.

But what is really interesting to me is that this sort of scenario (obeying without question) has dozens, if not hundreds of mudane and totally safe counterparts in an ordinary (is there such a thing? :) ) power exchange relationship. We (submissives who are controlled in any significant way) all face these situations in which for whatever reason (horrible day at work, losing an old friend, got a traffic ticket, burned the cassarole, etc.) we are in a terrible mood and just do not want to obey the order we have just been given. In those situations it's very easy to "turn all legal" on one's dominant and find all kinds of reasons and excuses for why simply obeying him or her would be the worst thing possible and, in fact, do you irrepairable psychic damage. That's what these thread protestations remind me of: that sort of weaselly reasoning that almost all of us on occasion to get out of simply obeying. I've had a lot of experience in the slave role, but the legal-weasel mindset is still something I have to be constantly vigilant for. It starts to creep in, interestingly, when you start to feel secure around your dominant, certain he's not going to abandon you or you accidentally alienate him.

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to undress in a restaurant would you expect her to regardless of the consequences?

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

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ORIGINAL: CaringandReal

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ORIGINAL: osf

If you told your slave...

...to undress in a restaurant would you expect her to regardless of the consequences?

OSF, reading your threads can be like watching the penultimate scene to Taming of the Shrew, over and over and over again. Not that I mind, in fact, I love that particular scene, but the "high" reponses ("I will intentionally miss the point of the question even if it makes me look dumb as shit because I so desperately need to villify this guy") you get in here are quite interesting as well as amusing. Your "inner daddy" seems to be bringing out all the angry rebellious teenage-girl feelings in the fem-snark population here, lol.

But what is really interesting to me is that this sort of scenario (obeying without question) has dozens, if not hundreds of mudane and totally safe counterparts in an ordinary (is there such a thing? :) ) power exchange relationship. We (submissives who are controlled in any significant way) all face these situations in which for whatever reason (horrible day at work, losing an old friend, got a traffic ticket, burned the cassarole, etc.) we are in a terrible mood and just do not want to obey the order we have just been given. In those situations it's very easy to "turn all legal" on one's dominant and find all kinds of reasons and excuses for why simply obeying him or her would be the worst thing possible and, in fact, do you irrepairable psychic damage. That's what these thread protestations remind me of: that sort of weaselly reasoning that almost all of us on occasion to get out of simply obeying. I've had a lot of experience in the slave role, but the legal-weasel mindset is still something I have to be constantly vigilant for. It starts to creep in, interestingly, when you start to feel secure around your dominant, certain he's not going to abandon you or you accidentally alienate him.

First off.....osf's "inner daddy" electrocuted himself years ago...While in the tub he was pondering, "what if I drop this toaster into the bathtub?

Secondly, Your post was weak. The majority of what we do usually does not include others. We usually do not have people we don't know or who are not consenting to our thang participate. Sabe?

Why would a sub "turn all legal" when I request her to do something?....suck my cock, cook some food, give me a back rub, eat out subsusie....Especially when it is being done in private...What the fuck?

I didn't read the whole thing but I didn't see too many posts where people talked about "irreparable" psychic damage". Unless they were talking about the possible long term effects of reading too many osf posts.

I have fucked outside, gotten blowjobs by the Lake front, fingered and rammed toys up some holes under a skirt or in the shadows of darkness. Was there a possibility in getting caught?...Very remote. Most were done at night where no children were present.

The longer I stay on these forums the more I conclude that too many of you fuckers are nuts. Even when requesting some head, I cannot think of a single time that my sub/girlfriend didn't first look around before enjoying all that the domidong has to offer.

You don't think that your Dom would ever put you in harms way? How could someone ever reach that conclusion? Of course he would!!! Don't you people read these forums!! These people are idiots!!! Nuts...Bonkers...Morons!!! So many of you are insufferable douchenozzles, pretty much damaged beyond repair. No one can fix you. You be broke.

I really do believe that a grave number of women out here who say that they will blindly follow some dude have absolutely nothing to lose. Nothing. They have pissed it all away...They are crazy. And let's face facts here, crazy attracts crazy.

"Crazy,
Over the rainbow, you are crazy,
Bars in the window.
There must have been a door there in the wall
When you came in.
Crazy, over the rainbow, you are crazy."

I expect my sub to do as she is told....When I tell her to cross the street....She better get her fat ass across the fucking street. She would also be a complete fucking idiot if she didn't look both ways before doing so. I might have not seen that truck...Or maybe I am just so fucking excited to watch her fat ass go across the street that I didn't really think out the ramifications if she were to be hit.

I hate all of you......................Yay!!!

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

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Sure - I don't understand what the big deal is about it. We enjoyed a wonderful naked dinner the last time we dined at 'Opague'. No big deal.

I borrow a lesson learned from my Realtor. The three most important rules about any order given to a slave; "Location, location, location".

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Only a low IQ slave with a moron for a owner would do this. Owners are supposed to protect their property, this is an example of NOT protecting the property. Owners are supposed to THINK ahead, this is an example of not thinking ahead.

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to undress in a restaurant would you expect her to regardless of the consequences?

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

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some of us do......LOL

agirl

May I ask you if your Owner has ever asked you to take off your clothes in a public restaurant?
What if there were children around?
What if you knew and he knew you would be arrested?

I mean, you say with such conviction that you would do it no questions asked.

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to undress in a restaurant would you expect her to regardless of the consequences?

I can imagine circumstances where such an order, as worded in the op, could be carried out without landing one’s ass in jail.

I’m confident he would not risk my being arrested, so, yes.

Kim

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seeing titties never hurt nobody anyway,

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I don't think using reason and common sense regarding legal ramifications is weasely.  Fact is, one of my few hard limits is anything illegal.  It makes my choice simple.

Obey - risk legal repercussions
Disobey - risk ending the relationship

My Master tells me to swallow that balloon filled with heroin before boarding the plane.  Do I obey regardless of consequences?
Hell no.

My Master tells me to coerce that pretty little under age thing into getting into the car so he can take her home.  Do I obey regardless of consequences?
Hell the fuck no.

Its simple really. 

But, I'm the first to admit I make a very bad slave.  I suck at it.